Well I am that way but still in this situation !!W
Maybe some cheesy chat up lines mite work ,depends on the persons humour I suppose if any ,lol The cheesier the better might get her laughing wort a try and it's the way you tell em ,sound of voice ,,lol.
Well I am that way but still in this situation !!W
DG the reality is this, what is it you want?
Do you want a woman who likes you for you or one that likes the persona you present?
For me, I can only be myself, imperfections and all, no one is perfect but sometimes you get that situation that two people are perfect for each other. In the mean time I enjoy getting to know myself, within myself and through my interactions with others. Or lack of them
Who know's when we will bump into that person whom catches our attention and likewise we catch theirs.
Well I am that way but still in this situation !!W
Well, it is confusing, isn't it? Also as people of course really do differ
I think for example the word 'confident' is wrong for me. Independent sort of sounds much better. Someone who doesn't make you feel your approval or disapproval makes or break their world. When someone gives me that feeling, it almost terrifies me, as I find that's an insane amount of responsibility. Puts me in an awful position, as I don't like hurting people, and I am certain many out there feel the same way.
I personally like the friends approach the best. You know a line like 'You seem nice and interesting, and I like to have nice and interesting friends, so if you are up for that, I'd like to stay in touch, but I'd also understand if you say you already have lots of friends, all fine'. That I find pretty cool, leaves openings in all directions, but of course I like it, as to me it is important to first form a friendship. In my view people rush far too much, and desperation isn't the best adviser, I think.
And good in this is also, if someone takes you up on it, even if it doesn't lead to a couple relationship, you may at least really have won a new friend, and that can be just as valuable
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