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Mar 21, 2017 6:34 AM CST R Best Friends realy possible ?
Snookums33
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Anyone realy have a Best Friend ?

How do u define ur friendship ?
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Mar 21, 2017 7:29 AM CST R Best Friends realy possible ?
Snookums33
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BritishLondon: My best friend gave his life to save his friends and his spirit lives on in each and every one of us. The next time I don't feel up to the challenge, the next time it would be easier for me to be selfish instead of doing the right thing, I ask myself: What Would Jacko Do?

True friends inspire you, that's what they do.


Exceptional !!!

I have not had a true friend then !
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Mar 21, 2017 8:01 AM CST R Best Friends realy possible ?
Snookums33
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BritishLondon: It is easy to spare your heart for a few when you know that there are people who would give their lives for you. Surely you have somebody who makes you feel important, and somebody who you in turn make feel important?


My kids
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Mar 21, 2017 8:12 AM CST R Best Friends realy possible ?
Snookums33
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BritishLondon: That's cheating and your kids will thank you for having other people around anyway. You don't want to end up like a beloved smother.


They r students. Till they r working they r totally dependant on me and I'm not complaining.

Then maybe they marry.
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Mar 21, 2017 8:23 AM CST R Best Friends realy possible ?
Snookums33
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BritishLondon: Financially maybe. I'm sure they'd love to see you happy around other people, too. It'd take the pressure off your kids.


They have their own lives. I'll always be there for them. I just love them totally which most parents don't or mainly pretend to.
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Mar 21, 2017 9:00 AM CST R Best Friends realy possible ?
Snookums33
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BritishLondon: They will have their own lives and they'll not want to be worrying about yours. I know you will suffer endlessly for your kids - the same as many a mother - but your kids don't want you to suffer endlessly for them(without vital reason). It's too much.


I see what ur getting at.

No they don't care that much for me. They r their own people.

I have a best friend, since 2000. He is very important to me and is always there for me and I for him.
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Mar 21, 2017 8:06 PM CST R Best Friends realy possible ?
rizlared
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It is easy to spare your heart for a few when you know that there are people who would give their lives for you. Surely you have somebody who makes you feel important, and somebody who you in turn make feel important?[/quote

Why do you want to feel important? What is missing from your life that requires someone else to pretend you are more important?
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Mar 22, 2017 5:44 AM CST R Best Friends realy possible ?
Snookums33
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rizlared: Maybe comments like that are a reason you don't have a best friend?


If u reead this u will see I have a best friend arsehole



Keep ur nose out of my business


tongue tongue
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Mar 22, 2017 7:49 AM CST R Best Friends realy possible ?
Snookums33
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rizlared: It's a public forum, I can and will post whenever and wherever I wish, with my opinions, if you don't like that, don't post, simple really.

Besides you said it yourself


There is a big difference between a Best friend and a True friend.tongue
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Mar 22, 2017 9:11 AM CST R Best Friends realy possible ?
Snookums33
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Happygolucky4u: I have two best friends and many acquaintances. There is one word that comes to mind with them. Unconditional friendship. They have been there for me through thick and thin. Sometimes we do not see each other for a while but I know they are just a phone call away if I need them.


That sounds like my best friend. I just have one and the others r friends.
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