Rejection (126)
online today!online today!truheart1941brentwood, Essex, England UK83 Threads 1 Polls 25,171 Postsrejection.....is where a person in jest writes something,....and is taken onboard....by another with no humour, and makes an issue about it..if humour offends you....thats your problem.jmo.
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123whisper: XXxxxxxxxxxxxx etc No one is perfect,we all have our moments when we go a bit out of balance but it's important to be aware of our own gaps and try to treat people right way in rejection...
Psychoanalysis has never been my metaphorical cuppa tea, but I get the drift. I don't treat trick cyclists withe any respect but am always courteous to women normally.
BUT I have an outrageous and irreverent SoH which gets me by
Thus - Anyone who plays mind games with me always gets a war in the retaliation that most cannot handle - especially the sanctimonious and "management" with less relevant qualifications than I have.
My background and Interests have always been and still are in reading researching, hands on and practical, so right from age 15 and after training I have never been a diplomat. By personal experience I have three motto's as a philosophy
1. "I fear no man" (or woman now we must spell it out)and harm nobody
unless they strike first.
2. We / I do the job Right or we / I don't do it"
3. "Take me as I am or "Go forth and Multiply" (Foxtrot - Oscar)
and I never lost any job through it
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mollybaby: and how is that strategy working out for you?
Offline, I can't complain, online, not so good... Maybe I'm not cut out for this virtual dating malarkey & I would have been long gone had it not been for the forums.
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123whisper: Oh All,I see good person in you but for your own good, let go of mocking women...It's not part of attracting love to put on the rod hook alligator to catch beautiful fish on two legs....
I wasn't mocking women, I was just having friendly banter ... If you want to be treated equally with men, then you must adapt your humour accordingly .. No one can accuse me of not doing my bit for equality.
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MikeD12: Psychoanalysis has never been my metaphorical cuppa tea, but I get the drift. I don't treat trick cyclists withe any respect but am always courteous to women normally.
BUT I have an outrageous and irreverent SoH which gets me by
Thus - Anyone who plays mind games with me always gets a war in the retaliation that most cannot handle - especially the sanctimonious and "management" with less relevant qualifications than I have.
My background and Interests have always been and still are in reading researching, hands on and practical, so right from age 15 and after training I have never been a diplomat. By personal experience I have three motto's as a philosophy
1. "I fear no man" (or woman now we must spell it out)and harm nobody
unless they strike first.
2. We / I do the job Right or we / I don't do it"
3. "Take me as I am or "Go forth and Multiply" (Foxtrot - Oscar)
and I never lost any job through it
BUT I have an outrageous and irreverent SoH which gets me by
Thus - Anyone who plays mind games with me always gets a war in the retaliation that most cannot handle - especially the sanctimonious and "management" with less relevant qualifications than I have.
My background and Interests have always been and still are in reading researching, hands on and practical, so right from age 15 and after training I have never been a diplomat. By personal experience I have three motto's as a philosophy
1. "I fear no man" (or woman now we must spell it out)and harm nobody
unless they strike first.
2. We / I do the job Right or we / I don't do it"
3. "Take me as I am or "Go forth and Multiply" (Foxtrot - Oscar)
and I never lost any job through it
You made good points.
In my private life, if possible I rather keep miles away from mind game players and manipulators because with such people there's never mutual win - win compromises and arguments are waist of time...but profesionally we all come across with this type of people that we have to deal with on the spot ...and in my job I need to be very tactful diplomat in making my point...Working with people is never meant to be easy task ...and it works for me to turn bad event into humoristic approach ( when possible).It's better choosing to have a bit of laugh - what could make you angry and argumentative...that's my motto....which doesn't mean I am never argumentative too...like on forums ...but hardly ever arguing in private life.
Having work ethic and Integrity is great aphrodisiac.
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allthegoodnamest: Why are women so bad at dealing with rejection?
Men have been dealing with it for years, for some of us comes as second nature, but if the shoe is on the other foot, boy , all hell breaks loose.. So why can't women deal with it in the same manner & dignity that men do.
Happy shopping.
Men have been dealing with it for years, for some of us comes as second nature, but if the shoe is on the other foot, boy , all hell breaks loose.. So why can't women deal with it in the same manner & dignity that men do.
Happy shopping.
Sweeping generalisation much?!
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