Ignorance or Discussion (49)
AnOrdinaryWoman: What is your way to end up any kind of relationship:
- being ignorant, just turning your back on everything, brushing it off and moving on
- you prefer to say, to express your reasons (with no way to be talk out to think twice), maybe explain.....at least all we are just humans
Thanks
- being ignorant, just turning your back on everything, brushing it off and moving on
- you prefer to say, to express your reasons (with no way to be talk out to think twice), maybe explain.....at least all we are just humans
Thanks
As much as it may be tempting and "an easy way out" to end a relationship or friendship by simply ignoring or brushing the other party aside,,its a pretty cowardly and childish thing to do.
Decent mature adults owe it to each other to explain and discuss the reasons as to why any frienship/relationships may or may not work out.
It does take maturity and strength of character on both sides to deal with matters of this nature,and its not easy to tell someone things they may not want to hear,,but its not right to just cut someone out of the picture without a reasonable explanation as to why....
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twazzle70: As much as it may be tempting and "an easy way out" to end a relationship or friendship by simply ignoring or brushing the other party aside,,its a pretty cowardly and childish thing to do.
Decent mature adults owe it to each other to explain and discuss the reasons as to why any frienship/relationships may or may not work out.
It does take maturity and strength of character on both sides to deal with matters of this nature,and its not easy to tell someone things they may not want to hear,,but its not right to just cut someone out of the picture without a reasonable explanation as to why....
:WTF banana I think.
Decent mature adults owe it to each other to explain and discuss the reasons as to why any frienship/relationships may or may not work out.
It does take maturity and strength of character on both sides to deal with matters of this nature,and its not easy to tell someone things they may not want to hear,,but its not right to just cut someone out of the picture without a reasonable explanation as to why....
:WTF banana I think.
You got it, T! YO, howz my fav'rite Lime? Nice to see you this morning, mate.------ This thread is Archived ------
AnOrdinaryWoman: people are not toys for sure, and yes I do agree that everyone needs to here some words...some sort of explanation
Good morning honey--I may be in Nev. around the holidays. Sierras, Carson, Virginia City.------ This thread is Archived ------
rohaan: You got it, T! YO, howz my fav'rite Lime? Nice to see you this morning, mate.
Hello guv,nor
Im pretty good thanks,,i do hope things are much the same with you.
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twazzle70: As much as it may be tempting and "an easy way out" to end a relationship or friendship by simply ignoring or brushing the other party aside,,its a pretty cowardly and childish thing to do.
Decent mature adults owe it to each other to explain and discuss the reasons as to why any frienship/relationships may or may not work out.
It does take maturity and strength of character on both sides to deal with matters of this nature,and its not easy to tell someone things they may not want to hear,,but its not right to just cut someone out of the picture without a reasonable explanation as to why....
:WTF banana I think.
Decent mature adults owe it to each other to explain and discuss the reasons as to why any frienship/relationships may or may not work out.
It does take maturity and strength of character on both sides to deal with matters of this nature,and its not easy to tell someone things they may not want to hear,,but its not right to just cut someone out of the picture without a reasonable explanation as to why....
:WTF banana I think.
That is my thoughts too.
But my coworker says that in the USA they just walk away....with no words....So, for a moment I got confused. And I was thinking what you just said: cowards and people who want to pretend that they are "something" (but they are not really) will move on with no words. People with moral, inner strength and character will stand in the front of other person and explain
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You cant beat a shovel 
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An expalnation is always good.. Unless he's passed out like my husband was..then a note is just as good..I wrote a nice big GOOD BYE in red paint onthe bedroom wall before leaving
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serena123: An expalnation is always good.. Unless he's passed out like my husband was..then a note is just as good..I wrote a nice big GOOD BYE in red paint onthe bedroom wall before leaving
Note to self
.. Be careful of serena. A little mad with a bit of an attitude
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twazzle70: As much as it may be tempting and "an easy way out" to end a relationship or friendship by simply ignoring or brushing the other party aside,,its a pretty cowardly and childish thing to do.
Decent mature adults owe it to each other to explain and discuss the reasons as to why any frienship/relationships may or may not work out.
It does take maturity and strength of character on both sides to deal with matters of this nature,and its not easy to tell someone things they may not want to hear,,but its not right to just cut someone out of the picture without a reasonable explanation as to why....
:WTF banana I think.
Decent mature adults owe it to each other to explain and discuss the reasons as to why any frienship/relationships may or may not work out.
It does take maturity and strength of character on both sides to deal with matters of this nature,and its not easy to tell someone things they may not want to hear,,but its not right to just cut someone out of the picture without a reasonable explanation as to why....
:WTF banana I think.
Great reply Twazz...I couldn't have said it any better.
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truheart1941: huh your just scared..of a little passion.......
Passion I like, a baseball bat over my head is a different story .
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AnOrdinaryWoman: At least you try
that counts to :)
But leaving with no words is complete ignorance ....that is different (youa re not ignorant than)
that counts to :)
But leaving with no words is complete ignorance ....that is different (youa re not ignorant than)
I take it you've had some bad experiences in the past... I'm only assuming but it's not the dumping that's most hurtful, it's the lack of closure or a reason why.
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allthegoodnamest: I take it you've had some bad experiences in the past... I'm only assuming but it's not the dumping that's most hurtful, it's the lack of closure or a reason why.
I would say luck of culture and good manners
all that is just a life.......and way to learn :)
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allthegoodnamest: Sometime you've got to take the rough with the smooth, but I'm sure willow knows what's she's doing.. I hope.
yes....its a plain as the nose on your face.....she has the hots for you...... ------ This thread is Archived ------
AnOrdinaryWoman: What is your way to end up any kind of relationship:
- being ignorant, just turning your back on everything, brushing it off and moving on
- you prefer to say, to express your reasons (with no way to be talk out to think twice), maybe explain.....at least all we are just humans
Thanks
- being ignorant, just turning your back on everything, brushing it off and moving on
- you prefer to say, to express your reasons (with no way to be talk out to think twice), maybe explain.....at least all we are just humans
Thanks
we do what we can do at the time, and if an ending or a good bye was selfish, leaving someone wondering, perhaps we could backtrack and offer an explanation at a future time when emotions aren't running so high.
But sometimes the other person is not really interested in an explanation. when that happens we can at least day we tried.
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felixis99: we do what we can do at the time, and if an ending or a good bye was selfish, leaving someone wondering, perhaps we could backtrack and offer an explanation at a future time when emotions aren't running so high.
But sometimes the other person is not really interested in an explanation. when that happens we can at least day we tried.
But sometimes the other person is not really interested in an explanation. when that happens we can at least day we tried.
SAY we tried
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felixis99: we do what we can do at the time, and if an ending or a good bye was selfish, leaving someone wondering, perhaps we could backtrack and offer an explanation at a future time when emotions aren't running so high.
But sometimes the other person is not really interested in an explanation. when that happens we can at least day we tried.
But sometimes the other person is not really interested in an explanation. when that happens we can at least day we tried.
I usually say what i have
and I think "interested in explanation" is not good excuse .... I would more take it as not interested in other side.....
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- being ignorant, just turning your back on everything, brushing it off and moving on
- you prefer to say, to express your reasons (with no way to be talk out to think twice), maybe explain.....at least all we are just humans
Thanks