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Aug 20, 2017 3:14 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
For me, it's when they get too attached & clingy too soon !
I feel suffocated & head for the nearest exit door !help

What's the rush?



conversing
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Aug 20, 2017 3:21 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
One2note: For me, it's when they get too attached & clingy too soon !
I feel suffocated & head for the nearest exit door !

What's the rush?
being treated like a stud horse....professor as you say..whats the rush....mumbling mumbling mumbling angel
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Aug 20, 2017 3:25 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
MimiArt7348
MimiArt7348MimiArt7348KL, Kuala Lumpur Malaysia2 Threads 426 Posts
One2note: For me, it's when they get too attached & clingy too soon !
I feel suffocated & head for the nearest exit door !

What's the rush?



I'm ALL that......too attached and clingy....like the UHU glue uh oh
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Aug 20, 2017 3:25 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
truheart1941: being treated like a stud horse.... as you say..whats the rush....


You mean, she makes you sleep in the stable dunno laugh laugh
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Aug 20, 2017 3:28 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
MimiArt7348
MimiArt7348MimiArt7348KL, Kuala Lumpur Malaysia2 Threads 426 Posts
One2note: You mean, she makes you sleep in the stable


rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 20, 2017 3:31 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
MimiArt7348: I'm ALL that......too attached and clingy....like the UHU glue


God help Art , if he tried to escape .devil laugh wave
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Aug 20, 2017 3:43 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
MimiArt7348
MimiArt7348MimiArt7348KL, Kuala Lumpur Malaysia2 Threads 426 Posts
One2note: God help Art , if he tried to escape .



rolling on the floor laughing


Well...he can always try...


He can run, he can hide but he can't escape my clutches!

MuaHahaha devil
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Aug 20, 2017 4:04 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
Ex issues... zealotry... There's a big list, hence I'm still here.
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Aug 20, 2017 4:32 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Being to possessive and trying to change the person you are. if they are attracted to you in the first place why do that? wine
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Aug 20, 2017 4:35 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
pat8lanips: Ex issues... zealotry... There's a big list, hence I'm still here.


I hear you bro.cheers
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Aug 20, 2017 4:46 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
morgan5: Being to possessive and trying to change the person you are. if they are attracted to you in the first place why do that?


You're never gonna find the finished article, so unless you find perfection , everyone needs a little tweaking.
I'm not too proud to admit , I'm still a work in progress but I'm not too far away.

I agree with the possessive thing .


thumbs up wave
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Aug 20, 2017 4:49 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
One2note: You're never gonna find the finished article, so unless you find perfection , everyone needs a little tweaking.
I'm not too proud to admit , I'm still a work in progress but I'm not too far away.

I agree with the possessive thing .
I just can't see the point in trying to change someone in my experience just causes problems. if you don't like the way a person is, move on just my opinion wine
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Aug 20, 2017 4:49 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
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Aug 20, 2017 4:54 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
One2note: For me, it's when they get too attached & clingy too soon !
I feel suffocated & head for the nearest exit door !

What's the rush?


Love is habitual for me. Make yourself unavailable and I'll forget you stick around and I grow accustomed to your face.
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Aug 20, 2017 5:01 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
morgan5: I just can't see the point in trying to change someone in my experience just causes problems. if you don't like the way a person is, move on just my opinion


You have no idea how true that statement is .uh oh laugh
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Aug 20, 2017 5:04 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
Angry_cupcake
Angry_cupcakeAngry_cupcakeRiga, Latvia46 Posts
For me it is possessive and controlling person. I like to have my private space.
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Aug 20, 2017 5:06 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
ChesneyChrist: Love is habitual for me. Make yourself unavailable and I'll forget you stick around and I grow accustomed to your face.


And never the twain shall meet .cheers
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Aug 20, 2017 5:25 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Disloyalty
Possessiveness
Unkindness
Lack of communication
Lack of reliability
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Aug 20, 2017 5:29 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
One2note:
What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner


probably the absence as in "no one is there" lol

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Aug 20, 2017 5:36 AM CST What's the most off-putting thing about a potential partner.
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: For me, it's when they get too attached & clingy too soon !
I feel suffocated & head for the nearest exit door !

What's the rush?



From a few recent experiences.

The idea that they thought that we were an item
on the first and second date.

ie. saying stuff that would suggest that we would be together in the future.

I want to run for the hills,in that case.

It takes lots of time to get to that stage.peace
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