How do we know if men on here are real (42)
AnitaFBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1 Threads 9 PostsI was wonder if i could ask for advice. How do we know if the men on this website are real or they are scammers trying to ripe you off.Its not easy to look for a sincere man.
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AnitaF: I was wonder if i could ask for advice. How do we know if the men on this website are real or they are scammers trying to ripe you off.Its not easy to look for a sincere man.
I'll be as honest as I can, prob to my own detriment, but that's ok, it's holiday season, and I don't expect CS to change my life in any way.
Anything good you might get out of this site might be coming from a scammer.
You'll just have to learn to deal with that fact rather than bothering yourself whether is ok and is not.
Following that, it's interesting to notice that 'real people' are quite into their difficulties and mis-behaviours, whereas scammers are perfect all the way :) I've been here bout 10 years on-off with different aliases and at the moment i seem to be able to distinguish scammer mail from scratch. it is funny because I answer back and they really struggle at first and then they vanish:)
at the same time there's sensitive people here who approve of this platform (not in the least because it is a non-profit one). You would be rude to equate them with scammers. but, see, this is what scammers do!, they take attributes of sensitive simple people, -you seem to call them 'real' people-, and try to turn them into profit, taking advantage of your weakness for human interaction and a better future.
I think the only way to get on top of this situation is to be worse than a scammer, but I'm not into that. so It's a lose-lose situation, where you at least get to keep your dignity,- which pretty much sums up 'real' life too.
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Thanks for your reply back about my post. For me its hard to know who is a scammer or not. I have been a victim of scam, so am very scared. When people send me a message. I find the men ask me for my email and they seem to chat for a while and then they come up with a story for me to help them. I get very scared.
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AnitaF: Thanks for your reply back about my post. For me its hard to know who is a scammer or not. I have been a victim of scam, so am very scared. When people send me a message. I find the men ask me for my email and they seem to chat for a while and then they come up with a story for me to help them. I get very scared.
Isn't CS emails enough? Why does anybody that is not a scammer need more?
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Yes that is true. Just chatting on here is good for now. Why do scammers want more from us
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AnitaF: Yes that is true. Just chatting on here is good for now. Why do scammers want more from us
you seem to have an understanding that people are generally good. I disagree.
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AnitaF: I was wonder if i could ask for advice. How do we know if the men on this website are real or they are scammers trying to ripe you off.Its not easy to look for a sincere man.
If you read our profiles and see what they say you can get a good indication of a scammer. I can only speak for myself but many more mature men on CS can prove what we say.
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Am a good heart person and very kind and generally i think people are good but some people are bad.
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On my profile it does state that am not interested in scammers but i am not sure how to tell which message from a scammer or not.
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AnitaF: I was wonder if i could ask for advice. How do we know if the men on this website are real or they are scammers trying to ripe you off.Its not easy to look for a sincere man.
very easy , see their CS record if they are on here having good reputation and forums ,blogs record ,he / she can be real 
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AnitaF: Where do i go and check if they are having good reputation and forums etc
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AnitaF: what if they dont post any things in forums and blogs. So they are scammers
can't say ,many of people in forums ,blogs and poetry section are real ,not sure about others .How is weather in Bangkok ?
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ali110: can't say ,many of people in forums ,blogs and poetry section are real ,not sure about others .
How is weather in Bangkok ?
Thailand is popular destination for many tourist from all over the worldHow is weather in Bangkok ?
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AnitaF: Thank you for all the advice. I dont use the forums, blogs very much but i am real. The weather here in Bangkok is very hot right now. We have had no rain for a long time now.
you welcome, good to know u r real and nice to meet you Anita Some of my relatives and cousins visited Thailand few times
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AnitaF: Thank you for the nice words. Yes am real and its hard to find a real and sincere man for love. Hope your family enjoyed themselves.
good luck in your search ,unblock me to send u a flower 
..just fun 
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AnitaF: On my profile it does state that am not interested in scammers but i am not sure how to tell which message from a scammer or not.
Sorry to laugh but naturally that your not interested in scammer. Scammers doesn't care for anything, there's no moral grounds or any moral limitations where scammers are concern.Scammers are simply on hunting expedition's where genuine people has been observed to be exploited true rainbow of human 'weekness' such as looking for love,companionship...My advice is;no matter who said - what said -zipped up your pocket.Men with any pride and disency would not ask you money .
Also stay away from 'God fearing men.'
and if men insist from the very start to exchange private emails, I be very suspecious and don't be afraid to say clear NO...If one doesn't care to be patient. ..even if is genuine men ...he would be no good to you.
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