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Nov 7, 2016 3:37 AM CST Just Be Honest...
Cosmicgirl68
Cosmicgirl68Cosmicgirl68Christchurch, Canterbury New Zealand4 Threads 86 Posts
A quote I found....

"Guys, it's simple...
If you don't have any intentions of being with her long term, tell her.
If you're dating multiple women and not sure you want to be in a serious
relationship, don't string her along.
If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together,
don't give her false hope. Women are not fragile creatures who can't
handle the truth. We just need someone man enough to tell us
his intentions from the start." bouquet
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Nov 7, 2016 5:50 AM CST Just Be Honest...
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Cosmicgirl68: A quote I found....

"Guys, it's simple...
If you don't have any intentions of being with her long term, tell her.
If you're dating multiple women and not sure you want to be in a serious
relationship, don't string her along.
If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together,
don't give her false hope. Women are not fragile creatures who can't
handle the truth. We just need someone man enough to tell us
his intentions from the start."


It's impossible to say, after just a couple of meets, whether you are compatible with that person or not .
Sometimes you have your doubts & reservations when starting a new relationship but keeping an open mind doesn't necessarily mean you're stringing them alone.
However, I agree that if you have no intentions of perusing the relationship, the kindest thing to do , in the long run, is to terminate it.
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Nov 7, 2016 5:55 AM CST Just Be Honest...
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
One2note: It's impossible to say, after just a couple of meets, whether you are compatible with that person or not .
Sometimes you have your doubts & reservations when starting a new relationship but keeping an open mind doesn't necessarily mean you're stringing them alone.
However, I agree that if you have no intentions of perusing the relationship, the kindest thing to do , in the long run, is to terminate it.



Are you the terminator, in disguise?.....laugh
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Nov 7, 2016 6:01 AM CST Just Be Honest...
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Are you the terminator, in disguise?.....


Quite the opposite.laugh
I've probably been dumped more often than not.
comfort
So it's a good ploy to have a backup, when the invertible does occur.professor laugh

wink wave
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Nov 7, 2016 6:05 AM CST Just Be Honest...
UsernameTaken123
UsernameTaken123UsernameTaken123Cairns, Queensland Australia2 Threads 66 Posts
He vill be bak!cool
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Nov 7, 2016 6:06 AM CST Just Be Honest...
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
One2note: Quite the opposite.
I've probably been dumped more often than not.

So it's a good ploy to have a backup, when the invertible does occur.


Yeah, I get where you're coming from....laugh

I prefer to be the chopper, than the choppee, any day......laugh

Hope all is well with you....hug
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Nov 7, 2016 6:18 AM CST Just Be Honest...
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Yeah, I get where you're coming from....

I prefer to be the chopper, than the choppee, any day......

Hope all is well with you....


I think women generally, can be more ruthless , as far as terminating a relationship is concerned..
The only difference between females & the praying mantis, is that you spare our lives, after mating. (Most of the time)laugh
I'm well sweetheart..hug
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Nov 7, 2016 6:48 AM CST Just Be Honest...
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
This should apply to both genders (or all 30-35 as some scientists insist)...

But :
-How can you know what your intentions are, early enough, not to hurt the other's feelings?
-Dating multiple women speaks for itself, why spare just one...?
-Many are fast on dating after break up, usually the "healer" gets dumped...fact!
-Women are not fragile? Who said men are? Generalising...
-Need someone who is a man enough to dump you fairly? Think again...
-Clear intentions from the start? Feelings need time to blossom, you can't be possibly certain at an early stage and an early stage means many months...and even more...

So, just brace yourself and live the life as it comes...some wise people call it experience... laugh
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Nov 7, 2016 6:51 AM CST Just Be Honest...
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
One2note: Thanks for the warning ..

But my Houdiniesk escapes have become almost legendary on the site & escaping from the deep dark hole, is a challenge I look forward to.
I wonder is CS has a Nobel prize for bravery .


Yes, well....we all know what happened to Houdini in the end....laugh

Let's hope you live to tell the tale of your courageous feats....laugh
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Nov 7, 2016 7:29 AM CST Just Be Honest...
Rumples
RumplesRumplesManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK592 Posts
Cosmicgirl68: A quote I found....

"Guys, it's simple...
If you don't have any intentions of being with her long term, tell her.
If you're dating multiple women and not sure you want to be in a serious
relationship, don't string her along.
If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together,
don't give her false hope. Women are not fragile creatures who can't
handle the truth. We just need someone man enough to tell us
his intentions from the start."


Despite the world's efforts to comfort and reassure a woman nothing is for certain apart from uncertainty. Live with not knowing what's going to happen and live with risk - man up a little bit.
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Nov 7, 2016 7:33 AM CST Just Be Honest...
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
UsernameTaken123: He vill be bak!


This thumbs up
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Nov 7, 2016 10:43 AM CST Just Be Honest...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Cosmicgirl68: A quote I found....

"Guys, it's simple...
If you don't have any intentions of being with her long term, tell her.
If you're dating multiple women and not sure you want to be in a serious
relationship, don't string her along.
If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together,
don't give her false hope. Women are not fragile creatures who can't
handle the truth. We just need someone man enough to tell us
his intentions from the start."


A mirrored quote for A quote I found....

"Guys, it's simple...
If you don't have any intentions of being with him long term, tell him.
If you're dating multiple men and not sure you want to be in a serious
relationship, don't string him along.
If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together,
don't give him false hope. Men are not fragile creatures who can't
handle the truth. We just need someone woman enough to tell us
Her intentions from the start."

yay
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Nov 7, 2016 11:15 AM CST Just Be Honest...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Goes both ways whether we are male or female.
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Nov 7, 2016 11:37 AM CST Just Be Honest...
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Cosmicgirl68: A quote I found....

"Guys, it's simple...
If you don't have any intentions of being with her long term, tell her.
If you're dating multiple women and not sure you want to be in a serious
relationship, don't string her along.
If you just got out of a relationship and are trying to get your life together,
don't give her false hope. Women are not fragile creatures who can't
handle the truth. We just need someone man enough to tell us
his intentions from the start."

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


Immigrating to NZ.its out of the question.


yay yay yay yay
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Nov 7, 2016 11:44 AM CST Just Be Honest...
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Careful where you step honey...



Men don't do ruthless most of the time. They just do the disappearing act.....





The best way is, to tell her face to face.

ITS OVER AND DONE WITH.

grin grin grin
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Nov 7, 2016 3:44 PM CST Just Be Honest...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
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Hiya Lookin, we've all had one of those at some stage laugh
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Nov 7, 2016 4:44 PM CST Just Be Honest...
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
mollybaby: Try a pair next


pear professor
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Nov 7, 2016 4:46 PM CST Just Be Honest...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Lookin4missright: Goes both ways of course


Come here you i wanna show you some affection

think there is a song about that



reunion lips hug
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Nov 7, 2016 4:47 PM CST Just Be Honest...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Lookin4missright: pear



Play on words hunnyroll eyes


grin
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Nov 7, 2016 4:50 PM CST Just Be Honest...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Lookin4missright: Seems like we both need to get laid

We might have to crawl up a chickens ar*se and wait


Is that a well known pickup joint?
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