Cocheta: Not discussing it is cowardly, but each to their own, I guess...
The dumping,it doesn't come out of the blue. Obviously were,recent or past signs,and am sure discussions,that the relationship, was heading for the rocks.
Cochetaunknown, Western Cape South Africa2,021 posts
chris27292729: The dumping,it doesn't come out of the blue. Obviously were,recent or past signs,and am sure discussions,that the relationship, was heading for the rocks.
Agreed... I'm not talking about the obvious though, I'm referring to the 'out of nowhere' dumping...
the best way is for men/woman is to exchange telephone no,s....when the *need to....occurs.*...this way...your happy....he is happy....thus your every day life is not affected.......
Cocheta: I think one of the cruelest and most painful things one can do to another person is to leave without an explanation or goodbye. How can you deal with something if you don't know what you're dealing with...
I agree. I had lived my whole life with never having a relationship end.....even old boyfriends were still friends etc....until recently. It's a long story but I now realize that people like that are the ones with the problem and the way, in the place I was raised up was the better way.
Cocheta: Agreed... I'm not talking about the obvious though, I'm referring to the 'out of nowhere' dumping...
Is it such a thing, as ""out of nowhere"" dumping??? Unless the person, could predict the future,and then made a decision.. """Better say,bye bye charlie,in this early stage, than sorry later"""
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If your partner is determent to dump you,
whats the point discussing it.
Not discussing it is cowardly, but each to their own, I guess...