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Sep 9, 2017 11:21 AM CST Will u be able to love again ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
All of us, presumably had a relationship where we loved.

We all have asked countless times:-

Will I be able to ever love again ?

Maybe that past love was just imagination ?

smitten
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Sep 9, 2017 6:56 PM CST Will u be able to love again ?
Bogart_1960: Aliens have landed. ?:


only in your head [better than in your breakfast cereal...lol]

laugh transport dancing
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Sep 9, 2017 7:15 PM CST Will u be able to love again ?
2intrigued: At this stage of life, me thinks I'll keep all that love bottled up where it's safe.
Ahhhh yes, until Mr Right comes along.....laugh
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Sep 9, 2017 7:16 PM CST Will u be able to love again ?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
felixis99: Ahhhh yes, until Mr Right comes along.....


Mr. Right simply doesn't exist but if by some miracle he does exist, he's hiding and he's not on CS. giggle
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Sep 9, 2017 7:23 PM CST Will u be able to love again ?
I sure hope so.
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Sep 9, 2017 7:24 PM CST Will u be able to love again ?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Bogart_1960: Aliens have landed. ?:


I'm beginning to think it might be a mercy to mankind if they did come and got us over with ...

cheers
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Sep 9, 2017 7:42 PM CST Will u be able to love again ?
2intrigued: Mr. Right simply doesn't exist but if by some miracle he does exist, he's hiding and he's not on CS.
laugh I know what you mean. CS needs to bring him out of hidingtip hat
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Sep 9, 2017 7:44 PM CST Will u be able to love again ?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
felixis99: I know what you mean. CS needs to bring him out of hiding


Now that would be a miracle. laugh
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Sep 9, 2017 7:51 PM CST Will u be able to love again ?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Deedee123x: Would really hope it's possible for us all to find an everlasting love.
Maybe not as good as the first but possilly a more realistic one




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'Everlasting love' is a foolish notion in a time bound, temporary existence !

It's an addictive belief and, as Chopra put it

" Any addiction is just a repeated attempt to achieve something good that you want, by a bad method that can never deliver the goods you hope for "
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Sep 10, 2017 1:12 AM CST Will u be able to love again ?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
HexagonKeySet: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=itAOGRiYRLI



'Everlasting love' is a foolish notion in a time bound, temporary existence !

It's an addictive belief and, as Chopra put it

" Any addiction is just a repeated attempt to achieve something good that you want, by a bad method that can never deliver the goods you hope for "


I don't have an addiction to love nor do I have an addiction to "foolish notions".

To put hope in ones own future is by no means a foolish notion....to put hope in finding someone decent that u may want to spend the rest of ur life with is not a foolish notion.
When u get married u take an oath of till death do us part ...so is the sanctity of marriage now also a foolish notion to you??

Do u not enter anything good with some degree of hope that it could last...or do u enter everything with a negative mindset that it will last for a short period of time because some spiritual leader has told me to think this way instead of having the awareness of my own mind to decide for myself what is worth hoping for or not???
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Sep 10, 2017 1:53 AM CST Will u be able to love again ?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
In our younger years we value "love".
as we get older we value "tolerance",
for each other,especially trying to have
a new relationship/s in our later years,
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Sep 12, 2017 7:20 PM CST Will u be able to love again ?
SpaceRam
SpaceRamSpaceRamSan Vicente, Distrito Federal Argentina7 Threads 122 Posts
No.

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Sep 13, 2017 5:03 AM CST Will u be able to love again ?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
chris27292729: In our younger years we value "love".
as we get older we value "tolerance",
for each other,especially trying to have
a new relationship/s in our later years,


Well said that man ... having said that we also learn as we age that it's good if we can " learn to surrender the things of youth " ( as per the line in Desiderata )

That allows us to enjoy 'being in the moment as we are' rather than holding on to notions we held in the past ... ?

cheers
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Sep 13, 2017 5:38 AM CST Will u be able to love again ?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Probably not...

...not with the same intensity.

The cut was too deep.
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Sep 13, 2017 7:48 AM CST Will u be able to love again ?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Dedovix: Sure , a few times a day


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Sep 13, 2017 7:51 AM CST Will u be able to love again ?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Dedovix: Sure , a few times a day


laugh

comfort

lips
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Sep 13, 2017 8:12 AM CST Will u be able to love again ?
I used to love myself twice a day, now I'm lucky if its twice a week.
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Sep 13, 2017 8:26 AM CST Will u be able to love again ?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Track16: I used to love myself twice a day, now I'm lucky if its twice a week.


You should see a doctor if the refraction period is more than 12 hours !

But I dunno, maybe you just don't fancy y'self the way you once did ?

Reminds me of a story about two bums in a shop doorwayd getting ready to settle down for the night.

First bum is whining about the loss of faculty, he's a bit deaf, a bit less sharp in eyesight and a lot less strong than he used to be.

" Oh " says the second bum " I dunno about that, OK maybe my eyes and ears arent quite as sharp but I sure am getting stronger. When I was a young man and had wood it took me two hands to bend it ... now I can do that with juss the one hand ! "

cheers
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