Letting go ( Archived) (90)

Mar 23, 2016 4:38 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada32 Threads 2,661 Posts
'When the past calls
Let it go to voicemail
It has nothing new to say anyways'

Have you ever had someone from your past try to creep back into your life?
There's a good reason ...they are the past in the first place.





wow laugh
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Mar 23, 2016 4:43 PM CST Letting go
Da_Moose
Da_MooseDa_MooseWestlock, Alberta Canada76 Threads 2,631 Posts
Lilith10: 'When the past calls
Let it go to voicemail
It has nothing new to say anyways'

Have you ever had someone from your past try to creep back into your life?
There's a good reason ...they are the past in the first place.


Of course I have had!

Have you fully reconciled within your own mind and with them? If so...review the moment, decide, and go from there! If you have to highlight that it is from the past....are you sure? Just saying...it takes time to untangle all the threads...
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Mar 23, 2016 4:47 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada32 Threads 2,661 Posts
Da_Moose: Of course I have had!

Have you fully reconciled within your own mind and with them? If so...review the moment, decide, and go from there! If you have to highlight that it is from the past....are you sure? Just saying...it takes time to untangle all the threads...


wave Moose!

Yes I have reconciled that they are the Past..reason I highlighted it. I was hoping they would stay therelaugh
grin
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Mar 23, 2016 4:50 PM CST Letting go
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand5 Threads 6,145 Posts
Lilith10: 'When the past calls
Let it go to voicemail
It has nothing new to say anyways'

Have you ever had someone from your past try to creep back into your life?
There's a good reason ...they are the past in the first place.



Lilith....wave

Yes, I have had.

Generally speaking, they're usually in your PAST for a reason.
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Mar 23, 2016 4:52 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10: 'When the past calls
Let it go to voicemail
It has nothing new to say anyways'

Have you ever had someone from your past try to creep back into your life?
There's a good reason ...they are the past in the first place.
....no....but on sundays.i go to church....stand in the pulpit...look at all the people sitting there......waiting for my sermon.....then in a loud voice......I SHOUT.....stuff you all...does that count...???????rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 23, 2016 4:57 PM CST Letting go
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada15 Threads 25,334 Posts
Lilith10: 'When the past calls
Let it go to voicemail
It has nothing new to say anyways'

Have you ever had someone from your past try to creep back into your life?
There's a good reason ...they are the past in the first place.


Yeppers, I have done the same Lillie. Some folks manage to make it work with a second chance but it depends on how serious of an issue it was the first time around and if it's something that can be "fixed". wave
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Mar 23, 2016 4:58 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada32 Threads 2,661 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Lilith....

Yes, I have had.

Generally speaking, they're usually in your PAST for a reason.


wave Berry..so nice to see ya again!grin

I've been trying to let go of some past stuff, for some reason it wont let me...let go..professor
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Mar 23, 2016 4:58 PM CST Letting go
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK47 Threads 6,639 Posts
Lilith10: 'When the past calls
Let it go to voicemail
It has nothing new to say anyways'

Have you ever had someone from your past try to creep back into your life?
There's a good reason ...they are the past in the first place.


Yep... Never had a bad break up, so I don't see a problem with catching up with old flames.
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Mar 23, 2016 4:59 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada32 Threads 2,661 Posts
truheart1941: ....no....but on sundays.i go to church....stand in the pulpit...look at all the people sitting there......waiting for my sermon.....then in a loud voice......I SHOUT.....stuff you all...does that count...???????


Bahahaa...Tru!laugh

I can give you a sermon that would last a lifetime laugh grin
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Mar 23, 2016 5:02 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada32 Threads 2,661 Posts
2intrigued: Yeppers, I have done the same Lillie. Some folks manage to make it work with a second chance but it depends on how serious of an issue it was the first time around and if it's something that can be "fixed".


wave 2intrig....This is not something that I even wish to fix..it should be layed to rest..or so I thought.
I don't see the future in a past relationship trying to light "itself" again...that match blew out long ago..laugh
At least for me it did and I said so..confused
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Mar 23, 2016 5:04 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada32 Threads 2,661 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Yep... Never had a bad break up, so I don't see a problem with catching up with old flames.


You lucky allgood...not many can say that.

Was no gooder so I jumped ship so to speak..

I have no desire to entertain any of my past uh oh laugh
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Mar 23, 2016 5:05 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10: Berry..so nice to see ya again!

I've been trying to let go of some past stuff, for some reason it wont let me...let go..
are you in prison...and the release day,is drawing nearer.......for the attemted murder (husband) 15 years ago.dunno giggle giggle giggle rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 23, 2016 5:08 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada32 Threads 2,661 Posts
truheart1941: are you in prison...and the release day,is drawing nearer.......for the attemted murder (husband) 15 years ago.



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Tru..you are a funny one..I dare say doh

They have internet access in there??..

I have never harmed a soul head banger ...tell that to the inky winky spiders...hole
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Mar 23, 2016 5:11 PM CST Letting go
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK47 Threads 6,639 Posts
Lilith10: You lucky allgood...not many can say that.

Was no gooder so I jumped ship so to speak..

I have no desire to entertain any of my past


No disrespect but you chose himcomfort sad flower
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Mar 23, 2016 5:11 PM CST Letting go
I keep in contact with my exes as I am friends with them.
Once a certain time has passed, giving you both time to move on, I have no problems being friendly with them.
There was no acrimonious breakup.
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Mar 23, 2016 5:14 PM CST Letting go
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France20 Threads 2,773 Posts
Lilith10: 'When the past calls
Let it go to voicemail
It has nothing new to say anyways'

Have you ever had someone from your past try to creep back into your life?
There's a good reason ...they are the past in the first place.


Present, future, past..when past is attained there can no longer be any present or future..past perfect is hard to conjugate...handshake grin
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Mar 23, 2016 5:16 PM CST Letting go
mollybaby: I keep in contact with my exes as I am friends with them.
Once a certain time has passed, giving you both time to move on, I have no problems being friendly with them.
There was no acrimonious breakup.
huh your,ve more x,s....in your circle then spot the ball......(sunday paper)......roll eyes roll eyes grin grin grin rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 23, 2016 5:19 PM CST Letting go
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand5 Threads 6,145 Posts
Lilith10: Berry..so nice to see ya again!

I've been trying to let go of some past stuff, for some reason it wont let me...let go..


Good to see you too...thumbs up

Lilith, for me personally, I don't see any benefit in keeping in contact with exes....unless there are children involved....it's best for each of you to move on with your lives with a clear path.

Not all my break-ups were stressful....some were amiable partings...but we made a mutual decision to move on separately to make way for anyone new to enter our lives.

I applaud anyone who can maintain friendly contact, but it's not for me....I don't particularly want to know about their personal life after the split.

Juztisme.
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Mar 23, 2016 5:19 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada32 Threads 2,661 Posts
allthegoodnamest: No disrespect but you chose him



wave No disrespect taken hug
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Mar 23, 2016 5:21 PM CST Letting go
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada15 Threads 25,334 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Good to see you too...

Lilith, for me personally, I don't see any benefit in keeping in contact with exes....unless there are children involved....it's best for each of you to move on with your lives with a clear path.

Not all my break-ups were stressful....some were amiable partings...but we made a mutual decision to move on separately to make way for anyone new to enter our lives.

I applaud anyone who can maintain friendly contact, but it's not for me....I don't particularly want to know about their personal life after the split.

Juztisme.


Same here Berry. thumbs up wave
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