WIDOWER, DIVORCEE or NEVER BEEN MARRIED? (38)
At my age "Still with a pulse" is one of the few remaining options...
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Grumpywriter: At my age "Still with a pulse" is one of the few remaining options...
So you mean Grumpy that you would settle for anything ?
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It's been so long I need a manual and a join the dots book to even recognise what a woman looks like. The pulse would just be a bonus...
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You missed never married and it's bliss
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daniela777: WHAT ARE YOUR PREFERENCES IN A POTENTIAL PARTNER?
Female, 18-80, crippled, blind, or crazy....
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Neropa2: You missed never married and it's bliss
Neropa feel free to add to the list.
Yes I suppose I've met a few of those too. In fact my eldest son is one who doesn't want committed relationships.
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Grumpywriter: It's been so long I need a manual and a join the dots book to even recognise what a woman looks like. The pulse would just be a bonus...
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daniela777: WHAT ARE YOUR PREFERENCES IN A POTENTIAL PARTNER?
A Widower, a Divorcee, or someone who has never married and has no children?
From my own personal experience, the Widowers I have met had not really recovered from the loss of their spouse and still living in the past and are usually desperate to find another woman as soon as possible.
The Divorcees I´ve met were ok, as long as they had only been married once, had learned from their mistakes had no anger/resentment issues towards their ex and had lived on their own for some time and moved on.
The ones who have been married 2 or 3 times, with lots of anger issues and still repeating the same pattern are the ones I didn´t get involved with.
As for the men who had never been married and had no kids... another story!
What are your personal experiences?
A Widower, a Divorcee, or someone who has never married and has no children?
From my own personal experience, the Widowers I have met had not really recovered from the loss of their spouse and still living in the past and are usually desperate to find another woman as soon as possible.
The Divorcees I´ve met were ok, as long as they had only been married once, had learned from their mistakes had no anger/resentment issues towards their ex and had lived on their own for some time and moved on.
The ones who have been married 2 or 3 times, with lots of anger issues and still repeating the same pattern are the ones I didn´t get involved with.
As for the men who had never been married and had no kids... another story!
What are your personal experiences?
I always been another story
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Track16: I always been another story
Hi Track. .nice to see you here.
Other stories are nice as they are different and sometimes unique.
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rmac318: Female, 18-80, crippled, blind, or crazy....
Hey Mac. I forgot you....let me see...ummm
What about their marital status? How would you like a 5 times divorced or widowed crazy woman?
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daniela777: I agree with what you're saying but I wasn't talking about looking at their marital status to decide whether to date a person or not but how it will affect the compatibility.
If someone is stuck in the past and still has anger or resentment or whatever issue with the ex it just won't work.
We're talking here about personality and character.
If someone is stuck in the past and still has anger or resentment or whatever issue with the ex it just won't work.
We're talking here about personality and character.
Hi Daniela, if we are talking about personality and character, then their past marital status is irrelevant.
People can be embittered no matter their status, or they may be open and forgiving no matter their status.
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daniela777: Hi Track. .nice to see you here.
Other stories are nice as they are different and sometimes unique.
Other stories are nice as they are different and sometimes unique.
Its not always a bad thing. The world would be a awful dull place if everyone's story was the same :)
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mollybaby: Hi Daniela, if we are talking about personality and character, then their past marital status is irrelevant.
People can be embittered no matter their status, or they may be open and forgiving no matter their status.
People can be embittered no matter their status, or they may be open and forgiving no matter their status.
Hi Molly.
Yes you're right. This is what I'm talking about but the wrong words came out
I'm afraid this time of the night is my bedtime. Also I don't know if you can edit comments here???
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Track16: Its not always a bad thing. The world would be a awful dull place if everyone's story was the same :)
It would indeed!
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Why Your Ex is Bat Chit Crazy
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think all these boxes are a joke .being called widowed or single or any of these terms granda another one that bugs me .if you like someone to me it makes no difference a married woman still with husband woul be given a wide berth apart from that I have no choices
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daniela777: WHAT ARE YOUR PREFERENCES IN A POTENTIAL PARTNER?
A Widower, a Divorcee, or someone who has never married and has no children?
A female who knows how to be a woman, knows how to be a lady and can let the little girl inside come out to play with the little boy at times.A Widower, a Divorcee, or someone who has never married and has no children?
Her past is still back there where it belongs yet her experiences, wisdom and knowledge have remained with her.
Her heart is as soft and gentle as that little spot on the neck just behind her earlobes.
(you can stop feeling your neck now
)See, I'm not asking for a lot......or am I?
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I have always been of the opinion that if I meet and like someone, then their past is what has made them the person I like today, if they also come across as someone I feel attracted to then that's even better.
I would never rule someone out because of X many previous relationships/Marriages as that is truly not relevant, what's important is now and what happens in the future.
I would never rule someone out because of X many previous relationships/Marriages as that is truly not relevant, what's important is now and what happens in the future.
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YouMeUs: A female who knows how to be a woman, knows how to be a lady and can let the little girl inside come out to play with the little boy at times.
Her past is still back there where it belongs yet her experiences, wisdom and knowledge have remained with her.
Her heart is as soft and gentle as that little spot on the neck just behind her earlobes.
(you can stop feeling your neck now )
See, I'm not asking for a lot......or am I?
Her past is still back there where it belongs yet her experiences, wisdom and knowledge have remained with her.
Her heart is as soft and gentle as that little spot on the neck just behind her earlobes.
(you can stop feeling your neck now )
See, I'm not asking for a lot......or am I?
No, sounds very reasonable to me.
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A Widower, a Divorcee, or someone who has never married and has no children?
From my own personal experience, the Widowers I have met had not really recovered from the loss of their spouse and still living in the past and are usually desperate to find another woman as soon as possible.
The Divorcees I´ve met were ok, as long as they had only been married once, had learned from their mistakes had no anger/resentment issues towards their ex and had lived on their own for some time and moved on.
The ones who have been married 2 or 3 times, with lots of anger issues and still repeating the same pattern are the ones I didn´t get involved with.
As for the men who had never been married and had no kids... another story!
What are your personal experiences?