higmno: Do you think past relationship secrets should always be kept hidden?
This chestnut has come up before. Personally, I believe that there are some events and circumstances in ones' life that are just fine kept. Not everything, including relationships, are necessarily a current mate's business. Who the hell decided this to be so, in the first place? Many women keep "the little things", as they refer to them, from their boyfriends or husbands. Their defense is that is would just pester them anyway, and why make trouble...Men have the same privilege. No, I do not think "always" is a good way to put it, either, but to answer the question the way I choose to, then I say that it is perfectly all right to keep some things to ones' self.
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