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May 13, 2017 10:04 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
I love you,, and i'm in love with you,,,, two different things.

I have come to the conclusion, that this is the mistake couples make ,,
and one they have to live with afterwards,
They love each other , but are not in love,,, and only find that out after a long time together.
When separated ,, or divorced, and either or both start meeting others,,
that is when they realize that they probably loved and respected their partner, but were not in love with them
and that is when it starts to go wrong ,


cheers
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May 13, 2017 10:09 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
what would life be without mistakes
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May 13, 2017 10:13 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
sergio09
sergio09sergio09Knoxville, Tennessee USA31 Threads 901 Posts
annaroach: I love you,, and i'm in love with you,,,, two different things.

I have come to the conclusion, that this is the mistake couples make ,,
and one they have to live with afterwards,
They love each other , but are not in love,,, and only find that out after a long time together.
When separated ,, or divorced, and either or both start meeting others,,
that is when they realize that they probably loved and respected their partner, but were not in love with them
and that is when it starts to go wrong ,


I don't know if I have the capacity to be "in love" with a woman. I have loved many(that should be a clue), but have never, in all of my 66 years have truly been "in love".

Not sure if I am capable. I have built a wall so thick, I am afraid even I can't break through.

JMO
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May 13, 2017 10:19 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
sergio09: I don't know if I have the capacity to be "in love" with a woman. I have loved many(that should be a clue), but have never, in all of my 66 years have truly been "in love".

Not sure if I am capable. I have built a wall so thick, I am afraid even I can't break through.

JMO




I totally understand what you mean,,,,, on both counts!!

It surely is a difficult one, lots of married couples don't know what it is to be in love either

Maybe we just don't meet the right peopledunno confused
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May 13, 2017 10:22 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
Dedovix: what would life be without mistakes
..hey Ded/you look different.....have you had your first wash.....??????dunno rolling on the floor laughing
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May 13, 2017 10:22 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
annaroach: I love you,, and i'm in love with you,,,, two different things.

I have come to the conclusion, that this is the mistake couples make ,,
and one they have to live with afterwards,
They love each other , but are not in love,,, and only find that out after a long time together.
When separated ,, or divorced, and either or both start meeting others,,
that is when they realize that they probably loved and respected their partner, but were not in love with them
and that is when it starts to go wrong ,



For me, 'Love' is an action word no matter how you use it in a sentence about another person etc. It is a word conveying being other-centered and may very well be unrequited love. Now, if we're talking about how much I Love spaghetti, I just mean I want to eat it, with or without sauce.


wave
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May 13, 2017 10:26 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
galrads: For me, 'Love' is an action word no matter how you use it in a sentence about another person etc. It is a word conveying being other-centered and may very well be unrequited love. Now, if we're talking about how much I Love spaghetti, I just mean I want to eat it, with or without sauce.




My action love,, do you mean showing love by actions?hug confused
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May 13, 2017 10:26 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
truheart1941: ..hey Ded/you look different.....have you had your first wash.....??????


laugh laugh laugh cheers
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May 13, 2017 10:27 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
annaroach: My action love,, do you mean showing love by actions?






Sorry,,,,,,, By action !!
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May 13, 2017 10:34 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
annaroach: Sorry,,,,,,, By action !!


It can be that. Making someone else a priority, but not at one's health expense or economic stability, is one way to look at being other centered.... it's an action which, for me, can be naturally spontaneous.
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May 13, 2017 10:35 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
annaroach: Sorry,,,,,,, By action !!
..hi Anna....dearest.....love is like drinking tea...you can enjoy the contents......without licking the cup out.......(actions).......wave wave grin grin ........
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May 13, 2017 10:39 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
sergio09
sergio09sergio09Knoxville, Tennessee USA31 Threads 901 Posts
truheart1941: ..hi Anna....dearest.....love is like drinking tea...you can enjoy the contents......without licking the cup out.......(actions)....... ........



Oh my! The thoughts going through my head at this response!!scold rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing scold
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May 13, 2017 10:44 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
sergio09: Oh my! The thoughts going through my head at this response!!
..I think sometimes..I.m misunderstood......scold snooty snooty giggle giggle grin
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May 13, 2017 10:45 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
sergio09
sergio09sergio09Knoxville, Tennessee USA31 Threads 901 Posts
truheart1941: ..I think sometimes..I.m misunderstood......




I am soooo ashamed!blushing blushing blushing blushing
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May 13, 2017 11:04 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
truheart1941: ..hi Anna....dearest.....love is like drinking tea...you can enjoy the contents......without licking the cup out.......(actions)....... ........



Hi Dearest Truheart,,,,, ya, that clears everything up !rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wink blushing conversing wow
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May 13, 2017 11:05 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
truheart1941: ..I think sometimes..I.m misunderstood......




Ya Think ?professor scold tongue
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May 13, 2017 11:19 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
annaroach: Hi Dearest Truheart,,,,, ya, that clears everything up !
..good girl. 2 sugars please..and easy on the milk......grin grin tip hat
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May 13, 2017 11:37 AM CST I LOVE YOU !
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
truheart1941: ..good girl. 2 sugars please..and easy on the milk......





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2 sugars, are you not sweet enoughwink laugh
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May 13, 2017 8:02 PM CST I LOVE YOU !
truheart1941: ..hi Anna....dearest.....love is like drinking tea...you can enjoy the contents......without licking the cup out.......(actions)....... ........





That's what I told her...
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May 13, 2017 8:05 PM CST I LOVE YOU !
truheart1941: .....love is like drinking tea...you can enjoy the contents......without licking the cup out.......(actions)....... ........



That's what I told her...





















I didn't mean Anna.
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