Okay ladies, tell me, what would you do with the knowledge that another woman is wanting to take your man away from you? You know your relationship is secure, solid, and that your man would never do anything to hurt you. But a woman finds an overwhelming desire to have him, and will go to great lengths to get him. Lies, deceit, set ups to make a situation look bad, setting him up into a situation he had no idea that would put him into a bad spot, etc. What would you do?
DanceWithWinds60: Okay ladies, tell me, what would you do with the knowledge that another woman is wanting to take your man away from you? You know your relationship is secure, solid, and that your man would never do anything to hurt you. But a woman finds an overwhelming desire to have him, and will go to great lengths to get him. Lies, deceit, set ups to make a situation look bad, setting him up into a situation he had no idea that would put him into a bad spot, etc. What would you do?
Do nothing, let his character strength shine through ( although I am not a lady)
DanceWithWinds60: Okay ladies, tell me, what would you do with the knowledge that another woman is wanting to take your man away from you? You know your relationship is secure, solid, and that your man would never do anything to hurt you. But a woman finds an overwhelming desire to have him, and will go to great lengths to get him. Lies, deceit, set ups to make a situation look bad, setting him up into a situation he had no idea that would put him into a bad spot, etc. What would you do?
No one can take anyone, only they can give themselves thus the responsibility is totally at his door not to cheat.
Oh I so agree Shine! The pleasure of being able to take that wench down a few pegs. But, reality is, we would be arrested for assault. So what other options would there be? I am trying to help with a very good friend of mine, who has found herself in this position. Her husband has made it very clear to this woman that he loves his wife and is 110% devoted to her. But this woman is now playing very dirty!
DanceWithWinds60: Okay ladies, tell me, what would you do with the knowledge that another woman is wanting to take your man away from you? You know your relationship is secure, solid, and that your man would never do anything to hurt you. But a woman finds an overwhelming desire to have him, and will go to great lengths to get him. Lies, deceit, set ups to make a situation look bad, setting him up into a situation he had no idea that would put him into a bad spot, etc. What would you do?
Be respectful , let both your man and the woman concerned know you know whats going on and if that does not work by lunch time , spread rumors that she has the clap
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
DanceWithWinds60: Okay ladies, tell me, what would you do with the knowledge that another woman is wanting to take your man away from you? You know your relationship is secure, solid, and that your man would never do anything to hurt you. But a woman finds an overwhelming desire to have him, and will go to great lengths to get him. Lies, deceit, set ups to make a situation look bad, setting him up into a situation he had no idea that would put him into a bad spot, etc. What would you do?
Walk away.
If the relationship is secure and solid, he will still be there for you.
epirb: Be respectful , let both your man and the woman concerned know you know whats going on and if that does not work by lunch time , spread rumors that she has the clap
diova: If you're in a secure, solid relationship with a man that would never do anything to hurt you, you have nothing to worry about
The games she is playing is putting a strain on them. My friend can't even go to the store without finding this woman stalking her to cause a problem. My friend was late on her car inspection, this wench called the police and she received a ticket. Even though she showed the officer that she had an appointment the next day to get a repair done to receive the inspection. This woman is crazy!
Y'all are missing the point here. The man is behaving and this woman is causing a significant amount of trouble. Man aside, woman is out of control and causing lots of problems. Obviously she has mental problems to keep pursuing a man that is not interested(if this is the case). As I've mentioned before, if the man is doing ANYTHING to feed the situation then I'd back off and be done. I don't play that way. But this woman that is causing problems and the man is not interested, she's eventually gonna have to be dealt with. She's probably gonna keep on. Now each of us on here can say what we might do, but if we were really in the situation it would be all different.
epirb: Be respectful , let both your man and the woman concerned know you know whats going on and if that does not work by lunch time , spread rumors that she has the clap
ROFLMAO I wish my friend was the type of person that would do that, but she isn't. She is a very kind person, which is getting in the way with this situation.
Wizardglick: Do nothing, let his character strength shine through ( although I am not a lady)
if he can`t handle this woman without getting arrested , than i would step in we both could take a united front or something, but lick is right ....let him try to handle it.
The games she is playing is putting a strain on them. My friend can't even go to the store without finding this woman stalking her to cause a problem. My friend was late on her car inspection, this wench called the police and she received a ticket. Even though she showed the officer that she had an appointment the next day to get a repair done to receive the inspection. This woman is crazy![/quote
Shinegirl: Y'all are missing the point here. The man is behaving and this woman is causing a significant amount of trouble. Man aside, woman is out of control and causing lots of problems. Obviously she has mental problems to keep pursuing a man that is not interested(if this is the case). As I've mentioned before, if the man is doing ANYTHING to feed the situation then I'd back off and be done. I don't play that way. But this woman that is causing problems and the man is not interested, she's eventually gonna have to be dealt with. She's probably gonna keep on. Now each of us on here can say what we might do, but if we were really in the situation it would be all different.
Thank you Shine. This has been going on for over four months! And instead of it stopping, even with a court order, it is getting worse! It is my friends worse nightmare. Her husband is doing everything in his power to get this woman to stop, plus trying to keep his wife reassured and safe.
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