met this guy and it was going good until he ask me to lend him 2000$ when I told him I don't have it he wrote me an email telling me he loved me, then he ask me for 700$ and last night he ask me for 100$ visa gift card. Don't men read profiles I said I was hurt befor and was looking for someone who won't hurt me
sandi55: met this guy and it was going good until he ask me to lend him 2000$ when I told him I don't have it he wrote me an email telling me he loved me, then he ask me for 700$ and last night he ask me for 100$ visa gift card. Don't men read profiles I said I was hurt befor and was looking for someone who won't hurt me
Writing that on your profile only makes you look more vulnerable, which is exactly why you attracted a scammer.
I don't know why you kept in contact once you knew he was a scammer though
sandi55: met this guy and it was going good until he ask me to lend him 2000$ when I told him I don't have it he wrote me an email telling me he loved me, then he ask me for 700$ and last night he ask me for 100$ visa gift card. Don't men read profiles I said I was hurt befor and was looking for someone who won't hurt me
if you focus on getting hurt...the chances are really good it'll happen again.
how 'bout focusing on what makes you happy? (with or without a partner)
pat8lanips: Maybe. That or she thought you were having a go at her. Anybody starts going on about money, I try to get in first and hit them up for a loan.
These forums are a good place to come for advice - good, bad or downright lunatic.
Not a good place to come looking for sympathy though.
pat8lanips: Yeah I dunno about that. If I really had a question and wanted advice about relationships etc., a bunch of single people is the last group I'd ask.
sandi55: met this guy and it was going good until he ask me to lend him 2000$ when I told him I don't have it he wrote me an email telling me he loved me, then he ask me for 700$ and last night he ask me for 100$ visa gift card. Don't men read profiles I said I was hurt befor and was looking for someone who won't hurt me
hiding posts is not nice and it guarantees the post is read a thousand thousand times .
In response to: met this guy and it was going good until he ask me to lend him 2000$ when I told him I don't have it he wrote me an email telling me he loved me, then he ask me for 700$ and last night he ask me for 100$ visa gift card. Don't men read profiles I said I was hurt befor and was looking for someone who won't hurt me
Hi sandi they warm you up and that's when the scammer in them comes out.
People who are scamming people don't read profiles.
mollybaby: These forums are a good place to come for advice - good, bad or downright lunatic.
Not a good place to come looking for sympathy though.
It used to be a place you could vent your problems and people would empathize with you. People are human, we all have problems. If someone is a regular on the site they will go to people who they talk to all the time.
Just recently I had a very serious problem and a CS member came to my rescue many times to help me through it. I will be indebted to her forever for the help and understanding she gave me.
In 2005 I was taken for a lot of money and wrote about it on CS at the time. And the person wasn't an online scammer. I knew him in high school. CS may not be the same as it was years ago but people still bleed red. So why not have a kind thing to say to her.
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when I told him I don't have it he wrote me an email telling me he loved me, then he ask me for 700$ and last night he ask me for 100$ visa gift card. Don't men read profiles I said I was hurt befor and was looking for someone who won't hurt me