Cosmicgirl68OPChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand86 posts
A quote I found....
"Guys, it's simple... If you don't have any intentions of being with her long term, tell her. If you're dating multiple women and not sure you want to be in a serious relationship, don't string her along. If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together, don't give her false hope. Women are not fragile creatures who can't handle the truth. We just need someone man enough to tell us his intentions from the start."
"Guys, it's simple... If you don't have any intentions of being with her long term, tell her. If you're dating multiple women and not sure you want to be in a serious relationship, don't string her along. If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together, don't give her false hope. Women are not fragile creatures who can't handle the truth. We just need someone man enough to tell us his intentions from the start."
It's impossible to say, after just a couple of meets, whether you are compatible with that person or not . Sometimes you have your doubts & reservations when starting a new relationship but keeping an open mind doesn't necessarily mean you're stringing them alone. However, I agree that if you have no intentions of perusing the relationship, the kindest thing to do , in the long run, is to terminate it.
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
One2note: It's impossible to say, after just a couple of meets, whether you are compatible with that person or not . Sometimes you have your doubts & reservations when starting a new relationship but keeping an open mind doesn't necessarily mean you're stringing them alone. However, I agree that if you have no intentions of perusing the relationship, the kindest thing to do , in the long run, is to terminate it.
BerrySmoothie: Yeah, I get where you're coming from....
I prefer to be the chopper, than the choppee, any day......
Hope all is well with you....
I think women generally, can be more ruthless , as far as terminating a relationship is concerned.. The only difference between females & the praying mantis, is that you spare our lives, after mating. (Most of the time) I'm well sweetheart..
This should apply to both genders (or all 30-35 as some scientists insist)...
But : -How can you know what your intentions are, early enough, not to hurt the other's feelings? -Dating multiple women speaks for itself, why spare just one...? -Many are fast on dating after break up, usually the "healer" gets dumped...fact! -Women are not fragile? Who said men are? Generalising... -Need someone who is a man enough to dump you fairly? Think again... -Clear intentions from the start? Feelings need time to blossom, you can't be possibly certain at an early stage and an early stage means many months...and even more...
So, just brace yourself and live the life as it comes...some wise people call it experience...
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
One2note: Thanks for the warning ..
But my Houdiniesk escapes have become almost legendary on the site & escaping from the deep dark hole, is a challenge I look forward to. I wonder is CS has a Nobel prize for bravery .
Yes, well....we all know what happened to Houdini in the end....
Let's hope you live to tell the tale of your courageous feats....
RumplesManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK592 Posts
RumplesManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK592 posts
Cosmicgirl68: A quote I found....
"Guys, it's simple... If you don't have any intentions of being with her long term, tell her. If you're dating multiple women and not sure you want to be in a serious relationship, don't string her along. If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together, don't give her false hope. Women are not fragile creatures who can't handle the truth. We just need someone man enough to tell us his intentions from the start."
Despite the world's efforts to comfort and reassure a woman nothing is for certain apart from uncertainty. Live with not knowing what's going to happen and live with risk - man up a little bit.
"Guys, it's simple... If you don't have any intentions of being with her long term, tell her. If you're dating multiple women and not sure you want to be in a serious relationship, don't string her along. If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together, don't give her false hope. Women are not fragile creatures who can't handle the truth. We just need someone man enough to tell us his intentions from the start."
A mirrored quote for A quote I found....
"Guys, it's simple... If you don't have any intentions of being with him long term, tell him. If you're dating multiple men and not sure you want to be in a serious relationship, don't string him along. If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together, don't give him false hope. Men are not fragile creatures who can't handle the truth. We just need someone woman enough to tell us Her intentions from the start."
"Guys, it's simple... If you don't have any intentions of being with her long term, tell her. If you're dating multiple women and not sure you want to be in a serious relationship, don't string her along. If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together, don't give her false hope. Women are not fragile creatures who can't handle the truth. We just need someone man enough to tell us his intentions from the start."
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"Guys, it's simple...
If you don't have any intentions of being with her long term, tell her.
If you're dating multiple women and not sure you want to be in a serious
relationship, don't string her along.
If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together,
don't give her false hope. Women are not fragile creatures who can't
handle the truth. We just need someone man enough to tell us
his intentions from the start."