fed up with life (14)
zebelkhanGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden6 Threads 2 Polls 20 Postswhen i write this i am very depressed of my life . i am 28 and tired of this life, i do my best in life. i have been always on top between persons near . i did a lot of thing to be a successful person i am MSc of electrical engineer,ranked 21 in my whole country exam between 12000 person a skilled programmer but i am not successful in life i have no hope in future. i dont want living anymore. i am living in iran and i hate this religious country i feel like i am in prison
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Zebel, Pay close attention to what I'm about to tell you.
First of all, you are very young, you have most of your life still ahead of you. You have accomplished a great deal already and the best is yet to come. My advice to you is to set a goal for yourself to get out of Iran if you hate it that much. The world is full of countries that would love to have a smart educated guy like you and they are not controlled by any religious backward government.
Second, you have made a big mistake in your profile in the part that describes what you are looking for. You have put the word man in place where it should say woman. If that was in error, I suggest you change it as soon as possible. It doesn't match what it says at the top of your profile. This is probably causing a lot of confusion for anybody reading your profile.
Good luck and don't give up so quickly, only losers do that and you don't seem like a loser to me. A loser couldn't accomplish what you have in such a short time.
First of all, you are very young, you have most of your life still ahead of you. You have accomplished a great deal already and the best is yet to come. My advice to you is to set a goal for yourself to get out of Iran if you hate it that much. The world is full of countries that would love to have a smart educated guy like you and they are not controlled by any religious backward government.
Second, you have made a big mistake in your profile in the part that describes what you are looking for. You have put the word man in place where it should say woman. If that was in error, I suggest you change it as soon as possible. It doesn't match what it says at the top of your profile. This is probably causing a lot of confusion for anybody reading your profile.
Good luck and don't give up so quickly, only losers do that and you don't seem like a loser to me. A loser couldn't accomplish what you have in such a short time.
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Thank you ooby
you gave me some hope
i always thinking of Leaving Iran but this is a big problem . most of my friends leaving for educating in PHD but i am tired of educating.
i love to work instead any way i think you are correct i must set a goal of leaving as soon as possible. i even prefer working for no money to get out of this jail.
you gave me some hope
i always thinking of Leaving Iran but this is a big problem . most of my friends leaving for educating in PHD but i am tired of educating.
i love to work instead any way i think you are correct i must set a goal of leaving as soon as possible. i even prefer working for no money to get out of this jail.
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zebelkhan: when i write this i am very depressed of my life . i am 28 and tired of this life, i do my best in life. i have been always on top between persons near . i did a lot of thing to be a successful person i am MSc of electrical engineer,ranked 21 in my whole country exam between 12000 person a skilled programmer but i am not successful in life i have no hope in future. i dont want living anymore. i am living in iran and i hate this religious country i feel like i am in prison
...Hi Zebel...It saddens me to read that you are feeling depressed with your life....perhaps that is because I have sons around your age....just to say that I know from experience that a lot of young men go through a stage in life when they find it difficult to cope with things....it is quite normal to feel like this and do not think that you are unusual in having these feelings...it is stressful...especially for fellas....who feel that they should be starting a good career etc. with the hope of getting married and supporting a family....at your young age and with your wonderful qualification you should not hesitate to leave your country for a few years and experience life some other place....lots of young men, without any of the qualifications that you have, head off to foreign lands and are able to find work for themselves....it will be a wonderful adventure for you....it must be difficult for an intelligent fella like you to feel trapped in a country like Iran where you feel you cannot spread your wings.....just do it for yourself....start today and search for possibilities to get a visa in some other country.....and, please believe me when I say that, even if you think that it is only you who has these doubts and feelings of depression.....you are not alone in these thoughts......just head out into the world and a happy life will open up for you.....I truly wish you the best....------ This thread is Archived ------
zebelkhan: when i write this i am very depressed of my life . i am 28 and tired of this life, i do my best in life. i have been always on top between persons near . i did a lot of thing to be a successful person i am MSc of electrical engineer,ranked 21 in my whole country exam between 12000 person a skilled programmer but i am not successful in life i have no hope in future. i dont want living anymore. i am living in iran and i hate this religious country i feel like i am in prison
I've got news for you young man... Things will get a lot worse as you get older.. If you think life is tough now, wait till you have the responsibility of a family & mortgage , not to mention , bills & a nagging wife or 2 to deal with.. Just kidding, married life is bliss.
