Can we talk? (19)
rohaan: Hi anyone and everyone. This is just a short story, and a polite request for your opinions and comments after. (Please be cool and chillax about it, though, OK?)
For a couple of weeks I have been corresponding to someone who seemed a possible match for me, being only a couple of hours away and easy to travel to, etc... In his last letter he told me of two things going on in his life that were, I am afraid, a deal-breaker. My last letter, just a few minutes ago, was this reply:
"No, you did not offer too much information. I have a non-moral but severe aversion to *(420) in any of its forms. Being even occasionally promiscuous with other people is untenable for me. Too much information? (signed)
Now, for youse guys--was this wrong of me, did it sound terrible, rude, etc... or was I also, being upfront? What do you think. What's done is done, I sent it already, but, for future reference, is this way OK enough, is there a better way? Just wondering. (I don not want to be mean to people, so I am trying to ferret out a better design for my life, please try to understand). thx
For a couple of weeks I have been corresponding to someone who seemed a possible match for me, being only a couple of hours away and easy to travel to, etc... In his last letter he told me of two things going on in his life that were, I am afraid, a deal-breaker. My last letter, just a few minutes ago, was this reply:
"No, you did not offer too much information. I have a non-moral but severe aversion to *(420) in any of its forms. Being even occasionally promiscuous with other people is untenable for me. Too much information? (signed)
Now, for youse guys--was this wrong of me, did it sound terrible, rude, etc... or was I also, being upfront? What do you think. What's done is done, I sent it already, but, for future reference, is this way OK enough, is there a better way? Just wondering. (I don not want to be mean to people, so I am trying to ferret out a better design for my life, please try to understand). thx
I don't know what "420" is.
You told him what you will not accept. I would have done the same thing if it was a deal breaker.
Other then that, I'm not sure what you are asking of us.
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I think a 410 is a small shotgun, used for snakes and birds.
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secretagent09: I don't know what "420" is.
You told him what you will not accept. I would have done the same thing if it was a deal breaker.
Other then that, I'm not sure what you are asking of us.
You told him what you will not accept. I would have done the same thing if it was a deal breaker.
Other then that, I'm not sure what you are asking of us.
hiya monte
420
(<--------- and it's not a cigarette....
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Yeah, there's definitely something wrong here.
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CapNemo: Yeah, there's definitely something wrong here.
could you expand, or are you just saying that in a general term? (I realize there are people who do not think that same-gender relationships are cool, and I do respect that not all of us agree on all things, FYI--)------ This thread is Archived ------
your gay or bi ,ok with that,but whats 420
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I think the 420 is the bus route that takes you to the library and the city.
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dutchfreckles: your gay or bi ,ok with that,but whats 420
I don't usually use the term, but I believe it's pot.------ This thread is Archived ------
jono7: the wonderful thing about having boundaries, is that one doesn't have to disappoint themselves.
honesty with respect and compassion....
thanks honey--check your mail in a minute or two--honesty with respect and compassion....
*cards
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pat8lanips: I think a 410 is a small shotgun, used for snakes and birds.
I use a 410 to handicap myself and shoot sporting clays.
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rohaan: I don't usually use the term, but I believe it's pot.
medicinal cannabis is good stuff.
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(Four'N Twenty) Pies! yummy
Originated from auzzie.
Originated from auzzie.
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Hi rohaan
If you cannot adjust, then its not for you.
At least he was honest.
If you cannot adjust, then its not for you.
At least he was honest.
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Na...there's nothing wrong with how you handled that.
There were some things that weren't going to work for you, you explained them without belittling him for them. I think that's about all that's reasonable to expect of ourselves.
There were some things that weren't going to work for you, you explained them without belittling him for them. I think that's about all that's reasonable to expect of ourselves.
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i copied *(420) into google came up relating to cannabis.
(cannabis_culture)
to my mind i think rohaan expressed a view that inhaling is not something she has or would ever consider.
Probably a closed-minded person, lacking tolerance, flexibility or breadth of view, she is capable of being shocked so watch out steer clear
(cannabis_culture)
to my mind i think rohaan expressed a view that inhaling is not something she has or would ever consider.
Probably a closed-minded person, lacking tolerance, flexibility or breadth of view, she is capable of being shocked so watch out steer clear
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rohaan: Hi anyone and everyone. This is just a short story, and a polite request for your opinions and comments after. (Please be cool and chillax about it, though, OK?)
