rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
Lookin4missright: Why for a little while?
Like myself, there are peeps that like you and there are peeps that may not like you
They DON'T know you personally, so don't get in a tizzy.
Don't go all girly and do a foofa valve or break a nail
You are good for CS and i know that i am just a piss in the ocean sort of thing
But sometimes YOU TALK TOO MUCH
Lub ya ... carry on ... Fosters eeeew
I like him too,he is good for CS, regardless of his Narcissist threads and getting all girly over-sensitive in breaking a nail while wondering how to hit low.
rainbowdream2017: I like him too,he is good for CS, regardless of his Narcissist threads and getting all girly over-sensitive in breaking a nail while wondering how to hit low.
rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
Lookin4missright: I'm hearing ya girlfriend
I can imagine him in your big boots
Honey, with all your carefulness, not to hurt his ego, you see, he won't stop yapping in attempt to undermine anyone that doesn't support his full grandiosity. You are 'happy go lucky personality ' and I rather walk in your boots.
I started to learn about that all almost 11 years ago. I had left the father of my child because I had becoming ill over watching how he behaves towards a two year old child and also over the fact that he was apparently not able to understand when I wanted to talk about it with him (it was as if he spoke another language). How he treated me ... oh, for realizing and fully understanding this I needed years :-)
After I left him I thought, how terrible it was that I could come together with such human, and I thought about why that happened and how I must be (at that time). I didn´t want my daughter to become like me and need such a bad partner later. So I went to a psychologist to explain to me how I can change myself, so that my daughter could become a stable, happy, loving human, feeling at home in only good mechanisms.
I learned about antisocial behaviour, then about the narcissistic personality disorder. In short words :-): I learned about my family, myself, about emotions and communication ... I learned about that so much, and it is understood and digested since a long time. I didn´t read in the internet articles about narcissism because until that time I didn´t even know that that disorder exists. I don´t read now about it because it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact.
That what is written in the "sneaky things" article is 100% right though, HexagonKeySet. No matter which source it is. It is right. And everybody who has experienced to have a partner or a parent with that disorder will tell you that.
Innocentia00122: I started to learn about that all almost 11 years ago. I had left the father of my child because I had becoming ill over watching how he behaves towards a two year old child and also over the fact that he was apparently not able to understand when I wanted to talk about it with him (it was as if he spoke another language). How he treated me ... oh, for realizing and fully understanding this I needed years :-)
After I left him I thought, how terrible it was that I could come together with such human, and I thought about why that happened and how I must be (at that time). I didn´t want my daughter to become like me and need such a bad partner later. So I went to a psychologist to explain to me how I can change myself, so that my daughter could become a stable, happy, loving human, feeling at home in only good mechanisms.
I learned about antisocial behaviour, then about the narcissistic personality disorder. In short words :-): I learned about my family, myself, about emotions and communication ... I learned about that so much, and it is understood and digested since a long time. I didn´t read in the internet articles about narcissism because until that time I didn´t even know that that disorder exists. I don´t read now about it because it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact.
That what is written in the "sneaky things" article is 100% right though, HexagonKeySet. No matter which source it is. It is right. And everybody who has experienced to have a partner or a parent with that disorder will tell you that.
Innocentia00122: I started to learn about that all almost 11 years ago. I had left the father of my child because I had becoming ill over watching how he behaves towards a two year old child and also over the fact that he was apparently not able to understand when I wanted to talk about it with him (it was as if he spoke another language). How he treated me ... oh, for realizing and fully understanding this I needed years :-)
After I left him I thought, how terrible it was that I could come together with such human, and I thought about why that happened and how I must be (at that time). I didn´t want my daughter to become like me and need such a bad partner later. So I went to a psychologist to explain to me how I can change myself, so that my daughter could become a stable, happy, loving human, feeling at home in only good mechanisms.
I learned about antisocial behaviour, then about the narcissistic personality disorder. In short words :-): I learned about my family, myself, about emotions and communication ... I learned about that so much, and it is understood and digested since a long time. I didn´t read in the internet articles about narcissism because until that time I didn´t even know that that disorder exists. I don´t read now about it because it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact.
That what is written in the "sneaky things" article is 100% right though, HexagonKeySet. No matter which source it is. It is right. And everybody who has experienced to have a partner or a parent with that disorder will tell you that.
