Since I've came back to the site I get numerous emails, being very suspicious that most are from scammers. But, what really alarms me is that so few can actually carry on a simple conversation. Many ask the same questions that my profile answers if they'd just read it. I've rejoined the site to make some new friends and join in in the forums. A lot of the people that email me just can't seem to carry on a conversation. I can instantly tell where some are going...."Let me suck on your toes", etc. Conversation or being able to communicate is a basis for any relationship. So, if so many cannot even carry on a simple conversation to really get to know someone, how do they expect to have a true relationship with anyone?
Shinegirl: Since I've came back to the site I get numerous emails, being very suspicious that most are from scammers. But, what really alarms me is that so few can actually carry on a simple conversation. Many ask the same questions that my profile answers if they'd just read it. I've rejoined the site to make some new friends and join in in the forums. A lot of the people that email me just can't seem to carry on a conversation. I can instantly tell where some are going...."Let me suck on your toes", etc. Conversation or being able to communicate is a basis for any relationship. So, if so many cannot even carry on a simple conversation to really get to know someone, how do they expect to have a true relationship with anyone?
There are many married people who have never had a decent conversation
Different people want different things.
But, there are plenty of intelligent, funny , witty men on this site who are more than capable of having a good conversation, so don't despair yet
mollybaby: There are many married people who have never had a decent conversation
Different people want different things.
But, there are plenty of intelligent, funny , witty men on this site who are more than capable of having a good conversation, so don't despair yet
I have met several of my friends on the site before, but here lately it's just the emails from people. WTH do they want?! I try to carry on a conversation with them to see if they are scammers or true people and most cant do it. So aggravating. Why even bother to email is you don't want to actually chat and really get to know someone, have a laugh, something?
Shinegirl: Since I've came back to the site I get numerous emails, being very suspicious that most are from scammers. But, what really alarms me is that so few can actually carry on a simple conversation. Many ask the same questions that my profile answers if they'd just read it. I've rejoined the site to make some new friends and join in in the forums. A lot of the people that email me just can't seem to carry on a conversation. I can instantly tell where some are going...."Let me suck on your toes", etc. Conversation or being able to communicate is a basis for any relationship. So, if so many cannot even carry on a simple conversation to really get to know someone, how do they expect to have a true relationship with anyone?
They don't read your profile. They see your picture when they check to see whose "Online Now". That's how they choose you.
Anyone who doesn't take the time to read your profile is probably just looking to hook up with you for a night.
Men who just want to get "lucky" aren't looking for conversation.
Very difficult to find someone who wants to talk whether email or Skype.
Much easier to find that in the real world.
Don't give up. Just block and delete and then come over to the forums. There are some people here who love to talk
Shinegirl: I have met several of my friends on the site before, but here lately it's just the emails from people. WTH do they want?! I try to carry on a conversation with them to see if they are scammers or true people and most cant do it. So aggravating. Why even bother to email is you don't want to actually chat and really get to know someone, have a laugh, something?
Lots of people in RL can't hold down a conversation either.
And some can in real life, but can't have a written one.
Shinegirl: Since I've came back to the site I get numerous emails, being very suspicious that most are from scammers. But, what really alarms me is that so few can actually carry on a simple conversation. Many ask the same questions that my profile answers if they'd just read it. I've rejoined the site to make some new friends and join in in the forums. A lot of the people that email me just can't seem to carry on a conversation. I can instantly tell where some are going...."Let me suck on your toes", etc. Conversation or being able to communicate is a basis for any relationship. So, if so many cannot even carry on a simple conversation to really get to know someone, how do they expect to have a true relationship with anyone?
If I was looking for adult conversation I would searching for it in real life not on the internet. In the last few days I've had to block out people I didn't care to have a conversation with.
secretagent09: They don't read your profile. They see your picture when they check to see whose "Online Now". That's how they choose you.
Anyone who doesn't take the time to read your profile is probably just looking to hook up with you for a night.
Men who just want to get "lucky" aren't looking for conversation.
Very difficult to find someone who wants to talk whether email or Skype.
Much easier to find that in the real world.
Don't give up. Just block and delete and then come over to the forums. There are some people here who love to talk
Good luck to you
I figured the "hooking up for a night" thing myself. But they can't hook up with me if they are in the middle of the U.S. and I'm on the east coast. Then I figured they probably wanted to video chat and exchange naked pictures so I just slammed that to a halt, too. In a weeks time I have more people blocked than on my friend's list.
Shinegirl: I figured the "hooking up for a night" thing myself. But they can't hook up with me if they are in the middle of the U.S. and I'm on the east coast. Then I figured they probably wanted to video chat and exchange naked pictures so I just slammed that to a halt, too. In a weeks time I have more people blocked than on my friend's list.
Ccincy: If I was looking for adult conversation I would searching for it in real life not on the internet. In the last few days I've had to block out people I didn't care to have a conversation with.
Yes, I do that, as well. It was just alarming that so many people couldn't have a simple conversation on here. I like this site because it exposes me to people all over the world, all different cultures, different beliefs....something that I don't get in real life. Trust me, I have my share of conversations in real life but sometimes I just want to be around people other than who I live among.
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