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zebelkhan: when i write this i am very depressed of my life . i am 28 and tired of this life, i do my best in life. i have been always on top between persons near . i did a lot of thing to be a successful person i am MSc of electrical engineer,ranked 21 in my whole country exam between 12000 person a skilled programmer but i am not successful in life i have no hope in future. i dont want living anymore. i am living in iran and i hate this religious country i feel like i am in prison
I don't know why anyone would hate Iran. Have you thought about forgetting religion, education, career challenges etc and just go out have a good time and find someone who also wants to get laid as much as you do.
If you really want to be happy, please send 100 pounds of Iran's fresh home grown pistachios to my home in Columbus, Ohio.
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zebelkhan: when i write this i am very depressed of my life . i am 28 and tired of this life, i do my best in life. i have been always on top between persons near . i did a lot of thing to be a successful person i am MSc of electrical engineer,ranked 21 in my whole country exam between 12000 person a skilled programmer but i am not successful in life i have no hope in future. i dont want living anymore. i am living in iran and i hate this religious country i feel like i am in prison
You are equating your life with your job. It seems you define success with a ranking number. Engineers, programmers are the way of the future. I don't believe that a person as successful as you already are would be thinking that you don't want to live anymore. You are just having a bad day, maybe a bad week. Get out of the office and hit the social sites for a beer, music and women.
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secretagent09: You are equating your life with your job. It seems you define success with a ranking number. Engineers, programmers are the way of the future. I don't believe that a person as successful as you already are would be thinking that you don't want to live anymore. You are just having a bad day, maybe a bad week. Get out of the office and hit the social sites for a beer, music and women.
That's exactly his point.. Beer & loose women are forbidden in his country.
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zebelkhan: when i write this i am very depressed of my life . i am 28 and tired of this life, i do my best in life. i have been always on top between persons near . i did a lot of thing to be a successful person i am MSc of electrical engineer,ranked 21 in my whole country exam between 12000 person a skilled programmer but i am not successful in life i have no hope in future. i dont want living anymore. i am living in iran and i hate this religious country i feel like i am in prison
Try to find a position in another country. With your qualifications, it shouldn't be hard to do.
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allthegoodnamest: That's exactly his point.. Beer & loose women are forbidden in his country.
I re-read his post and nowhere did I see where he said he had a problem not finding a girlfriend. He seems to be fed up with his job. Show me where he has a problem with beer and loose women.
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secretagent09: I re-read his post and nowhere did I see where he said he had a problem not finding a girlfriend. He seems to be fed up with his job. Show me where he has a problem with beer and loose women.
You mentioned the beer & women.. I just stated that the former were forbidden in his country.
Don't make a big deal out of your ignorance of knowing other countries customs .
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zebelkhan: when i write this i am very depressed of my life . i am 28 and tired of this life, i do my best in life. i have been always on top between persons near . i did a lot of thing to be a successful person i am MSc of electrical engineer,ranked 21 in my whole country exam between 12000 person a skilled programmer but i am not successful in life i have no hope in future. i dont want living anymore. i am living in iran and i hate this religious country i feel like i am in prison
In a way you are.
Cultural and religious standards are about confining people.
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allthegoodnamest: You mentioned the beer & women.. I just stated that the former were forbidden in his country.
Don't make a big deal out of your ignorance of knowing other countries customs .
Don't make a big deal out of your ignorance of knowing other countries customs .
I don't have to know customs of other countries to lift someones spirits. YOU my dear are making the big deal out of your lack of compassion for ANYONE.
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secretagent09: Yeah I've noticed what you are capable of and definitely not capable of.
BTW, the word is "advice" not advise when using it the way you did.
BTW, the word is "advice" not advise when using it the way you did.
Thanks for the English lesson , btw, how is your Greek
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