relation ship through the distance. why is so difficult (101)
Amed32: How many times has it happened that we know a person by our email, and when we start to write, things start to happen that fill the space of that person who may be by your side, but not enough to replace this relationship you start? How many of us have not tried to look for that cybernetic love that will make us happy even if only for beautiful images? Do you think it is possible to shorten the distance for a long time to love a person? Many people do not give credibility to distant relationships, either because of some bad reputation, or bad advice from others that bad things have happened to them, but really a distant relationship is so serious, it has credibility, do you think it will have any fruit? Well in my opinion leaving behind the avatars, and the indisciplines of some who have committed, I believe that if, My point of view is who you choose, I am of those who think that you can not always pretend to be who you are not, So if you find someone who might try to play with you, at any time you get your nails out, show who you really are, I am the one who gives credibility to this type of relationship, I know that they have found partners online and now they are married and Very happy, and if it happened to them you think it will not happen with others? I believe that the relation to Distance is another way to find the person you need, both in Cuba and in another country. What do you think?
I don’t believe in long distance relationship. Giving up my life and move to a foreign country is not for me. Many people think like me, but good luck to you, if you believe in long distance relationship. If you try hard enough, you’ll meet someone one day.
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abcWOMAN: I don’t believe in long distance relationship. Giving up my life and move to a foreign country is not for me. Many people think like me, but good luck to you, if you believe in long distance relationship. If you try hard enough, you’ll meet someone one day.
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Thank you I really appreciate your message and I agree with you, the problem is that I have tried everything, and I do not even go out in my country, do you understand ?? Then I experiment in other places to see if I have any luck?
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Amed32: How many times has it happened that we know a person by our email,. What do you think?
I think many people have these huge fantasy imaginings that 'some magical other person' ( Princess or knight ) will be found and 'everything will be all right' and there's a 'happy ever after' to be found!
First of all, scrub all the romantic fantasies and ask yourself some 'hard questions'
Q 1) Would I qualify to live in ( name of country ) based upon My Own qualifications for entry ( ie not being married to a citizen of that country )
A1) If the answer is no then it's foolish to go any further
Q 2) Would prospective partner (he or she) qualify to live in ( name of my country ) based upon His or Her Own qualifications for entry ( ie not being married to a citizen of my country )
A2) If the answer is no then it's foolish to go any further
Q3) Do we have a common language in which we are both fluent ?
A3) If not - then either one or both parties are complete idiots - being able to communicate is the most profoundly basic requirement. Heaven knows the number of misunderstandings that crop up between native speakers of the same language!
Q4) Are both parties familiar with the 'peculiarities' of each other's culture and able to 'at least' tolerate those if not to embrace them fully?
A4) There's a lot differences and I'm not going to try and list them all! Suffice to say In this city alone there's been a number of women who married middle eastern guys based upon handsome photos and sweet talk (no doubt they were good looking guys) but said women had no idea that in other cultures the woman is expected to be subservient and that the guy controls everything ... including all the finances ... and you'd be right to guess a number of them were well n truly conned out of everything!
Q5) How are my personal finances ... if I go 'live there with them' can I afford to get 'back where I come from' for family events such as serious illness, births, deaths, marriages ... does their culture permit me to travel ?
A5) You have to answer that yourself !
There's dozens of other questions, more than I care to list and NONE of the above have even begun to approach the emotional issues ... like leaving family, can I take my pets, will I miss my friends, what will I do all day if I;m not fluent in local language and etc etc etc
It's really a needle in a global haystack ... once in a while someone 'gets lucky!'
And once in a while someone 'has a systematic approach' .... and a great big MAGNET ... and everyone else THINKS that person(s) got lucky !
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Some long distance relationship don't usually work out is because some people don't want to put the extra work into it.
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Amed32: Thank you I really appreciate your message and I agree with you, the problem is that I have tried everything, and I do not even go out in my country, do you understand ?? Then I experiment in other places to see if I have any luck?
EVERYTHING you say ... you have tried EVERY THING???
Forgive me my skepticism when I read that ... 'EVERY' thing !
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I totally agree with most if not all of them here. 
However, I guess I'm lucky coz I got myself a retiree who's willing to come visit anytime he wants?
Also, once my youngest leaves the nest, I'd be able to join him in his country.
However, I guess I'm lucky coz I got myself a retiree who's willing to come visit anytime he wants?
Also, once my youngest leaves the nest, I'd be able to join him in his country.
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aries1234: No i understand the Cork dialect
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HexagonKeySet: I think many people have these huge fantasy imaginings that 'some magical other person' ( Princess or knight ) will be found and 'everything will be all right' and there's a 'happy ever after' to be found!
First of all, scrub all the romantic fantasies and ask yourself some 'hard questions'
Q 1) Would I qualify to live in ( name of country ) based upon My Own qualifications for entry ( ie not being married to a citizen of that country )
A1) If the answer is no then it's foolish to go any further
Q 2) Would prospective partner (he or she) qualify to live in ( name of my country ) based upon His or Her Own qualifications for entry ( ie not being married to a citizen of my country )
A2) If the answer is no then it's foolish to go any further
Q3) Do we have a common language in which we are both fluent ?
