Always thought, why have I been in this for 4 yrs. They just wizzed by without me thinking or asking>"should I or shouldn`t I give up? After all, I am now 82, waited so long because of trust issues, & took long raising my 5 kids, with no child support, so I started later than most. I met about 500+ men on about 5 different sites. Weeded them down eventually. It didn`t matter which site they were...I kid you NOT!! About 80% seem to want something other than real life desires , like a relationship. They have all started something with me,. Then I started noticing all the flowering words, find out they are in another country. Have the same words about their life: "I had 2 kids & a wife, but lost here to cancer, etc. Then it happens...they ask for money. Thousands of dollars. Evenif I do say in my profiles, I live simply on a small amount of Social Security, enough to pay my bills. But the INSIST, even so...borrow it from a friend, please get a loan....I`ll pay you 50% interest back. WOW!!! Who would keep going or feed into that. The last 3 men said the same thing after 4 emails. That God for that delete tab, & the SCAM button. I just will delete them when my intuition kicks in. So beware. I don`t get on this site, but keep it for my stories on the BLOGS. I am not keen on anyone with too much distance, but met someone here, that I will email. He is older than I prefer. But I will give it a chance. Because I deserve happiness ,even if I am older, I have the same desires as any other woman. Want my prince....so we will see????!!!!! Good searching for ya`ll . (moonkitten)
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After all, I am now 82, waited so long because of trust issues, & took long raising my 5 kids, with no child support, so I started later than most. I met about 500+ men on about 5 different sites. Weeded them down eventually. It didn`t matter which site they were...I kid you NOT!! About 80% seem to want something other than real life desires , like a relationship. They have all started something with me,. Then I started noticing all the flowering words, find out they are in another country. Have the same words about their life: "I had 2 kids & a wife, but lost here to cancer, etc.
Then it happens...they ask for money. Thousands of dollars. Evenif I do say in my profiles, I live simply on a small amount of Social Security, enough to pay my bills. But the INSIST, even so...borrow it from a friend, please get a loan....I`ll pay you 50% interest back. WOW!!! Who would keep going or feed into that. The last 3 men said the same thing after 4 emails. That God for that delete tab, & the SCAM button. I just will delete them when my intuition kicks in. So beware.
I don`t get on this site, but keep it for my stories on the BLOGS.
I am not keen on anyone with too much distance, but met someone here, that I will email. He is older than I prefer. But I will give it a chance. Because I deserve happiness ,even if I am older, I have the same desires as any other woman. Want my prince....so we will see????!!!!! Good searching for ya`ll . (moonkitten)