Love isn't about taking prisoners... ( Archived) (24)

Jun 27, 2017 3:09 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
sergio09
sergio09sergio09Knoxville, Tennessee USA31 Threads 901 Posts
...when the lady I was seeing on a FWB situation, told me today she wanted to see someone else, exclusively, I simply said,"O.K., let' s go get a burger". I think she expected me to put up some resistance. She asked, "aren't you surprised?". NO...It is what it is....LOL. Mr. B's is having senior day with two for one burgers, let's go!
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Jun 27, 2017 3:13 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
sergio09: ...when the lady I was seeing on a FWB situation, told me today she wanted to see someone else, exclusively, I simply said,"O.K., let' s go get a burger". I think she expected me to put up some resistance. She asked, "aren't you surprised?". NO...It is what it is....LOL. Mr. B's is having senior day with two for one burgers, let's go!


Sensible reaction thumbs up


FWBs all have a best before date. And they are usually ended by one finding a more permanent relationship.
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Jun 27, 2017 3:24 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
sergio09: ...when the lady I was seeing on a FWB situation, told me today she wanted to see someone else, exclusively, I simply said,"O.K., let' s go get a burger". I think she expected me to put up some resistance. She asked, "aren't you surprised?". NO...It is what it is....LOL. Mr. B's is having senior day with two for one burgers, let's go!


How were the burgers ?
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Jun 27, 2017 3:27 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
sergio09: ...when the lady I was seeing on a FWB situation, told me today she wanted to see someone else, exclusively, I simply said,"O.K., let' s go get a burger". I think she expected me to put up some resistance. She asked, "aren't you surprised?". NO...It is what it is....LOL. Mr. B's is having senior day with two for one burgers, let's go!


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Thank you, l will remember that.
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Jun 27, 2017 3:29 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
sergio09: ...when the lady I was seeing on a FWB situation, told me today she wanted to see someone else, exclusively, I simply said,"O.K., let' s go get a burger". I think she expected me to put up some resistance. She asked, "aren't you surprised?". NO...It is what it is....LOL. Mr. B's is having senior day with two for one burgers, let's go!



Interesting,,,,,,, what is the emotion involved in FWB,,,, it isn't love anyway!dunno confused

Can anyone enlighten me?
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Jun 27, 2017 3:44 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
sergio09
sergio09sergio09Knoxville, Tennessee USA31 Threads 901 Posts
annaroach: Interesting,,,,,,, what is the emotion involved in FWB,,,, it isn't love anyway!

Can anyone enlighten me?



Well, it certainly isn't or wasn't love. But the same applies to any relationship. Nobody owns anybody
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Jun 27, 2017 3:45 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
sergio09
sergio09sergio09Knoxville, Tennessee USA31 Threads 901 Posts
One2note: How were the burgers ?



The burgers are always excellent there. I always order the one with 5 different cheeses on it....and fried jalapenos.banana banana
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Jun 27, 2017 3:45 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
sergio09: Well, it certainly isn't or wasn't love. But the same applies to any relationship. Nobody owns anybody



I totally agree with youthumbs up
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Jun 27, 2017 3:46 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
You couldn't build a wall high enough to keep someone in if they want out.
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Jun 27, 2017 3:50 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
sergio09
sergio09sergio09Knoxville, Tennessee USA31 Threads 901 Posts
You couldn't build a wall high enough to keep someone in if they want out.[/quot


Tell that to all the women who have been held prisoners for years. In a basement or cages.
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Jun 27, 2017 3:51 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
sergio09: You couldn't build a wall high enough to keep someone in if they want out.[/quot


Tell that to all the women who have been held prisoners for years. In a basement or cages.



It was just an expression.Geesh
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Jun 27, 2017 4:06 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
annaroach: Nah !!!!


Yah ... If there's no emotion in the lovemaking , then it becomes repetitive & boring !
I'd rather have a satisfying meal , than sleep with someone I had no feeling for.wine
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Jun 27, 2017 4:10 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: Yah ... If there's no emotion in the lovemaking , then it becomes repetitive & boring !
I'd rather have a satisfying meal , than sleep with someone I had no feeling for.



I think all that goes without saying but,,,,,,,,, what kind of feelings would you have for FWB,

as per my previous question ??doh
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Jun 27, 2017 4:10 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
One2note: Yah ... If there's no emotion in the lovemaking , then it becomes repetitive & boring !
I'd rather have a satisfying meal , than sleep with someone I had no feeling for.




Anybody that I know who has had an FWB, has had an emotional involvement with them.

They may not be the love of your life (but then how many are?) But there can be liking, trust, caring, and even love. Just not 'in love with' .
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Jun 27, 2017 4:11 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
annaroach: I think all that goes without saying but,,,,,,,,, what kind of feelings would you have for FWB,

as per my previous question ??


I wouldn't know. dunno
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Jun 27, 2017 4:14 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
sergio09
sergio09sergio09Knoxville, Tennessee USA31 Threads 901 Posts
mollybaby: Anybody that I know who has had an FWB, has had an emotional involvement with them.

They may not be the love of your life (but then how many are?) But there can be liking, trust, caring, and even love. Just not 'in love with' .


thumbs up thumbs up You just don't let it show
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Jun 27, 2017 4:19 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: Anybody that I know who has had an FWB, has had an emotional involvement with them.

They may not be the love of your life (but then how many are?) But there can be liking, trust, caring, and even love. Just not 'in love with' .


Everyone I know, who's had a FWB, one , or either , are in a relationship .

It's rare that both want a casual encounter to ease their frustrations & you generally find that one persons wants more than the other is willing to offer...
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Jun 27, 2017 4:22 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
One2note: Everyone I know, who's had a FWB, one , or either , are in a relationship .

It's rare that both want a casual encounter to ease their frustrations & you generally find that one persons wants more than the other is willing to offer...


That is true.

That's why I said they have a sell-by date.
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Jun 27, 2017 4:34 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: That is true.

That's why I said they have a sell-by date.


Unfortunately , so does marriage nowadays.doh
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Jun 27, 2017 4:53 PM CST Love isn't about taking prisoners...
sergio09
sergio09sergio09Knoxville, Tennessee USA31 Threads 901 Posts
a good part of this separation is I won't have to buy her a birthday present next month!laugh
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