How did your last relationship end?

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One2note One2note

London, Essex, England UK

How did your last relationship end?
Mine ended about a month ago . I was seeing a lady on & off , for a couple of weeks, until she gave me an ultimatum, either stop smoking or we're over.
I gave it about a minute of careful thought & consideration & I decided to say my farewells & wished her luck in the future.
I know it sounds heartless but where does the constant need to control end? If she didn't like my habit, why did she agree to date me initially ?
Women.doh
pat8lanips pat8lanips

babinda, Queensland Australia

Re: How did your last relationship end?
It hasn't ended.
I do my thing she does hers, no crosssover reaLLY. HOWS ABOUT a suck on the bat?
johnjjm johnjjm

co westmeath0000, Westmeath Ireland

Re: How did your last relationship end?
One2note: Mine ended about a month ago . I was seeing a lady on & off , for a couple of weeks, until she gave me an ultimatum, either stop smoking or we're over.
I gave it about a minute of careful thought & consideration & I decided to say my farewells & wished her luck in the future.
I know it sounds heartless but where does the constant need to control end? If she didn't like my habit, why did she agree to date me initially ?
Women.
maybe she thought you was rich
daniela777 daniela777

France/UK/Germany/Spain, Murcia Spain

Re: How did your last relationship end?
One2note: Mine ended about a month ago . I was seeing a lady on & off , for a couple of weeks, until she gave me an ultimatum, either stop smoking or we're over.
I gave it about a minute of careful thought & consideration & I decided to say my farewells & wished her luck in the future.
I know it sounds heartless but where does the constant need to control end? If she didn't like my habit, why did she agree to date me initially ?
Women.


Hello, maybe she was hoping that you would give it up for... love/her?

Ultimatums are not good and it sounds like emotional blackmail. There are other ways to get a person to change their filthy habits..wink
daniela777 daniela777

France/UK/Germany/Spain, Murcia Spain

Re: How did your last relationship end?
Mine ended 3 years ago just because it had to and wasn´t meant to last forever.

I started horse riding again after that and it didn´t bring me good luck either as I had a bad accident shortly after!grin
One2note One2note

London, Essex, England UK

Re: How did your last relationship end?
johnjjm: maybe she thought you was rich


Do you think flying her on one of my private jets to an uninhibited island, greeting her with a champagne reception, was a bit of a giveaway.dunno laugh
One2note One2note

London, Essex, England UK

Re: How did your last relationship end?
daniela777: Hello, maybe she was hoping that you would give it up for... love/her?

Ultimatums are not good and it sounds like emotional blackmail. There are other ways to get a person to change their filthy habits..


Love her.. We dating for two weeks & we went on 3 dates. doh laugh
One2note One2note

London, Essex, England UK

Re: How did your last relationship end?
daniela777: Mine ended 3 years ago just because it had to and wasn´t meant to last forever.

I started horse riding again after that and it didn´t bring me good luck either as I had a bad accident shortly after!


Why did it end?
One2note One2note

London, Essex, England UK

Re: How did your last relationship end?
One2note: Why did it end?


Ps. I'm sorry about the accident . sad flower
daniela777 daniela777

France/UK/Germany/Spain, Murcia Spain

Re: How did your last relationship end?
One2note: Love her.. We dating for two weeks & we went on 3 dates.


Oh well... in this case I wouldn´t even date a smoker as for me it would be a deal breaker from the start. grin
One2note One2note

London, Essex, England UK

Re: How did your last relationship end?
daniela777: Oh well... in this case I wouldn´t even date a smoker as for me it would be a deal breaker from the start.


So you would dismiss me, a hard working , responsible , caring man, just because I smoke?
daniela777 daniela777

France/UK/Germany/Spain, Murcia Spain

Re: How did your last relationship end?
One2note: Ps. I'm sorry about the accident .


I suppose we just drifted apart and we just knew that it was only a temporary relationship - which was great for both of us - and there were lessons to be learned. sigh

As for the horses, something good came out of it after all as I have been helping in a horse rescue centre ever since and the contact with those wonderful animals has helped me a great deal with my recovery.head banger
daniela777 daniela777

France/UK/Germany/Spain, Murcia Spain

Re: How did your last relationship end?
One2note: So you would dismiss me, a hard working , responsible , caring man, just because I smoke?


Well, when you put it that way...? confused
We could always reach a compromise that you only smoke outside where the smoke wouldn´t affect me? dunno
One2note One2note

London, Essex, England UK

Re: How did your last relationship end?
daniela777: Well, when you put it that way...?
We could always reach a compromise that you only smoke outside where the smoke wouldn´t affect me?


I'm always considerate in that way, especially where health is concerned.bouquet
daniela777 daniela777

France/UK/Germany/Spain, Murcia Spain

Re: How did your last relationship end?
One2note: I'm always considerate in that way, especially where health is concerned.


Good, I like considerate people! thumbs up hug
daniela777 daniela777

France/UK/Germany/Spain, Murcia Spain

Re: How did your last relationship end?
daniela777: Good, I like considerate people!


I forgot to ad ... you would also need plenty of mouth wash as I can´t stand kissing a smoker. barf
One2note One2note

London, Essex, England UK

Re: How did your last relationship end?
daniela777: I forgot to ad ... you would also need plenty of mouth wash as I can´t stand kissing a smoker.


I can see some very familiar traits between you & my previous.help laugh
KremaP KremaP

At home, Shumen Bulgaria

Re: How did your last relationship end?
Mine ended more than 5 years ago when I caught him cheating on a couple of dating sites, one of which was CS...this is how I joined laugh ...hacked his profile and found out he was actually cheating from a year earlier...in real life...with a woman from the other site... roll eyes
One2note One2note

London, Essex, England UK

Re: How did your last relationship end?
KremaP: Mine ended more than 5 years ago when I caught him cheating on a couple of dating sites, one of which was CS...this is how I joined ...hacked his profile and found out he was actually cheating from a year earlier...in real life...with a woman from the other site...


Why would someone do that , knowing full well, what they had to loose?
Did you neglect him in any way?
KremaP KremaP

At home, Shumen Bulgaria

Re: How did your last relationship end?
One2note: Why would someone do that , knowing full well, what they had to loose?
Did you neglect him in any way?






No, I didn't neglect him in any way, but probably my unexpected pregnancy and a baby at a certain age, you know, it wasn't very enjoyable moment...
Don't get me wrong, he loves his son...
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