Do long distance relationships work ( Archived) (80)

Jun 22, 2016 4:58 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
I think they do if the intent is to make them short distance relationships

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Jun 22, 2016 5:19 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
tomcatwarne: I think they do if the intent is to make them short distance relationships



at some point, one or the other has to relocate.

the sooner the better.

communication has a tendency, after a while, to break down over long distance. so communicate, communicate, communicate. compromise is a necessary skill you will have to put to use as well. it will take work, and plenty of it. if it's love, heart beating you'll both feel your way through and end up together and live the life you both aspire it to be.

best wishes.
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Jun 22, 2016 5:22 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
purr4mance: at some point, one or the other has to relocate.

the sooner the better.

communication has a tendency, after a while, to break down over long distance. so communicate, communicate, communicate. compromise is a necessary skill you will have to put to use as well. it will take work, and plenty of it. if it's love, you'll both feel your way through and end up together and live the life you both aspire it to be.

best wishes.


Thanks for the infogrin
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Jun 22, 2016 5:34 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
tomcatwarne: I think they do if the intent is to make them short distance relationships


If you meet quickly to ensure there is a connection in real life

And at least one of the people is willing and able to relocate within a year or so.

Otherwise no
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Jun 22, 2016 5:34 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Lookin4missright: Do long distance relationships work
Depends how long it is....

Everybody needs some lovin


I recognise you underneath, is your partner on CS???
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Jun 22, 2016 6:04 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
tomcatwarne: I think they do if the intent is to make them short distance relationships



The longer distance the better.
If didn't work out,blame it on the distance.
Problem solved.
grin
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Jun 22, 2016 6:13 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
My considered opinion is that They can and do work
Subject to the Following - IF's
1. Both parties are to an extent financially secure.
2. --- Willing to make the effort
3. --- And above all - SINCERE

and are NOT
Scammers, Game players and Time-wasters.
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Jun 22, 2016 6:15 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
MikeD12: My considered opinion is that They can and do work
Subject to the Following - IF's
1. Both parties are to an extent financially secure.
2. --- Willing to make the effort
3. --- And above all - SINCERE

and are NOT
Scammers, Game players and Time-wasters.


Oh..... that's you out thengrin grin grin grin grin grin cheers
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Jun 22, 2016 6:16 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
MikeD12: My considered opinion is that They can and do work
Subject to the Following - IF's
1. Both parties are to an extent financially secure.
2. --- Willing to make the effort
3. --- And above all - SINCERE

and are NOT
Scammers, Game players and Time-wasters.


both have to close the distance gap asap.
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Jun 22, 2016 6:29 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Obviously it depends on how much work the two involved put into it.




My eyes are open but my brain is still asleep yet.giggle
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Jun 22, 2016 6:32 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
Ccincy: Obviously it depends on how much work the two involved put into it.

My eyes are open but my brain is still asleep yet.



survey says.......... good answer
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Jun 22, 2016 6:49 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
tomcatwarne: Oh..... that's you out then

OK - If you Insist Sprog grin grin grin grin grin cheers tongue
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Jun 22, 2016 7:05 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
Len05
Len05Len05Antwerp, Antwerpen Belgium33 Threads 11 Polls 972 Posts
what is long distance?
living 2 cities apart is long distance relationship.
all the rest is better called an interest.
a long distance interest.

and if you never have met the other in real life why would you call it a relationship?
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Jun 22, 2016 7:49 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Len05: what is long distance?
living 2 cities apart is long distance relationship.
all the rest is better called an interest.
a long distance interest.

and if you never have met the other in real life why would you call it a relationship?


Not the girl next doorgrin grin grin
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Jun 22, 2016 8:00 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
Len05: what is long distance?
living 2 cities apart is long distance relationship.
all the rest is better called an interest.
a long distance interest.

and if you never have met the other in real life why would you call it a relationship?



Agree with this thumbs up


To me it's essential to meet in RL before even entertaining the idea of any kind of future with someone.


Otherwise it's all in your head
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Jun 22, 2016 8:06 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
serene56: Agree with this To me it's essential to meet in RL before even entertaining the idea of any kind of future with someone.Otherwise it's all in your head

In the last instance isn't everything in your headgrin grin
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Jun 22, 2016 8:06 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
I tried a long distance relationship but was not long enough to reach.
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Jun 22, 2016 8:57 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
tomcatwarne: I think they do if the intent is to make them short distance relationships



Ah, the woman in the photo gave a rose to the guy in the photo. I wonder, are they both transgender? confused

sad flower
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Jun 22, 2016 9:00 AM CST Do long distance relationships work
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
galrads: Ah, the woman in the photo gave a rose to the guy in the photo. I wonder, are they both transgender?


Oh though of little romantic faithgrin grin grin grin
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Jun 22, 2016 4:29 PM CST Do long distance relationships work
tomcatwarne: In the last instance isn't everything in your head



Not when when you're sharing a bed cowboy
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