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Apr 26, 2016 11:48 PM CST Curious about....
4got101_JRW_828
4got101_JRW_8284got101_JRW_828Smithsburg, Maryland USA1 Threads 2 Posts
Quick question does everyone on here just send 1 message saying hello I'd like to talk. Only to then receive there reply saying yes I'd like to chat talk some with you and never send another message again in response to that.

Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.

Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?
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Apr 27, 2016 3:24 AM CST Curious about....
Jimmy5IA
Jimmy5IAJimmy5IAWarrington, Cheshire, England UK59 Threads 2 Polls 1,013 Posts
4got101_JRW_828: Quick question does everyone on here just send 1 message saying hello I'd like to talk. Only to then receive there reply saying yes I'd like to chat talk some with you and never send another message again in response to that.

Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.

Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?

Not really. I often send one message and then stop talking so the chicas think I´m a man of mystery which makes me even more desirable.
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Apr 27, 2016 4:18 AM CST Curious about....
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
Jimmy5IA: Not really. I often send one message and then stop talking so the chicas think I´m a man of mystery which makes me even more desirable.
Does it ?confused rolling on the floor laughing I can't recall if you send me mesage or not because it's bloody hundreds messages per day that I can't cope to read all doh rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 27, 2016 4:21 AM CST Curious about....
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
laugh grin
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Apr 27, 2016 4:23 AM CST Curious about....
Jimmy5IA
Jimmy5IAJimmy5IAWarrington, Cheshire, England UK59 Threads 2 Polls 1,013 Posts
123whisper: Does it ? I can't recall if you send me mesage or not because it's bloody hundreds messages per day that I can't cope to read all

Hi whisper, let´s chat, I´ve got plenty to tell youlips
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Apr 27, 2016 4:30 AM CST Curious about....
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
4got101_JRW_828: Quick question does everyone on here just send 1 message saying hello I'd like to talk. Only to then receive there reply saying yes I'd like to chat talk some with you and never send another message again in response to that.

Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.

Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?


If I get a message saying nothing more than 'Hello, I'd like to talk', they will get a polite 'not interested' message.

We get hundreds of those types of mails, and they are indistinguishable from each other..boring.

My attention has to be caught at the first email, or it is forever gone.
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Apr 27, 2016 4:34 AM CST Curious about....
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
I started getting curious, but then I remembered thats what killed the cat.
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Apr 27, 2016 4:34 AM CST Curious about....
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
mollybaby: If I get a message saying nothing more than 'Hello, I'd like to talk', they will get a polite 'not interested' message.

We get hundreds of those types of mails, and they are indistinguishable from each other..boring.

My attention has to be caught at the first email, or it is forever gone.

Something like-Hello, I can carry 18 doughnuts ,six in each hand ...hole
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Apr 27, 2016 4:38 AM CST Curious about....
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
mollybaby: If I get a message saying nothing more than 'Hello, I'd like to talk', they will get a polite 'not interested' message.

We get hundreds of those types of mails, and they are indistinguishable from each other..boring.

My attention has to be caught at the first email, or it is forever gone.




You're good Molly, I don't reply at all to those Hi how are you, wanna chat? mails.


But then I'm probably over it, anyway laugh
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Apr 27, 2016 4:39 AM CST Curious about....
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
mollybaby: If I get a message saying nothing more than 'Hello, I'd like to talk', they will get a polite 'not interested' message.

We get hundreds of those types of mails, and they are indistinguishable from each other..boring.

My attention has to be caught at the first email, or it is forever gone.




You're good Molly, I don't reply at all to those Hi how are you, wanna chat? mails.


But then I'm probably over it, anyway laugh
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Apr 27, 2016 4:49 AM CST Curious about....
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
pat8lanips: I started getting curious, but then I remembered thats what killed the cat.





blues sad flower ... Jeezers!!

they killed our cats KB conversing hug comfort bouquet
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Apr 27, 2016 5:01 AM CST Curious about....
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
Jimmy5IA: Hi whisper, let´s chat, I´ve got plenty to tell you
wink...to whisper ferry tiel stories before bed time ?rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 27, 2016 5:06 AM CST Curious about....
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
You are hitting it on the head -
1. Most women who contact me first never answer my always civil replies thumbs down
2. Of those I approach first off in a civil manner most claim to have a good educational standard, or Degree, or a Masters (all unspecified) but are semi-literate. and think it is normal to use Americanese English, Text speak and God garbage all of which indicates they are time-wasters thumbs down
3. The Romance and 419 scammers are getting obvious when you look at their alleged locations - Most are either in Ghana or Nigeria with London based criminal string pullers and pimps, so they have to fake their profiles thumbs down
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Apr 27, 2016 5:17 AM CST Curious about....
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
4got101_JRW_828: Quick question does everyone on here just send 1 message saying hello I'd like to talk. Only to then receive there reply saying yes I'd like to chat talk some with you and never send another message again in response to that.

Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.

Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?
How about you describe what you like in person profile, what court your attention and where you see connection that 2 of you might have in common etc.
Be original,respectful,polite...
Some men wrote me that my profile is funtastic and matches with his interest ...while I only wrote...'here for forum' grin but men who made enquiry about my interest to forum showed me they read my profile and are genuinely interested...which still doesn't have to make difference if I am not interested but it's progress like;' operation successful- patient died' loll.
I am giving you this personal example to learn from and seek within yourself what you need to develop in mastering art of courtship.wink Good luck.wine
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Apr 27, 2016 5:27 AM CST Curious about....
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Wasn't me ... i couldn't get through moping bouquet
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Apr 27, 2016 5:47 AM CST Curious about....
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Dedovix: Something like-Hello, I can carry 18 doughnuts ,six in each hand ...


Well hello Dedo! flirty flirty


grin
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Apr 27, 2016 6:49 AM CST Curious about....
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
4got101_JRW_828: Quick question does everyone on here just send 1 message saying hello I'd like to talk. Only to then receive there reply saying yes I'd like to chat talk some with you and never send another message again in response to that.

Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.

Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?


The longer you are here you will most likely find that many things are not what they seem. But there is always a chance you may just have good timing and possibly hit it off with someone that is pretty close to what you think they seem to be. Like in person but different. This is a whole world so you never know till you know.
But sometimes you roll with the tides and sometimes you don't.
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Apr 27, 2016 8:22 AM CST Curious about....
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
4got101_JRW_828: Quick question does everyone on here just send 1 message saying hello I'd like to talk. Only to then receive there reply saying yes I'd like to chat talk some with you and never send another message again in response to that.

Just what kinda Person asks to speak then when spoken to in kind never speaks again to those they asked from the beginning.

Kinda defeats the purpose of a dating site does it not?


Women are strange creatures , you'll go crazy trying to understand them banana laugh
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Apr 27, 2016 8:35 AM CST Curious about....
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Women are strange creatures , you'll go crazy trying to understand them
laugh Men or women,we might be all whirred in our own way...it's not gender issue,
more like personal gene's craziness rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 27, 2016 8:45 AM CST Curious about....
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
123whisper: Men or women,we might be all whirred in our own way...it's not gender issue,
more like personal gene's craziness


I wasn't criticising , in fact, it's their unpredictable nature that makes them fascinating. wink confused laugh
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