TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1,107 posts
Ariyangoutam: I have tried again and again in last 4 years.....but i m still single.....why girls why ? anyone who ll become my gf ??
Purge from your mind anything which makes you feel like you need the woman. Pretend to yourself that your aim isn't getting out of India. You don't need anything from her and there is no plan.
To attract women everything needs to happen by accident and simultaneously everything must happen for a reason. On the surface the man she loves is blase and cocksure, yet there are admirable hidden depths beneath the cocky git(or so she tells herself).
TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1,107 posts
TheRedSquirrel87: Purge from your mind anything which makes you feel like you need the woman. Pretend to yourself that your aim isn't getting out of India. You don't need anything from her and there is no plan.
To attract women everything needs to happen by accident and simultaneously everything must happen for a reason. On the surface the man she loves is blase and cocksure, yet there are admirable hidden depths beneath the cocky git(or so she tells herself).
Always remember that you're appealing to two fiercely different personalities in one body - who she is and what she seems. True nature versus self-image.
And just as surely as any woman attacks and tests a man's self-image to get at what's really driving him, a man must do the same back to her. When you tell a woman you have a master's degree, or when you tell her you love her after 5 minutes(seemingly believing this will get things off to a flying start), this is all self-image. It's obvious you're trying to deceive, and it's not the deception itself which is unattractive, but the fact that you don't feel good enough as you are. You don't feel comfortable enough to "be yourself".
TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1,107 posts
TheRedSquirrel87: Always remember that you're appealing to two fiercely different personalities in one body - who she is and what she seems. True nature versus self-image.
And just as surely as any woman attacks and tests a man's self-image to get at what's really driving him, a man must do the same back to her. When you tell a woman you have a master's degree, or when you tell her you love her after 5 minutes(seemingly believing this will get things off to a flying start), this is all self-image. It's obvious you're trying to deceive, and it's not the deception itself which is unattractive, but the fact that you don't feel good enough as you are. You don't feel comfortable enough to "be yourself".
One way around it is to only date thick chicks. Simple people tend not to have a giant gap between true nature and self-image and this is one reason why men don't place as much importance on the smarts of a woman. What you see is what you get and men care more about what they see.
But north of IQ 110 and women become a Machiavellian cauldron of cunning and self-image. The gulf between true nature and self-image is the greatest in the intelligent woman.
TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1,107 posts
TheRedSquirrel87: One way around it is to only date thick chicks. Simple people tend not to have a giant gap between true nature and self-image and this is one reason why men don't place as much importance on the smarts of a woman. What you see is what you get and men care more about what they see.
But north of IQ 110 and women become a Machiavellian cauldron of cunning and self-image. The gulf between true nature and self-image is the greatest in the intelligent woman.
If you think about it nature gifted men with intelligence to make us better at hunting and setting traps for animals etc. And this translates into today's scientists and engineers.
But what the hell did nature make women smart for?
Did she need those extra brains to raise kids and cook? No. Her smarts are wordy and political, they're not there to put a man on the moon, they are there to control the tribe.
TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1,107 posts
TheRedSquirrel87: If you think about it nature gifted men with intelligence to make us better at hunting and setting traps for animals etc. And this translates into today's scientists and engineers.
But what the hell did nature make women smart for?
Did she need those extra brains to raise kids and cook? No. Her smarts are wordy and political, they're not there to put a man on the moon, they are there to control the tribe.
And this is why women aren't into party politics and ideology. Politics of the impersonal world is man's politics and it is about great power. When I say women's smarts are political I'm talking about petty politics: controlling the people around you through manipulation and wordplay. To woman politics is personal and their love is of petty power. A man may grow up dreaming of power or wishing to overthrow an oppressive government, a woman grows up dreaming of overthrowing the prettiest girl in the room.
A fat or plain woman may declare war on beauty itself and deny its existence for this very reason, but never has a boring man insisted that there's no such thing as charisma.
equiya: why do you see this as a failure??? you are only 24! hello. there is plenty of time.
. No, you are wrong, he is only 5 years old in his head that's why he posted his advert here in the forums and as yet has not come back to post anything else. Typical Indian idiot.
adventure4upinehurst nc, North Carolina USA75 Posts
adventure4upinehurst nc, North Carolina USA75 posts
WELL IT LIKELY IS BECAUSE MOST WESTERN WOMEN DO NOT LIKE ASIAN MEN OR CULTURE AND KNOW HOW BADLY ASIAN MEN AND CULTURE TREAT WOMEN< ESPECIALLY MUSLIMS BUT HINDUS TOO> WHY DONT YOU STICK TO IGNORANT ASIA WOMEN WHO DONT KNOW ANY BETTER? TRY SOME RURAL WOMAN INN YOUR OWN COUNTRY WHO CANNOT READ OR WRITE LIKE MOST OF THEM AND WHEN HER DOWRY IS TO SMALL BLACKMAIL HER FAMILY TO PREVENT A PARAFIN STOVE EXPLOSIO LIKE INDIANS DO?
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