This is what i was told by a man i was chatting with ( not from here) for a few days over the weekend
He was a lovely guy and was very open and straightforward . i would have met him ,but for one thing,,( that , i'm not going to say here)
My question is,,,,,, is that too much for me to expect from anyone on here. personally .i don't think so ,, but it is an illusive quality, i find,,, unfortunately.
annaroach: This is what i was told by a man i was chatting with ( not from here) for a few days over the weekend
He was a lovely guy and was very open and straightforward . i would have met him ,but for one thing,,( that , i'm not going to say here)
My question is,,,,,, is that too much for me to expect from anyone on here. personally .i don't think so ,, but it is an illusive quality, i find,,, unfortunately.
If you seek you have to meet. Doubts,expectations and hopes, will form in general at that first meeting. Sometimes,"i found her/him" rings bells at the first meeting, Other times decision making,for various reasons takes longer. But the bells they are there,ringing different tunes., according to our expectasions.
chris27292729: If you seek you have to meet. Doubts,expectations and hopes, will form in general at that first meeting. Sometimes,"i found her/him" rings bells at the first meeting, Other times decision making,for various reasons takes longer. But the bells they are there,ringing different tunes., according to our expectations.
annaroach: This is what i was told by a man i was chatting with ( not from here) for a few days over the weekend
He was a lovely guy and was very open and straightforward . i would have met him ,but for one thing,,( that , i'm not going to say here)
My question is,,,,,, is that too much for me to expect from anyone on here. personally .i don't think so ,, but it is an illusive quality, i find,,, unfortunately.
Since you did not mention what the "one thing" was, it is impossible to address what your expectations were....just sayin'..??
If you seek you have to meet. Doubts,expectations and hopes, will form in general at that first meeting. Sometimes,"i found her/him" rings bells at the first meeting, Other times decision making,for various reasons takes longer. But the bells they are there,ringing different tunes., according to our expectasions.[/quo
Chris, i'm not sure if you missunderstand me.
What i'm saying is,, is it too much for me to expect honesty from people i chat with on here.
DaMooseLives: Since you did not mention what the "one thing" was, it is impossible to address what your expectations were....just sayin'..??
My question is,, not related to him. My question is,, is it too much for me to expect honesty from some people that i have spoken to on here, as i was told i am refreshingly honest,, that is how i treat people
annaroach: I mean blatently being dishonest, saying stuff that i know to be not true. it is not necessary,,, why bother , when the truth is just as easy.
It may depend on whether the topic is subjective or objective.
With some things, some people see things totally differently to others. That doesn't mean they are being dishonest if they say it. They may simply see it differently.
annaroach: If you seek you have to meet. Doubts,expectations and hopes, will form in general at that first meeting. Sometimes,"i found her/him" rings bells at the first meeting, Other times decision making,for various reasons takes longer. But the bells they are there,ringing different tunes., according to our expectasions.[/quo
Chris, i'm not sure if you missunderstand me.
What i'm saying is,, is it too much for me to expect honesty from people i chat with on here.
Expecting honesty from people you chat with,is natural. Also natural is, to be cautiously optopmistic,as not all the people you chat with, wave or cover themselves with the flag of honesty.-
mollybaby: It may depend on whether the topic is subjective or objective.
With some things, some people see things totally differently to others. That doesn't mean they are being dishonest if they say it. They may simply see it differently.
It depends on the topic.
Believe me Molly,, it was blatent dishonesty
It is one thing that i hate, when people take you for a fool.
chris27292729: Expecting honesty from people you chat with,is natural. Also natural is, to be cautiously optopmistic,as not all the people you chat with, wave or cover themselves with the flag of honesty.-
Yes Chris you are right, i like the way you worded that. I will put it down to further experience.
It bothers me when i think someone is nice, and genuine, then find out what their true colours are
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for a few days over the weekend
He was a lovely guy and was very open and straightforward .
i would have met him ,but for one thing,,( that , i'm not going to say here)
My question is,,,,,, is that too much for me to expect from anyone on here.
personally .i don't think so ,, but it is an illusive quality, i find,,, unfortunately.