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Apr 9, 2016 2:20 AM CST Have you ever
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Been tempted to date a married person?
The reason I say that is because I've become friendly with this married woman , who has become my travel buddy on the train to work. We get on well & she has often hinted about seeing me on a social level but I've seen her husband & he's built like a brick outhouse.doh laugh .. The vibe I get is that she wants to be more than friends. She's an attractive woman but do I need all the complications that go with dating a married woman or do I just remain friends ?
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Apr 9, 2016 2:29 AM CST Have you ever
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
Depressing reality, she probably quite likes your company but does not really care what happens to you. Because really its stacked 100% against you. I'd wait till she asks outright, then see if she's ready to move on, but I doubt she will if she's just out window shopping with a 7 year itch.
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Apr 9, 2016 2:35 AM CST Have you ever
No way.


Married people are a no-go zone, I have principles and so should you scold
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Apr 9, 2016 2:45 AM CST Have you ever
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
serene56: No way.Married people are a no-go zone, I have principles and so should you


You're probably right as usual but it's so tempting & at the end of the day, I'm still a man with needs & she's vulnerable & willing. dunno bouquet
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Apr 9, 2016 2:51 AM CST Have you ever
allthegoodnamest: You're probably right as usual but it's so tempting & at the end of the day, I'm still a man with needs & she's vulnerable & willing.



Well consider sticking it in a single woman and leave that married couple to sort out their own problems.

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Apr 9, 2016 3:07 AM CST Have you ever
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
pat8lanips: So why is she still with him, could be she would like some nice attention with hubby as a back up. Could be a plot to try and make hubby lift his game. She would eventually have to tell the alcoholic waste of space whats going on, that could end badly for you.
The other thing, you'd have a partner who's idea of commitment is to hook up with randoms from the train.

Mate, I don't think I mentioned having a relationship with her & if you saw her , I'm pretty sure you would be just as tempted.wow
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Apr 9, 2016 3:37 AM CST Have you ever
musicfreak
musicfreakmusicfreakParadise City, British Columbia Canada20 Threads 1 Polls 670 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Been tempted to date a married person?
The reason I say that is because I've become friendly with this married woman , who has become my travel buddy on the train to work. We get on well & she has often hinted about seeing me on a social level but I've seen her husband & he's built like a brick outhouse. .. The vibe I get is that she wants to be more than friends. She's an attractive woman but do I need all the complications that go with dating a married woman or do I just remain friends ?


Why would you waste your time on a married person? Plenty of single women out there.

I was asked out by a guy once who was married. When I found out I nearly puked. barfGlad I never went out with him.
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Apr 9, 2016 3:47 AM CST Have you ever
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
musicfreak: Why would you waste your time on a married person? Plenty of single women out there.

I was asked out by a guy once who was married. When I found out I nearly puked. Glad I never went out with him.


Where are all the nice single women out there, as you put it.dunno

No offence, but most , if not all the single women out there are damaged in some form or other & young ladies don't appeal to me.. Any more.uh oh bouquet
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Apr 9, 2016 4:25 AM CST Have you ever
hi John.i can understand how you feel......but just remain friends.....anything more then that....is taboo. at the end of the day...you know it makes sence......pete.......hug handshake handshake
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Apr 9, 2016 4:50 AM CST Have you ever
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Been tempted to date a married person?
The reason I say that is because I've become friendly with this married woman , who has become my travel buddy on the train to work. We get on well & she has often hinted about seeing me on a social level but I've seen her husband & he's built like a brick outhouse. .. The vibe I get is that she wants to be more than friends. She's an attractive woman but do I need all the complications that go with dating a married woman or do I just remain friends ?


scold no..no..& no all..you will be having more troubles than pleasures..if she can fool her husband then you might be the next..pity your ribs...
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Apr 9, 2016 4:55 AM CST Have you ever
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Been tempted to date a married person?
The reason I say that is because I've become friendly with this married woman , who has become my travel buddy on the train to work. We get on well & she has often hinted about seeing me on a social level but I've seen her husband & he's built like a brick outhouse. .. The vibe I get is that she wants to be more than friends. She's an attractive woman but do I need all the complications that go with dating a married woman or do I just remain friends ?


Pants down, stick it in. Fight the husband at night when he'll be too drunk to win. thumbs up
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Apr 9, 2016 4:58 AM CST Have you ever
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Babettefr: no..no..& no all..you will be having more troubles than pleasures..if she can fool her husband then you might be the next..pity your ribs...


I'd be more worried about her getting emotionally tied , rather than myself.. I have a mental block emotionally , as far as attached women are concerned .wave laugh bouquet
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Apr 9, 2016 5:00 AM CST Have you ever
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
TheRedSquirrel87: Pants down, stick it in. Fight the husband at night when he'll be too drunk to win.


Would you be my back up , just in case he's sober.pointing boxing laugh
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Apr 9, 2016 5:05 AM CST Have you ever
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Would you be my back up , just in case he's sober.


Running all the way to London now mate. You bring the football socks, I've got the snooker balls.
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Apr 9, 2016 5:15 AM CST Have you ever
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
TheRedSquirrel87: Running all the way to London now mate. You bring the football socks, I've got the snooker balls.


That seems a bit extreme , besides , I'm not cut out to do "bird"scold laugh
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Apr 9, 2016 5:29 AM CST Have you ever
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
allthegoodnamest: That seems a bit extreme , besides , I'm not cut out to do "bird"


Who can say what's extreme in this mad world we live in? We're not going to kill him anyway. If he died that would be awful, definitely hope he doesn't die. But he could do with a nice long relaxing coma.

And this coma might help him kick his addiction to drink. He'd wake up in a few weeks completely cured. So if you think about it we're actually doing him a favour by beating him with a snooker ball in a sock. It's really more of a friendly beating, a white beating.
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Apr 9, 2016 5:32 AM CST Have you ever
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
TheRedSquirrel87: Pants down, stick it in. Fight the husband at night when he'll be too drunk to win.


laugh laugh dancing dog motorcycle motorcycle
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Apr 9, 2016 5:41 AM CST Have you ever
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
TheRedSquirrel87: Who can say what's extreme in this mad world we live in? We're not going to kill him anyway. If he died that would be awful, definitely hope he doesn't die. But he could do with a nice long relaxing coma.

And this coma might help him kick his addiction to drink. He'd wake up in a few weeks completely cured. So if you think about it we're actually doing him a favour by beating him with a snooker ball in a sock. It's really more of a friendly beating, a white beating.


Under such condition..he will cost a lot to your collectivity ...ICU for coma/medical cares cost a lot..just leave him snoring beside while doing your circus...laugh laugh
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Apr 9, 2016 5:44 AM CST Have you ever
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Been tempted to date a married person?
The reason I say that is because I've become friendly with this married woman , who has become my travel buddy on the train to work. We get on well & she has often hinted about seeing me on a social level but I've seen her husband & he's built like a brick outhouse. .. The vibe I get is that she wants to be more than friends. She's an attractive woman but do I need all the complications that go with dating a married woman or do I just remain friends ?


It seems from your statement, that it is really only because her husband is a big man that you are considering not dating her.
Not because you have a moral dilemma with her being married.
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Apr 9, 2016 5:51 AM CST Have you ever
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
mollybaby: It seems from your statement, that it is really only because her husband is a big man that you are considering not dating her.
Not because you have a moral dilemma with her being married.


It can be a slight deterrent But the fact they've been living separate lives for the last ten years or so, means they are all but divorced . If marriage is just a piece of paper , then divorce is also but for the fact they haven't signed it yet. dunno
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