For a couple of weeks I have been corresponding to someone who seemed a possible match for me, being only a couple of hours away and easy to travel to, etc... In his last letter he told me of two things going on in his life that were, I am afraid, a deal-breaker. My last letter, just a few minutes ago, was this reply:
"No, you did not offer too much information. I have a non-moral but severe aversion to *(420) in any of its forms. Being even occasionally promiscuous with other people is untenable for me. Too much information? (signed)
Now, for youse guys--was this wrong of me, did it sound terrible, rude, etc... or was I also, being upfront? What do you think. What's done is done, I sent it already, but, for future reference, is this way OK enough, is there a better way? Just wondering. (I don not want to be mean to people, so I am trying to ferret out a better design for my life, please try to understand). thx
For a couple of weeks I have been corresponding to someone who seemed a possible match for me, being only a couple of hours away and easy to travel to, etc... In his last letter he told me of two things going on in his life that were, I am afraid, a deal-breaker. My last letter, just a few minutes ago, was this reply:
"No, you did not offer too much information. I have a non-moral but severe aversion to *(420) in any of its forms. Being even occasionally promiscuous with other people is untenable for me. Too much information? (signed)
Now, for youse guys--was this wrong of me, did it sound terrible, rude, etc... or was I also, being upfront? What do you think. What's done is done, I sent it already, but, for future reference, is this way OK enough, is there a better way? Just wondering. (I don not want to be mean to people, so I am trying to ferret out a better design for my life, please try to understand). thx
Hiya Ro
You're response was perfect...not rude at all, specific and upfront as it should be. Honest and open communication without being brutal is the way to go and you did it. ------ This thread is Archived ------
rohaan: Hi anyone and everyone. This is just a short story, and a polite request for your opinions and comments after. (Please be cool and chillax about it, though, OK?)
For a couple of weeks I have been corresponding to someone who seemed a possible match for me, being only a couple of hours away and easy to travel to, etc... In his last letter he told me of two things going on in his life that were, I am afraid, a deal-breaker. My last letter, just a few minutes ago, was this reply:
"No, you did not offer too much information. I have a non-moral but severe aversion to *(420) in any of its forms. Being even occasionally promiscuous with other people is untenable for me. Too much information? (signed)
Now, for youse guys--was this wrong of me, did it sound terrible, rude, etc... or was I also, being upfront? What do you think. What's done is done, I sent it already, but, for future reference, is this way OK enough, is there a better way? Just wondering. (I don not want to be mean to people, so I am trying to ferret out a better design for my life, please try to understand). thx
For a couple of weeks I have been corresponding to someone who seemed a possible match for me, being only a couple of hours away and easy to travel to, etc... In his last letter he told me of two things going on in his life that were, I am afraid, a deal-breaker. My last letter, just a few minutes ago, was this reply:
"No, you did not offer too much information. I have a non-moral but severe aversion to *(420) in any of its forms. Being even occasionally promiscuous with other people is untenable for me. Too much information? (signed)
Now, for youse guys--was this wrong of me, did it sound terrible, rude, etc... or was I also, being upfront? What do you think. What's done is done, I sent it already, but, for future reference, is this way OK enough, is there a better way? Just wondering. (I don not want to be mean to people, so I am trying to ferret out a better design for my life, please try to understand). thx
Think you did exactly the right thing Ro.
Too many ppl are not honest in the ''getting to know you phase'' and if they were, it would cut out a lot of heartbreak and wasted energy.
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rohaan: Hi anyone and everyone. This is just a short story, and a polite request for your opinions and comments after. (Please be cool and chillax about it, though, OK?)
For a couple of weeks I have been corresponding to someone who seemed a possible match for me, being only a couple of hours away and easy to travel to, etc... In his last letter he told me of two things going on in his life that were, I am afraid, a deal-breaker. My last letter, just a few minutes ago, was this reply:
"No, you did not offer too much information. I have a non-moral but severe aversion to *(420) in any of its forms. Being even occasionally promiscuous with other people is untenable for me. Too much information? (signed)
Now, for youse guys--was this wrong of me, did it sound terrible, rude, etc... or was I also, being upfront? What do you think. What's done is done, I sent it already, but, for future reference, is this way OK enough, is there a better way? Just wondering. (I don not want to be mean to people, so I am trying to ferret out a better design for my life, please try to understand). thx
For a couple of weeks I have been corresponding to someone who seemed a possible match for me, being only a couple of hours away and easy to travel to, etc... In his last letter he told me of two things going on in his life that were, I am afraid, a deal-breaker. My last letter, just a few minutes ago, was this reply:
"No, you did not offer too much information. I have a non-moral but severe aversion to *(420) in any of its forms. Being even occasionally promiscuous with other people is untenable for me. Too much information? (signed)
Now, for youse guys--was this wrong of me, did it sound terrible, rude, etc... or was I also, being upfront? What do you think. What's done is done, I sent it already, but, for future reference, is this way OK enough, is there a better way? Just wondering. (I don not want to be mean to people, so I am trying to ferret out a better design for my life, please try to understand). thx
Would have done the same.
Good of the guy to be upfront and to not waste your time as well. Something that unfortunately isn't a given.
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For a couple of weeks I have been corresponding to someone who seemed a possible match for me, being only a couple of hours away and easy to travel to, etc... In his last letter he told me of two things going on in his life that were, I am afraid, a deal-breaker. My last letter, just a few minutes ago, was this reply:
"No, you did not offer too much information. I have a non-moral but severe aversion to *(420) in any of its forms. Being even occasionally promiscuous with other people is untenable for me. Too much information? (signed)
Now, for youse guys--was this wrong of me, did it sound terrible, rude, etc... or was I also, being upfront? What do you think. What's done is done, I sent it already, but, for future reference, is this way OK enough, is there a better way? Just wondering. (I don not want to be mean to people, so I am trying to ferret out a better design for my life, please try to understand). thx