Quick question does everyone on here just send 1 message saying hello I'd like to talk. Only to then receive there reply saying yes I'd like to chat talk some with you and never send another message again in response to that.
Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.
Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?
Jimmy5IAWarrington, Cheshire, England UK1,013 posts
4got101_JRW_828: Quick question does everyone on here just send 1 message saying hello I'd like to talk. Only to then receive there reply saying yes I'd like to chat talk some with you and never send another message again in response to that.
Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.
Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?
Not really. I often send one message and then stop talking so the chicas think I´m a man of mystery which makes me even more desirable.
4got101_JRW_828: Quick question does everyone on here just send 1 message saying hello I'd like to talk. Only to then receive there reply saying yes I'd like to chat talk some with you and never send another message again in response to that.
Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.
Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?
If I get a message saying nothing more than 'Hello, I'd like to talk', they will get a polite 'not interested' message.
We get hundreds of those types of mails, and they are indistinguishable from each other..boring.
My attention has to be caught at the first email, or it is forever gone.
You are hitting it on the head - 1. Most women who contact me first never answer my always civil replies 2. Of those I approach first off in a civil manner most claim to have a good educational standard, or Degree, or a Masters (all unspecified) but are semi-literate. and think it is normal to use Americanese English, Text speak and God garbage all of which indicates they are time-wasters 3. The Romance and 419 scammers are getting obvious when you look at their alleged locations - Most are either in Ghana or Nigeria with London based criminal string pullers and pimps, so they have to fake their profiles
123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,116 posts
4got101_JRW_828: Quick question does everyone on here just send 1 message saying hello I'd like to talk. Only to then receive there reply saying yes I'd like to chat talk some with you and never send another message again in response to that.
Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.
Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?
How about you describe what you like in person profile, what court your attention and where you see connection that 2 of you might have in common etc. Be original,respectful,polite... Some men wrote me that my profile is funtastic and matches with his interest ...while I only wrote...'here for forum' but men who made enquiry about my interest to forum showed me they read my profile and are genuinely interested...which still doesn't have to make difference if I am not interested but it's progress like;' operation successful- patient died' loll. I am giving you this personal example to learn from and seek within yourself what you need to develop in mastering art of courtship. Good luck.
4got101_JRW_828: Quick question does everyone on here just send 1 message saying hello I'd like to talk. Only to then receive there reply saying yes I'd like to chat talk some with you and never send another message again in response to that.
Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.
Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?
The longer you are here you will most likely find that many things are not what they seem. But there is always a chance you may just have good timing and possibly hit it off with someone that is pretty close to what you think they seem to be. Like in person but different. This is a whole world so you never know till you know. But sometimes you roll with the tides and sometimes you don't.
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
4got101_JRW_828: Quick question does everyone on here just send 1 message saying hello I'd like to talk. Only to then receive there reply saying yes I'd like to chat talk some with you and never send another message again in response to that.
Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.
Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?
Women are strange creatures , you'll go crazy trying to understand them
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Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.
Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?