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Nov 5, 2015 3:26 AM CST Ignorance or Discussion
Cocheta
CochetaCochetaunknown, Western Cape South Africa1 Threads 2,021 Posts
chris27292729: Course silence is better.
If your partner is determent to dump you,
whats the point discussing it.

Not discussing it is cowardly, but each to their own, I guess...
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Nov 5, 2015 3:26 AM CST Ignorance or Discussion
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
serene56: I'm straightforward when ending a relationship.



Men don't do mixed messages, they need to hear it clear and loud, and know where they stand.

As we all do, really.

The same applies to the Ladies.
Some, don't want accept is over,and done with.
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Nov 5, 2015 3:33 AM CST Ignorance or Discussion
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Cocheta: Not discussing it is cowardly, but each to their own, I guess...

The dumping,it doesn't come out of the blue.
Obviously were,recent or past signs,and am sure discussions,that the relationship, was heading for the rocks.
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Nov 5, 2015 3:37 AM CST Ignorance or Discussion
Cocheta
CochetaCochetaunknown, Western Cape South Africa1 Threads 2,021 Posts
chris27292729: The dumping,it doesn't come out of the blue.
Obviously were,recent or past signs,and am sure discussions,that the relationship, was heading for the rocks.


Agreed... I'm not talking about the obvious though, I'm referring to the 'out of nowhere' dumping...
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Nov 5, 2015 3:38 AM CST Ignorance or Discussion
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
chris27292729: The same applies to the Ladies.
Some, don't want accept is over,and done with.



That's right.
The silence I spoke about is silence to hear it is over.
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Nov 5, 2015 3:40 AM CST Ignorance or Discussion
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
chris27292729: The same applies to the Ladies.
Some, don't want accept is over,and done with.



I agree.


The end of a relationship is rarely simple, but if the person who is ending it is honest and clearcut with their words then..

The other person has to deal with it, and if they can't, it's their problem isn't it wine
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Nov 5, 2015 3:51 AM CST Ignorance or Discussion
the best way is for men/woman is to exchange telephone no,s....when the *need to....occurs.*...this way...your happy....he is happy....thus your every day life is not affected.......batting batting batting giggle giggle giggle rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 5, 2015 7:57 AM CST Ignorance or Discussion
Cocheta: I think one of the cruelest and most painful things one can do to another person is to leave without an explanation or goodbye. How can you deal with something if you don't know what you're dealing with...


I agree. I had lived my whole life with never having a relationship end.....even old boyfriends were still friends etc....until recently. It's a long story but I now realize that people like that are the ones with the problem and the way, in the place I was raised up was the better way.
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Nov 5, 2015 8:31 AM CST Ignorance or Discussion
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Cocheta: Agreed... I'm not talking about the obvious though, I'm referring to the 'out of nowhere' dumping...

Is it such a thing, as ""out of nowhere"" dumping???
Unless the person, could predict the future,and then made a
decision.. """Better say,bye bye charlie,in this early stage, than sorry later"""
professor
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