Does love matter when choosing a soul mate? ( Archived) (209)

Sep 25, 2016 7:03 PM CST Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
As others have said, I don't see how we can "choose" a soul mate.

It's just a two-way attraction.

I have met one I thought was close, but I wouldn't say he was a "perfect" soul-mate.

And my mind didn't want to want him. laugh
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Sep 25, 2016 7:07 PM CST Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?
Wizardglick
WizardglickWizardglickBurlington, Ontario Canada1 Threads 263 Posts
calmheartseeks: As others have said, I don't see how we can "choose" a soul mate.

It's just a two-way attraction.

I have met one I thought was close, but I wouldn't say he was a "perfect" soul-mate.

And my mind didn't want to want him.


Well you have to be mentally in love as well, which is where
I fell short some years back.
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Sep 25, 2016 7:22 PM CST Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
When I said my mind didn't want to want him, I meant that he had personality characteristics that I knew would not be good for me in a long term relationship.

Still, there was this really strong attraction.

When we love, it's hard to have everything fall in place: to love with our mind, with our heart, and so on. bouquet
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Sep 25, 2016 7:35 PM CST Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?
Wizardglick
WizardglickWizardglickBurlington, Ontario Canada1 Threads 263 Posts
calmheartseeks: When I said my mind didn't want to want him, I meant that he had personality characteristics that I knew would not be good for me in a long term relationship.

Still, there was this really strong attraction.

When we love, it's hard to have everything fall in place: to love with our mind, with our heart, and so on.


You might have more analytical depth in that area than I.conversing Your alluring profile name says it well.thumbs up
Not much thought went into mine.laugh ...and..bouquet
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Sep 25, 2016 7:40 PM CST Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
lol. Many people are ruled by the heart or the physical?

Sounds like you slipped, stumbled, and fell into love. Don't know if you are an Elvis fan. :)
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Sep 25, 2016 7:45 PM CST Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?
Wizardglick
WizardglickWizardglickBurlington, Ontario Canada1 Threads 263 Posts
calmheartseeks: lol. Many people are ruled by the heart or the physical?

Sounds like you slipped, stumbled, and fell into love. Don't know if you are an Elvis fan. :)


Only once, when I was 49conversing Was emotionally cold prior.
Hindsight educated me on that, and yes a few songs I really dig.
His movies totally sucked.uh oh
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Sep 25, 2016 7:49 PM CST Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
True, most of them did. The sad thing was he so wanted to be an actor.

I loved his songs though...not all of them, but a lot.

My brothers and sisters were fans (they were six years older) so that influenced me a lot.
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Sep 25, 2016 7:51 PM CST Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?
Wizardglick
WizardglickWizardglickBurlington, Ontario Canada1 Threads 263 Posts
Bed time( I have discipline )wave
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Sep 25, 2016 7:53 PM CST Does love matter when choosing a soul mate?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
That's good. I wish I had more of it. I tend to stay up late when I shouldn't. wave
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