Lilith10: 'When the past calls Let it go to voicemail It has nothing new to say anyways'
Have you ever had someone from your past try to creep back into your life? There's a good reason ...they are the past in the first place.
Of course I have had!
Have you fully reconciled within your own mind and with them? If so...review the moment, decide, and go from there! If you have to highlight that it is from the past....are you sure? Just saying...it takes time to untangle all the threads...
Have you fully reconciled within your own mind and with them? If so...review the moment, decide, and go from there! If you have to highlight that it is from the past....are you sure? Just saying...it takes time to untangle all the threads...
Moose!
Yes I have reconciled that they are the Past..reason I highlighted it. I was hoping they would stay there
Lilith10: 'When the past calls Let it go to voicemail It has nothing new to say anyways'
Have you ever had someone from your past try to creep back into your life? There's a good reason ...they are the past in the first place.
....no....but on sundays.i go to church....stand in the pulpit...look at all the people sitting there......waiting for my sermon.....then in a loud voice......I SHOUT.....stuff you all...does that count...???????
Lilith10: 'When the past calls Let it go to voicemail It has nothing new to say anyways'
Have you ever had someone from your past try to creep back into your life? There's a good reason ...they are the past in the first place.
Yeppers, I have done the same Lillie. Some folks manage to make it work with a second chance but it depends on how serious of an issue it was the first time around and if it's something that can be "fixed".
truheart1941: ....no....but on sundays.i go to church....stand in the pulpit...look at all the people sitting there......waiting for my sermon.....then in a loud voice......I SHOUT.....stuff you all...does that count...???????
Bahahaa...Tru!
I can give you a sermon that would last a lifetime
2intrigued: Yeppers, I have done the same Lillie. Some folks manage to make it work with a second chance but it depends on how serious of an issue it was the first time around and if it's something that can be "fixed".
2intrig....This is not something that I even wish to fix..it should be layed to rest..or so I thought. I don't see the future in a past relationship trying to light "itself" again...that match blew out long ago.. At least for me it did and I said so..
I keep in contact with my exes as I am friends with them. Once a certain time has passed, giving you both time to move on, I have no problems being friendly with them. There was no acrimonious breakup.
mollybaby: I keep in contact with my exes as I am friends with them. Once a certain time has passed, giving you both time to move on, I have no problems being friendly with them. There was no acrimonious breakup.
huh your,ve more x,s....in your circle then spot the ball......(sunday paper)......
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
Lilith10: Berry..so nice to see ya again!
I've been trying to let go of some past stuff, for some reason it wont let me...let go..
Good to see you too...
Lilith, for me personally, I don't see any benefit in keeping in contact with exes....unless there are children involved....it's best for each of you to move on with your lives with a clear path.
Not all my break-ups were stressful....some were amiable partings...but we made a mutual decision to move on separately to make way for anyone new to enter our lives.
I applaud anyone who can maintain friendly contact, but it's not for me....I don't particularly want to know about their personal life after the split.
Lilith, for me personally, I don't see any benefit in keeping in contact with exes....unless there are children involved....it's best for each of you to move on with your lives with a clear path.
Not all my break-ups were stressful....some were amiable partings...but we made a mutual decision to move on separately to make way for anyone new to enter our lives.
I applaud anyone who can maintain friendly contact, but it's not for me....I don't particularly want to know about their personal life after the split.
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Let it go to voicemail
It has nothing new to say anyways'
Have you ever had someone from your past try to creep back into your life?
There's a good reason ...they are the past in the first place.