What have I got myself into? (39)
How would you want to be treated in a situation like that?
Just be honest & say that you don't have enough things in common or you can't see this going anywhere, whatever your reason is.
Just be honest & say that you don't have enough things in common or you can't see this going anywhere, whatever your reason is.
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ynotleon69: Have you ever started dating or getting close to someone, then you know you need to break it off?
I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!
I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!
I'm afraid there is not enough information here to formulate advice in this instance.
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Yep. Exactly what Knee said, treat others how you'd expect to be treated.
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If the lady is on this site you may have already accomplished your goal. 
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ynotleon69: Have you ever started dating or getting close to someone, then you know you need to break it off?
I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!
I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!
She might be thinking the same thing too. She will get the idea if you're not available to her, when you always have something to do other then talk to her.
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ynotleon69: Have you ever started dating or getting close to someone, then you know you need to break it off?
I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!
I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!
Make her the focal point of your life. Treat her as the "one" - Behave as if you were a man with absolutely nothing else to do. Be as sappy, needy and creepy as you can possibly be without throwing up all over yourself. Make her cringe at the prospect of spending time with you, then you'll be free.
Or, tell her that you're not after anything serious. Your hearts not in it, you don't have the time, no one likes each other in the modern world so there's no point in relationships... whatever you want to say. Leaving a woman is a lot like a country inventing excuses to go to war. Prime the presses, square things with the UN, make up your reasons and get your story straight before you declare war.
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TheRedSquirrel87: Make her the focal point of your life. Treat her as the "one" - Behave as if you were a man with absolutely nothing else to do. Be as sappy, needy and creepy as you can possibly be without throwing up all over yourself. Make her cringe at the prospect of spending time with you, then you'll be free.
Or, tell her that you're not after anything serious. Your hearts not in it, you don't have the time, no one likes each other in the modern world so there's no point in relationships... whatever you want to say. Leaving a woman is a lot like a country inventing excuses to go to war. Prime the presses, square things with the UN, make up your reasons and get your story straight before you declare war.
Or, tell her that you're not after anything serious. Your hearts not in it, you don't have the time, no one likes each other in the modern world so there's no point in relationships... whatever you want to say. Leaving a woman is a lot like a country inventing excuses to go to war. Prime the presses, square things with the UN, make up your reasons and get your story straight before you declare war.
The one I try to avoid is the slow death approach and the blaming them approach.
Don't make creeping subtle changes to your behaviour because you can't be bothered with her anymore and don't want to face the guilty feeling of making this obvious.
Also, don't neglect her out of disinterest and then use her reaction to this neglect as the supposed reason for dumping her. Don't take the effect and make it the cause.
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TheRedSquirrel87: Make her the focal point of your life. Treat her as the "one" - Behave as if you were a man with absolutely nothing else to do. Be as sappy, needy and creepy as you can possibly be without throwing up all over yourself. Make her cringe at the prospect of spending time with you, then you'll be free.
Or, tell her that you're not after anything serious. Your hearts not in it, you don't have the time, no one likes each other in the modern world so there's no point in relationships... whatever you want to say. Leaving a woman is a lot like a country inventing excuses to go to war. Prime the presses, square things with the UN, make up your reasons and get your story straight before you declare war.
Or, tell her that you're not after anything serious. Your hearts not in it, you don't have the time, no one likes each other in the modern world so there's no point in relationships... whatever you want to say. Leaving a woman is a lot like a country inventing excuses to go to war. Prime the presses, square things with the UN, make up your reasons and get your story straight before you declare war.
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secretagent09: Okay Squirrel, we got the idea after three posts of how you treat women.
I know how common it is these fickle times to put everything on the other person to avoid carrying any of the burden yourself. The op or a man in his situation may do this. The average or lesser would just start ignoring this girl until she gets more and more upset and finally snaps so he can then dump her.
But why lay these traps for a person merely to get out of saying that you don't fancy her? Why go to such great lengths plunging a knife into someones back simply to avoid saying what you really think to their face? I know why women do this because it avoids confrontation, but in a man it is pathetic.
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TheRedSquirrel87: I know how common it is these fickle times to put everything on the other person to avoid carrying any of the burden yourself. The op or a man in his situation may do this. The average or lesser would just start ignoring this girl until she gets more and more upset and finally snaps so he can then dump her.
But why lay these traps for a person merely to get out of saying that you don't fancy her? Why go to such great lengths plunging a knife into someones back simply to avoid saying what you really think to their face? I know why women do this because it avoids confrontation, but in a man it is pathetic.
But why lay these traps for a person merely to get out of saying that you don't fancy her? Why go to such great lengths plunging a knife into someones back simply to avoid saying what you really think to their face? I know why women do this because it avoids confrontation, but in a man it is pathetic.
Traps?? Didn't you explain in three posts all the steps you take to tell a woman you want to get away from her? You're contradicting yourself Rumples.
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secretagent09: Traps?? Didn't you explain in three posts all the steps you take to tell a woman you want to get away from her? You're contradicting yourself Rumples.
Inverting is what I'm doing there. I'm not saying he has to do that, it's an option. And it's the same method for a very different purpose - which is to spare her from being upset. To make her feel like she isn't losing anything and she isn't at fault, not to make her feel like she's losing everything and is entirely to blame.
You're right, it is a trap. But it is a good-natured trap.
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I would start a simple chat and without rounded up the conversation get to the point. If a man is not interested just say it. Won't be any harm you are saving her alot of trouble, time when she can be enjoying someone else.
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Or as we boomers would say, treat em mean and keep em keen
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tomcatwarne: Or as we boomers would say, treat em mean and keep em keen
so you'd treat them like you treat your sister, eh?
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TheRedSquirrel87: The one I try to avoid is the slow death approach and the blaming them approach.
Don't make creeping subtle changes to your behaviour because you can't be bothered with her anymore and don't want to face the guilty feeling of making this obvious.
Also, don't neglect her out of disinterest and then use her reaction to this neglect as the supposed reason for dumping her. Don't take the effect and make it the cause.
Don't make creeping subtle changes to your behaviour because you can't be bothered with her anymore and don't want to face the guilty feeling of making this obvious.
Also, don't neglect her out of disinterest and then use her reaction to this neglect as the supposed reason for dumping her. Don't take the effect and make it the cause.
nicely stated.
folks can recover from a breakup.
betrayal can take a lot longer...
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ynotleon69: Have you ever started dating or getting close to someone, then you know you need to break it off?
I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!
I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!
honesty with compassion comes to mind....
a simple...i don't think we're a match...(leave out the details)
otherwise, pick something that is creatively 'positive'..
we know you can....
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ooby_dooby: If the lady is on this site you may have already accomplished your goal.
I was going to say something along those lines
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jono7: nicely stated. folks can recover from a breakup.
betrayal can take a lot longer...
betrayal can take a lot longer...
Also thought that was good
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jono7: nicely stated. folks can recover from a breakup.
betrayal can take a lot longer...
betrayal can take a lot longer...
Also thought that was good
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I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!