There's no denying that narcissism exists ( and a good many other antisocial behaviours too ) however, its NOT THE ONLY ONE and it's been used on here over the past several months by certain parties as weapon of attack against perfect ordinary people 'just because' it's become a fashionable word among the coven members.
You said " I don't read about it because it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact.
I agree 100% with that.
You also mentioned 'sneaky things' unfortunately there are many people who, even with ANY sort of 'disorder' do sneaky things ... in fact, if the 'doing sneaky things' WAS a disorder then I think you;d find that most of the population would labelled as disordered wouldn't you? Perhaps ESPECIALLY you / they would be obliged to label children who, in the normal course of their growing up are always testing boundaries and 'seeing what they can get away with on the QT!'
For the sake of the Dummies, I'd spell it out NO, I'M NOT SAYING ALL CHILDREN ARE DISORDERED !
I'll close by quoting you again ... maybe when it's the words from a woman then they can hear you?
it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact
But then again ... we DO have a surplus of apparently very confused people here eh ?
rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
HexagonKeySet: There's no denying that narcissism exists ( and a good many other antisocial behaviours too ) however, its NOT THE ONLY ONE and it's been used on here over the past several months by certain parties as weapon of attack against perfect ordinary people 'just because' it's become a fashionable word among the coven members.
You said " I don't read about it because it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact.
I agree 100% with that.
You also mentioned 'sneaky things' unfortunately there are many people who, even with ANY sort of 'disorder' do sneaky things ... in fact, if the 'doing sneaky things' WAS a disorder then I think you;d find that most of the population would labelled as disordered wouldn't you? Perhaps ESPECIALLY you / they would be obliged to label children who, in the normal course of their growing up are always testing boundaries and 'seeing what they can get away with on the QT!'
For the sake of the Dummies, I'd spell it out NO, I'M NOT SAYING ALL CHILDREN ARE DISORDERED !
I'll close by quoting you again ... maybe when it's the words from a woman then they can hear you?
it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact
But then again ... we DO have a surplus of apparently very confused people here eh ?
You're contradicting yourself; partially acknowledging there is no denying that Narcissism exists but the rest of your long elaboration is focused only on DENYEL of any existence of Narcissism by making empty excuses !!!
rainbowdream2017: You're contradicting yourself; partially acknowledging there is no denying that Narcissism exists but the rest of your long elaboration is focused only on DENYEL of any existence of Narcissism by making empty excuses !!!
I'm wasting no more time on you Dreamer ... you're behaving like a cantankerous ignoramus and you're completely incapable of entertaining different opinions.
Good day to you Madame
Oh, do you have a couple of cod I can buy, please ?
HexagonKeySet: There's no denying that narcissism exists ( and a good many other antisocial behaviours too ) however, its NOT THE ONLY ONE and it's been used on here over the past several months by certain parties as weapon of attack against perfect ordinary people 'just because' it's become a fashionable word among the coven members.
You said " I don't read about it because it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact.
I agree 100% with that.
You also mentioned 'sneaky things' unfortunately there are many people who, even with ANY sort of 'disorder' do sneaky things ... in fact, if the 'doing sneaky things' WAS a disorder then I think you;d find that most of the population would labelled as disordered wouldn't you? Perhaps ESPECIALLY you / they would be obliged to label children who, in the normal course of their growing up are always testing boundaries and 'seeing what they can get away with on the QT!'
For the sake of the Dummies, I'd spell it out NO, I'M NOT SAYING ALL CHILDREN ARE DISORDERED !
I'll close by quoting you again ... maybe when it's the words from a woman then they can hear you?
it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact
But then again ... we DO have a surplus of apparently very confused people here eh ?
I don´t find that most of the population could be labelled as disordered. And I do not know anything about other disorders. Only about that one. I will never understand people who judge others so quickly or compare people or use generalizations. Everybody has his or her own story of life. You can never know why a person is like this or that. And when someone tells me things about myself who doesn´t know me, I think he or she has a small view on the whole world.
"Sneaky" I had to look up in the dictionary. How life is with someone with that disorder (and you are not aware of it while you live with that person), what happens to you, that is very good explained in that "Sneaky things" article. There are so many little things that are so bad. This sneakiness has nothing to do with wanting to find out how far you can go. A narcissist was long before exactly as bad as he is at that point when you meet him. And he is the same when you leave him. No progression, no regression, no changes. You can only go away.
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Greetings ... for a little while at least
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... join me ???