Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
BritishLondon: My best friend gave his life to save his friends and his spirit lives on in each and every one of us. The next time I don't feel up to the challenge, the next time it would be easier for me to be selfish instead of doing the right thing, I ask myself: What Would Jacko Do?
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
BritishLondon: It is easy to spare your heart for a few when you know that there are people who would give their lives for you. Surely you have somebody who makes you feel important, and somebody who you in turn make feel important?
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
BritishLondon: They will have their own lives and they'll not want to be worrying about yours. I know you will suffer endlessly for your kids - the same as many a mother - but your kids don't want you to suffer endlessly for them(without vital reason). It's too much.
I see what ur getting at.
No they don't care that much for me. They r their own people.
I have a best friend, since 2000. He is very important to me and is always there for me and I for him.
It is easy to spare your heart for a few when you know that there are people who would give their lives for you. Surely you have somebody who makes you feel important, and somebody who you in turn make feel important?[/quote
Why do you want to feel important? What is missing from your life that requires someone else to pretend you are more important?
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Happygolucky4u: I have two best friends and many acquaintances. There is one word that comes to mind with them. Unconditional friendship. They have been there for me through thick and thin. Sometimes we do not see each other for a while but I know they are just a phone call away if I need them.
That sounds like my best friend. I just have one and the others r friends.
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How do u define ur friendship ?