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annaroach

Limerick, Limerick Ireland

Refreshingly Honest!
This is what i was told by a man i was chatting with ( not from here)
for a few days over the weekend

He was a lovely guy and was very open and straightforward .
i would have met him ,but for one thing,,( that , i'm not going to say here)

My question is,,,,,, is that too much for me to expect from anyone on here.
personally .i don't think so ,, but it is an illusive quality, i find,,, unfortunately.

sigh doh
chris27292729 chris27292729

IOS island, South Aegean Greece

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
annaroach: This is what i was told by a man i was chatting with ( not from here)
for a few days over the weekend

He was a lovely guy and was very open and straightforward .
i would have met him ,but for one thing,,( that , i'm not going to say here)

My question is,,,,,, is that too much for me to expect from anyone on here.
personally .i don't think so ,, but it is an illusive quality, i find,,, unfortunately.


If you seek you have to meet.
Doubts,expectations and hopes,
will form in general at that first meeting.
Sometimes,"i found her/him" rings bells at the first meeting,
Other times decision making,for various reasons takes longer.
But the bells they are there,ringing different tunes.,
according to our expectasions.


dunno dunno dunno
chris27292729 chris27292729

IOS island, South Aegean Greece

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
chris27292729: If you seek you have to meet.
Doubts,expectations and hopes,
will form in general at that first meeting.
Sometimes,"i found her/him" rings bells at the first meeting,
Other times decision making,for various reasons takes longer.
But the bells they are there,ringing different tunes.,
according to our expectations.
DaMooseLives DaMooseLives

Westlock, Alberta Canada

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
annaroach: This is what i was told by a man i was chatting with ( not from here)
for a few days over the weekend

He was a lovely guy and was very open and straightforward .
i would have met him ,but for one thing,,( that , i'm not going to say here)

My question is,,,,,, is that too much for me to expect from anyone on here.
personally .i don't think so ,, but it is an illusive quality, i find,,, unfortunately.


Since you did not mention what the "one thing" was, it is impossible to address what your expectations were....just sayin'..??
mollybaby mollybaby

Cork City, Cork Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
I have met extremely honest people on here

I can't complain about that aspect at all.
annaroach

Limerick, Limerick Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
If you seek you have to meet.
Doubts,expectations and hopes,
will form in general at that first meeting.
Sometimes,"i found her/him" rings bells at the first meeting,
Other times decision making,for various reasons takes longer.
But the bells they are there,ringing different tunes.,
according to our expectasions.[/quo


Chris, i'm not sure if you missunderstand me.

What i'm saying is,, is it too much for me to expect
honesty from people i chat with on here.wave
annaroach

Limerick, Limerick Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
mollybaby: I have met extremely honest people on here

I can't complain about that aspect at all.



The thing is,,,,, how do you that they are 100 %dunno
mollybaby mollybaby

Cork City, Cork Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
annaroach: The thing is,,,,, how do you that they are 100 %



There's no 100% guarantee with life, not to mind human beings


As long as they are honest about the major things, that's a good start
annaroach

Limerick, Limerick Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
DaMooseLives: Since you did not mention what the "one thing" was, it is impossible to address what your expectations were....just sayin'..??


My question is,, not related to him.
My question is,, is it too much for me to expect honesty
from some people that i have spoken to on here,
as i was told i am refreshingly honest,, that is how i treat people
annaroach

Limerick, Limerick Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
mollybaby: There's no 100% guarantee with life, not to mind human beings


As long as they are honest about the major things, that's a good start



That answers my question,, we just can't be sure
mollybaby mollybaby

Cork City, Cork Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
annaroach: That answers my question,, we just can't be sure



Do you mean telling the absolute truth, absolutely 100% of the time?
annaroach

Limerick, Limerick Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
mollybaby: Do you mean telling the absolute truth, absolutely 100% of the time?



I mean blatently being dishonest, saying stuff that i know to be not true.
it is not necessary,,, why bother , when the truth is just as easy.
mollybaby mollybaby

Cork City, Cork Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
annaroach: I mean blatently being dishonest, saying stuff that i know to be not true.
it is not necessary,,, why bother , when the truth is just as easy.



It may depend on whether the topic is subjective or objective.

With some things, some people see things totally differently to others.
That doesn't mean they are being dishonest if they say it. They may simply see it differently.

It depends on the topic.
chris27292729 chris27292729

IOS island, South Aegean Greece

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
annaroach: If you seek you have to meet.
Doubts,expectations and hopes,
will form in general at that first meeting.
Sometimes,"i found her/him" rings bells at the first meeting,
Other times decision making,for various reasons takes longer.
But the bells they are there,ringing different tunes.,
according to our expectasions.[/quo


Chris, i'm not sure if you missunderstand me.

What i'm saying is,, is it too much for me to expect
honesty from people i chat with on here.


Expecting honesty from people you chat with,is natural.
Also natural is, to be cautiously optopmistic,as not all the people
you chat with, wave or cover themselves with the flag of honesty.-
annaroach

Limerick, Limerick Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
mollybaby: It may depend on whether the topic is subjective or objective.

With some things, some people see things totally differently to others.
That doesn't mean they are being dishonest if they say it. They may simply see it differently.

It depends on the topic.



Believe me Molly,, it was blatent dishonesty

It is one thing that i hate, when people take you for a fool.
annaroach

Limerick, Limerick Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
chris27292729: Expecting honesty from people you chat with,is natural.
Also natural is, to be cautiously optopmistic,as not all the people
you chat with, wave or cover themselves with the flag of honesty.-



Yes Chris you are right, i like the way you worded that.
I will put it down to further experience.

It bothers me when i think someone is nice, and genuine,
then find out what their true colours are handshake wave
Ccincy Ccincy

Cincinnati, Ohio USA

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
Ann I don't think it's too much to expect people to be honest.

The only problem is expecting everyone to be honest on sites that there are obviously dishonest people such as scammers.
mollybaby mollybaby

Cork City, Cork Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
annaroach: Believe me Molly,, it was blatent dishonesty

It is one thing that i hate, when people take you for a fool.



He's a liar.......next!..grin


Thank your lucky stars you found out sooner than later cheers
annaroach

Limerick, Limerick Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
mollybaby: He's a liar.......next!..


Thank your lucky stars you found out sooner than later



Yes Molly, no experience is a bad experience.
And yes i will trust again,, i'm glad i did find out
thumbs up
annaroach

Limerick, Limerick Ireland

Re: Refreshingly Honest!
Ccincy: Ann I don't think it's too much to expect people to be honest.

The only problem is expecting everyone to be honest on sites that there are obviously dishonest people such as scammers.



I know,,, its just i like the saying, treat others as you would like to be treatedwave
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