In order to catch the attention from who ever we are interested, there are some factors to consider. Because someone may send a message, a flower or rating a picture that does not mean the person will automatically answer to the sender.
We all set our minds in some particular characteristics on the kind of person may accept. However, at the other side of the computer they are doing the same. Factors such as, physical appearance, age, kind of job, income, education level, culture, language, skin color, couch type or physical active, ending divorce or widow, never had kids, cosmetics adorned or sport active, cost of maintenance, just to name a few.
A especial factor is for ladies who are in living in a poor country may take any guy even if he is almost at one step to fall in the grave.
As we know, the "especial" person is different for everybody and she/he could be anywhere, but......Before we try to look to anyone over any website; we most asset ourselves with honesty. Especially for mature candidates who had already some good or bad experiences, it is imperative to find someone who match both sides expectations. Do not be blind by the urgency from someone who just looking for the ticket to get out of their actual situation. Otherwise, the divorce one will face just another divorce. Sounds real? Of course, just ask to someone in the forum. Some people make a hole to bury one problem and building another very similar.
Do not be stuck in a single website because it is limited. Make a list of your qualities and what you can offer, and this is for both genders....well actually there more genders with all the respect they deserve.
donmartinez53: In order to catch the attention from who ever we are interested, there are some factors to consider. Because someone may send a message, a flower or rating a picture that does not mean the person will automatically answer to the sender.
We all set our minds in some particular characteristics on the kind of person may accept. However, at the other side of the computer they are doing the same. Factors such as, physical appearance, age, kind of job, income, education level, culture, language, skin color, couch type or physical active, ending divorce or widow, never had kids, cosmetics adorned or sport active, cost of maintenance, just to name a few.
A especial factor is for ladies who are in living in a poor country may take any guy even if he is almost at one step to fall in the grave.
As we know, the "especial" person is different for everybody and she/he could be anywhere, but......Before we try to look to anyone over any website; we most asset ourselves with honesty. Especially for mature candidates who had already some good or bad experiences, it is imperative to find someone who match both sides expectations. Do not be blind by the urgency from someone who just looking for the ticket to get out of their actual situation. Otherwise, the divorce one will face just another divorce. Sounds real? Of course, just ask to someone in the forum. Some people make a hole to bury one problem and building another very similar.
Do not be stuck in a single website because it is limited. Make a list of your qualities and what you can offer, and this is for both genders....well actually there more genders with all the respect they deserve.
Thank you. Don Martinez
Don, thanks for the valued advice you have shared..
azucena2013Caracas, Distrito Federal Venezuela42 posts
Many problems with scammers, fake profiles and perverts. I have had a very bad experience here with a guy I met in person 2 years ago, but I am still trying.
It's a bit mind boggling at times there are over 7 billion people in the world and it is so difficult to find 1 person you can trust and get along with.
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We all set our minds in some particular characteristics on the kind of person may accept. However, at the other side of the computer they are doing the same.
Factors such as, physical appearance, age, kind of job, income, education level, culture, language, skin color, couch type or physical active, ending divorce or widow, never had kids, cosmetics adorned or sport active, cost of maintenance, just to name a few.
A especial factor is for ladies who are in living in a poor country may take any guy even if he is almost at one step to fall in the grave.
As we know, the "especial" person is different for everybody and she/he could be anywhere, but......Before we try to look to anyone over any website; we most asset ourselves with honesty. Especially for mature candidates who had already some good or bad experiences, it is imperative to find someone who match both sides expectations. Do not be blind by the urgency from someone who just looking for the ticket to get out of their actual situation. Otherwise, the divorce one will face just another divorce. Sounds real? Of course, just ask to someone in the forum. Some people make a hole to bury one problem and building another very similar.
Do not be stuck in a single website because it is limited. Make a list of your qualities and what you can offer, and this is for both genders....well actually there more genders with all the respect they deserve.
Thank you.
Don Martinez