allthegoodnamestOPLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
TheRedSquirrel87: Ask her what she would do if she fell in love with a guy and then found out months later that he was broke. A probing question hinting at her core nature guaranteed to illicit a strong response.
You're half right, All. Calling a woman out on her behaviour, no matter how accurately, is never as satisfying in reality as it is inside your own head. The actual truth is irrelevant to a woman and what matters is how you approach the truth. You hint at but do not call out a woman for her behaviour. When around women you're in the netherzone between fact and fiction and you're main role is that of a truth masseur. Every woman is a Goebbels, remember that.
I assume when a woman is in love, money & status are irrelevant, initially.. If you led her to believe you were wealthy and she found out months later you were broke, I would also believe that the deceit would be more a hurtful factor rather than the lack of funds. That wouldn't stop her loving you but her trust in you may at take a backward step.
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You're half right, All. Calling a woman out on her behaviour, no matter how accurately, is never as satisfying in reality as it is inside your own head. The actual truth is irrelevant to a woman and what matters is how you approach the truth. You hint at but do not call out a woman for her behaviour. When around women you're in the netherzone between fact and fiction and you're main role is that of a truth masseur. Every woman is a Goebbels, remember that.
I assume when a woman is in love, money & status are irrelevant, initially.. If you led her to believe you were wealthy and she found out months later you were broke, I would also believe that the deceit would be more a hurtful factor rather than the lack of funds. That wouldn't stop her loving you but her trust in you may at take a backward step.