Letting go ( Archived) (84)

Mar 23, 2016 4:52 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada25 Threads 2,078 Posts
Babettefr: Hi Lilith...just so fine..thanks, i'm quite sure you are too.


I try to be with what I have grin hug
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Mar 23, 2016 4:52 PM CST Letting go
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
Roxie12: is it about a love story? I assume it
is. Just a thought u would like to hear a song 'The Past' by Jed Madela.


Hello Roxie...have a nice hang around here...wave handshake
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Mar 23, 2016 4:54 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada25 Threads 2,078 Posts
Roxie12: is it about a love story? I assume it is. Just a thought u would like to hear a song 'The Past' by Jed Madela.


wave Roxie...yes it is actually..or was..laugh

Thanks for the song!thumbs up
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Mar 23, 2016 4:55 PM CST Letting go
Roxie12: is it about a love story? I assume it is. Just a thought u would like to hear a song 'The Past' by Jed Madela.
......NOPE.....grin rolling on the floor laughing laugh laugh wave
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Mar 23, 2016 4:59 PM CST Letting go
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
Lilith10: I try to be with what I have


I'm part of that club .. and it's alright ..
thumbs up
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Mar 23, 2016 5:01 PM CST Letting go
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
truheart1941: wow. you still up......??????..thought your,d be banging away ,by now......


Jealousy doesn't become you very happy
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Mar 23, 2016 5:06 PM CST Letting go
mollybaby: Hiya Babs
HIYA.....MOLLY..........rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 23, 2016 5:10 PM CST Letting go
Hey Pedal

I tried speaking every language I could think of

Maybe I have to get not so nice about it eh..

Yes I worry about that stalking thing...good thing I'm moving
Not worry Pedal..your opinion always makes good sense too[/ uote]..WHA.....your joking.....he got a brain of a fig....hi pedal....wave grin
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Mar 23, 2016 5:14 PM CST Letting go
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
truheart1941: Hey Pedal

I tried speaking every language I could think of

Maybe I have to get not so nice about it eh..

Yes I worry about that stalking thing...good thing I'm moving
Not worry Pedal..your opinion always makes good sense too[/ uote]..WHA.....your joking.....he got a brain of a fig....hi pedal....


wave You need a short fresh air breakthumbs up Otherwise you will
soil yourself like usual.laugh
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Mar 23, 2016 5:14 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada25 Threads 2,078 Posts
truheart1941: Hey Pedal

I tried speaking every language I could think of

Maybe I have to get not so nice about it eh..

Yes I worry about that stalking thing...good thing I'm moving
Not worry Pedal..your opinion always makes good sense too[/ uote]..WHA.....your joking.....he got a brain of a fig....hi pedal....


Ohh hoo...off to the pit of shame wit you..laugh grin
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Mar 23, 2016 5:16 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10: Berry..so nice to see ya again!

I've been trying to let go of some past stuff, for some reason it wont let me...let go..
Sometimes all it takes is a little closure to let things go.
Sometimes one doesn't want closure and so the past prevails.
It is then when one must determine if need should supercede the want.
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Mar 23, 2016 5:21 PM CST Letting go
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
I completely cut contact with my ex.

I was working on the relationship as long as I was in it, so if it's over, it's definitely OVER.

Doesn't mean I wouldn't miss someone, but there was a reason for the break-up and I never wanted to go back.
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Mar 23, 2016 5:23 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada25 Threads 2,078 Posts
YouMeUs: Sometimes all it takes is a little closure to let things go.
Sometimes one doesn't want closure and so the past prevails.
It is then when one must determine if need should supercede the want.


Well Hello..YoumeUswave Long time no see!hug

Thank you for your words
And its so true, took me long time to find closure on this
Why it crept up on me at this point I dunnodunno

Can you explain your last sentence to me thodoh
I know I went to school but that went right over my head laugh
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Mar 23, 2016 5:26 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada25 Threads 2,078 Posts
KNenagh: I completely cut contact with my ex.

I was working on the relationship as long as I was in it, so if it's over, it's definitely OVER.

Doesn't mean I wouldn't miss someone, but there was a reason for the break-up and I never wanted to go back.


wave KNenagh..
That's what I do too. When its over, its over.

Also tried my best to work it out wayyyy back then.
I see no change whatsoever, so what's the pointdoh
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Mar 23, 2016 5:27 PM CST Letting go
eurolady
euroladyeuroladyFredericton, New Brunswick Canada1 Threads 228 Posts
Here can not be rules, we are all different, past also different...
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Mar 23, 2016 5:31 PM CST Letting go
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Lilith10: KNenagh..
That's what I do too. When its over, its over.

Also tried my best to work it out wayyyy back then.
I see no change whatsoever, so what's the point


Yep Lilith, wave and if we are talking LOVE - it hurts when it's over, a clean break is easier for me to handle. conversing
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Mar 23, 2016 5:39 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10: Well Hello..YoumeUs Long time no see!

Thank you for your words
And its so true, took me long time to find closure on this
Why it crept up on me at this point I dunno

Can you explain your last sentence to me tho
I know I went to school but that went right over my head
Hi Lilith, good seeing you too. hug

It basically means that if by not wanting to let go, and if by that results in unjustifiable ramifications, perhaps there is a need to let go?

There's no reason why anyone should have to beat themselves up (mingle) over something/someone from the past. If that is what's happening then they need to let it go, even though deep inside they may not want to.
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Mar 23, 2016 5:41 PM CST Letting go
mikemo68
mikemo68mikemo68Gijon, Asturias Spain6 Threads 2 Polls 611 Posts
Lilith10: 'When the past calls
Let it go to voicemail
It has nothing new to say anyways'

Have you ever had someone from your past try to creep back into your life?
There's a good reason ...they are the past in the first place.


There is not room for my exes whatsoever, my relationships were quite toxic.blues no way! no way! uh oh
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Mar 23, 2016 5:42 PM CST Letting go
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada25 Threads 2,078 Posts
KNenagh: Yep Lilith, and if we are talking LOVE - it hurts when it's over, a clean break is easier for me to handle.


Yes I was crazy in love but that was over 10 yrs ago now..

It hurt then so why would I want to walk down that road again.

A clean break..yes exactly my point.
I made one, but he did not apparently..

I'm sure it will sort itself out eventuallyhug
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Mar 23, 2016 5:46 PM CST Letting go
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Lilith10: Yes I was crazy in love but that was over 10 yrs ago now..

It hurt then so why would I want to walk down that road again.

A clean break..yes exactly my point.
I made one, but he did not apparently..

I'm sure it will sort itself out eventually


If you are moving, it makes things easier Lilith. hug

I moved away after breaking up with my ex 5 years ago and not bumping into each other again was a good thing. wave
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