A3) If not - then either one or both parties are complete idiots - being able to communicate is the most profoundly basic requirement. Heaven knows the number of misunderstandings that crop up between native speakers of the same language!
Q4) Are both parties familiar with the 'peculiarities' of each other's culture and able to 'at least' tolerate those if not to embrace them fully?
A4) There's a lot differences and I'm not going to try and list them all! Suffice to say In this city alone there's been a number of women who married middle eastern guys based upon handsome photos and sweet talk (no doubt they were good looking guys) but said women had no idea that in other cultures the woman is expected to be subservient and that the guy controls everything ... including all the finances ... and you'd be right to guess a number of them were well n truly conned out of everything!
Q5) How are my personal finances ... if I go 'live there with them' can I afford to get 'back where I come from' for family events such as serious illness, births, deaths, marriages ... does their culture permit me to travel ?
A5) You have to answer that yourself !
There's dozens of other questions, more than I care to list and NONE of the above have even begun to approach the emotional issues ... like leaving family, can I take my pets, will I miss my friends, what will I do all day if I;m not fluent in local language and etc etc etc
It's really a needle in a global haystack ... once in a while someone 'gets lucky!'
And once in a while someone 'has a systematic approach' .... and a great big MAGNET ... and everyone else THINKS that person(s) got lucky !
I understand New Zeland dialect. First of all, scrub all the romantic fantasies and ask yourself some 'hard questions'
Q 1) Would I qualify to live in ( name of country ) based upon My Own qualifications for entry ( ie not being married to a citizen of that country )
A1) If the answer is no then it's foolish to go any further
Q 2) Would prospective partner (he or she) qualify to live in ( name of my country ) based upon His or Her Own qualifications for entry ( ie not being married to a citizen of my country )
A2) If the answer is no then it's foolish to go any further
Q3) Do we have a common language in which we are both fluent ?
A3) If not - then either one or both parties are complete idiots - being able to communicate is the most profoundly basic requirement. Heaven knows the number of misunderstandings that crop up between native speakers of the same language!
Q4) Are both parties familiar with the 'peculiarities' of each other's culture and able to 'at least' tolerate those if not to embrace them fully?
A4) There's a lot differences and I'm not going to try and list them all! Suffice to say In this city alone there's been a number of women who married middle eastern guys based upon handsome photos and sweet talk (no doubt they were good looking guys) but said women had no idea that in other cultures the woman is expected to be subservient and that the guy controls everything ... including all the finances ... and you'd be right to guess a number of them were well n truly conned out of everything!
Q5) How are my personal finances ... if I go 'live there with them' can I afford to get 'back where I come from' for family events such as serious illness, births, deaths, marriages ... does their culture permit me to travel ?
A5) You have to answer that yourself !
There's dozens of other questions, more than I care to list and NONE of the above have even begun to approach the emotional issues ... like leaving family, can I take my pets, will I miss my friends, what will I do all day if I;m not fluent in local language and etc etc etc
It's really a needle in a global haystack ... once in a while someone 'gets lucky!'
And once in a while someone 'has a systematic approach' .... and a great big MAGNET ... and everyone else THINKS that person(s) got lucky !
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Ccincy: Some long distance relationship don't usually work out is because some people don't want to put the extra work into it.
They do take extra work..and more trust .. But they can work (if both try)
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flying back /faward.....between meals.........
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serena123: They do take extra work..and more trust .. But they can work (if both try)
Well since I've been on CS I've known of several long distance relationships which haven't worked out for whatever reason.
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rainbowdream2017: I understand New Zeland dialect.
Erhhh, YISS ... I bet you like fush n chups as well
But ... I'm not a Kiwi
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Yeah my long distance relationship involves a woman from Ghana. I never realised I had relatives in Nigerian oil exploration, much less that they'd won the lottery several times. At least I've been promised 28 000 000 in government bonds if all else fails... Hopefully her fiduciary agent sends me an invoice (using hotmail/gmail/etc) soon, so I can apply to have the funds released.
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HexagonKeySet: Erhhh, YISS ... I bet you like fush n chups as well
But ... I'm not a Kiwi
Erhhh, lucky I am multilingual,so it's not difficult for me to understand 'fush and chups' puuuurrrrfffectly.But ... I'm not a Kiwi
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I shall leave you to your reptiles,deadly snakes,death spiders, long deserted murderous highways.
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sophiasummer: I shall leave you to your reptiles,deadly snakes,death spiders, long deserted murderous highways.
OK but we share deadly sharks.
Is not that bad ...you get motivation and passion for fast swimming.
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Yes, thats why NZ race horses run so fast-- they see what happens to the sheep.
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pat8lanips: Yes, thats why NZ race horses run so fast-- they see what happens to the sheep.
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