I've never been or known anyone who's totally comparable ! The true success stories are when both parties are willing to make small changes to suit each other's needs . If your both willing to change , it's possible that you could learn from each other & become better for it .
One2note: I've never been or known anyone who's totally comparable ! The true success stories are when both parties are willing to make small changes to suit each other's needs . If your both willing to change , it's possible that you could learn from each other & become better for it .
Yep and some changes don't need to be made, just differences accepted, as long as they're not too many or too big.
One2note: I've never been or known anyone who's totally comparable ! The true success stories are when both parties are willing to make small changes to suit each other's needs . If your both willing to change , it's possible that you could learn from each other & become better for it .
This is very true. And it is a reason that when I read in a woman's profile that she will not settle for anything less, that tells me she is not willing to compromise anything in a relationship. I stop reading at this point, then move on.
However I think people with different personality types can get along. When I am single, I am very withdrawn and shy. It seems that I am attracted to the more gregarious type women. They seem to pull me out of my shell, and make me more comfortable around other people. So, yes, different personality type can not only get along, bur can feed off of the others personality.
I've always believed that compromising in a relationship is and just as long as neither is giving their beliefs in whatever it is that are willing to compromise on.
That person never had to be perfect just as long they were perfect for me.
Ccincy: I've always believed that compromising in a relationship is and just as long as neither is giving their beliefs in whatever it is that are willing to compromise on.
That person never had to be perfect just as long they were perfect for me.
One2note: I've never been or known anyone who's totally comparable ! The true success stories are when both parties are willing to make small changes to suit each other's needs . If your both willing to change , it's possible that you could learn from each other & become better for it .
Ccincy: I've always believed that compromising in a relationship is and just as long as neither is giving their beliefs in whatever it is that are willing to compromise on.
That person never had to be perfect just as long they were perfect for me.
sergio09: This is very true. And it is a reason that when I read in a woman's profile that she will not settle for anything less, that tells me she is not willing to compromise anything in a relationship. I stop reading at this point, then move on.
However I think people with different personality types can get along. When I am single, I am very withdrawn and shy. It seems that I am attracted to the more gregarious type women. They seem to pull me out of my shell, and make me more comfortable around other people. So, yes, different personality type can not only get along, bur can feed off of the others personality.
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Sergio, compatibility doesn´t mean they both have to be equal ....have a look at the enneagram and you´ll be surprised.
P.S. I will no settle for anything less, but I´ll do for more ahhhh if I could open my mouth and share about compromise you couldn´t believe it my friend...you can give, and give as much as you want but when you do not receive, what? and what when you do not receive because the other side just can´t give you more, not just to you, to anyone? is he/she bad? no its not, are you? no, he/she is just not for you. You are asking for beans at the House of pancakes. That´s it.
yes, basically there are a few personality traits that bother me, not many, I do not like loud people, even if they are nice to me, people who are loud strike me as being self centered and inconsiderate or not mature enough to control their behavior. This includes people who impose their music or phone conversations onto others in otherwise quiet settings, So I do not usually get along that well with the extremely extroverted personality types.
Possibly I need to be a little more tolerant, but treating those folks with distant civility is about as tolerant as I can muster up.
people who are poor listeners, argumentative, or those who have a mean streak also. don't like bullies. With men I might date, any tendency to control or be controlling and i ghost
Opposites attract and only attract. Diversity in a relationship or a country is the novelty and difference is the explosive chemistry where anything could happen. But like London or New York a chemistry based upon diversity has no soul. Homogeneity is where the thrill and fancy of shiny and new give way to real love and loyalty; having things in common is the tie that binds.
felixis99: yes, basically there are a few personality traits that bother me, not many, I do not like loud people, even if they are nice to me, people who are loud strike me as being self centered and inconsiderate or not mature enough to control their behavior. This includes people who impose their music or phone conversations onto others in otherwise quiet settings, So I do not usually get along that well with the extremely extroverted personality types.
Possibly I need to be a little more tolerant, but treating those folks with distant civility is about as tolerant as I can muster up.
people who are poor listeners, argumentative, or those who have a mean streak also. don't like bullies. With men I might date, any tendency to control or be controlling and i ghost
so, no. I do not do a lot of dating.
Felixis, I Guess we are pretty similar, loud people, those who always have to be center of attention, judgmental, critical, sermonizing or closed-minded ...I like introvert people, pretty much, shy, quiet ....
ChesneyChrist: Opposites attract and only attract. Diversity in a relationship or a country is the novelty and difference is the explosive chemistry where anything could happen. But like London or New York a chemistry based upon diversity has no soul. Homogeneity is where the thrill and fancy of shiny and new give way to real love and loyalty; having things in common is the tie that binds.
Absolutely YES!
I think the "quid" is a balance (for me at least) I´m attracted to certain type of personalities which are definetely not good, find them fascinating for not good reasons but still, so I approach but never get involved emotionally (NEVER) maybe we can have fun or a time for sharing but that´s it ...complementary people Chesney. .
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