Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
rizlared: If you cannot move forward, how do you think that will affect your children?
They had an abusive father. So surely they need to get away from that and try to move on with their lives, your constant complaints about men in general, can only reflect badly on those around you.
I don't need a crystal ball to determine ur type of man.
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My kids were abused:-
Physically, emotionally & mentally
Came out of it very confused
They used to say "Pardon Me" all the time (As if to say, Excuse me for living)
Then I told them, that they have more rights than most people, as they r still kids.
Up goes the confidence for the last 6 years, when the ex moved back to the U.K. just before my eldest son's 21st birthday (it fell flat on its face)
--> That's life !