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Sep 13, 2017 12:23 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Lookin4missright: Oi !! Hexy Are you there ???


Greetings ... for a little while at least


:rofl:

cheers ... join me ???
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Sep 13, 2017 12:29 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
annaroach: Hi Lilith, i'm glad to be of help, a fascinating subject, i never knew about all of this until today

Imagine that, you never knew,,,, ,,it is a bad day that we don't learn something,,,,,, thankfully.

Thank you,, i came back for another while anyway.






"""I'm getting older while being taught all the time"""

Quoted by Solon first,
and 100 years after,with a similar text,
by Sokrates.
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Sep 13, 2017 12:34 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
HexagonKeySet: Greetings ... for a little while at least


:rofl:

... join me ???




Why for a little while? conversing

Like myself, there are peeps that like you thumbs up and there are peeps that may not like you thumbs down

They DON'T know you personally, so don't get in a tizzy.

Don't go all girly and do a foofa valve or break a nail conversing

You are good for CS thumbs up and i know that i am just a piss in the ocean sort of thing grin


But sometimes uh oh YOU TALK TOO MUCH grin


Lub ya hug ... carry on cheers ... Fosters eeeew barf

wave
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Sep 13, 2017 12:55 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
HexagonKeySet: I dunno ... lemme guess someone brighter than a judgemental dumb truckie who wears his self esteem round his ankles ?

Maybe you need time in the lub bay ???



Tru that thumbs up ..............Carry on conversing blushing
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Sep 13, 2017 12:57 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Lookin4missright: Tru that ..............Carry on



Castrol HMP HD ... good all round product AND it has the added advantage of LITHIUM for the other issues ;-)

cheers
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Sep 13, 2017 1:00 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Lookin4missright: Why for a little while?

Like myself, there are peeps that like you and there are peeps that may not like you

They DON'T know you personally, so don't get in a tizzy.

Don't go all girly and do a foofa valve or break a nail

You are good for CS and i know that i am just a piss in the ocean sort of thing


But sometimes YOU TALK TOO MUCH


Lub ya ... carry on ... Fosters eeeew
I like him too,he is good for CS, regardless of his Narcissist threads and getting all girly over-sensitive in breaking a nail while wondering how to hit low.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing teddybear
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Sep 13, 2017 1:03 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
HexagonKeySet: Don't fret ... you arent hurting my feelings ( )

And it wouldn't matter how queer you were you'd never get near the rear exit !

No matter how impressive your big truck might be !





have a Teddy ... I get the feeling yours might have been taken from you too soon when you was a ickie liddle boysy woysy


:rofl:




Who's Fritz ffs?? laugh
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Sep 13, 2017 1:06 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
HexagonKeySet: Castrol HMP HD ... good all round product AND it has the added advantage of [b]LITHIUM for the other issues ;-)





Is that what brought the Lindenburg down conversing ... i watch Pawn Stars laugh
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Sep 13, 2017 1:08 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Lookin4missright: Is that what brought the Lindenburg down ... i watch Pawn Stars



Nah LITHIUM is what they use for calming down nutters ;-)
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Sep 13, 2017 1:09 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
rainbowdream2017: I like him too,he is good for CS, regardless of his Narcissist threads and getting all girly over-sensitive in breaking a nail while wondering how to hit low.




I'm hearing ya girlfriend thumbs up

I can imagine him in your big boots laugh
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Sep 13, 2017 1:10 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
HexagonKeySet: Nah LITHIUM is what they use for calming down nutters ;-)



Oh grin
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Sep 13, 2017 1:18 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Lookin4missright: I'm hearing ya girlfriend

I can imagine him in your big boots
Honey, with all your carefulness, not to hurt his ego, you see, he won't stop yapping in attempt to undermine anyone that doesn't support his full grandiosity. rolling on the floor laughing You are 'happy go lucky personality ' and I rather walk in your boots.rolling on the floor laughing hug teddybear
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Sep 13, 2017 2:01 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
Innocentia00122
Innocentia00122Innocentia00122Osnabrück, Lower Saxony Germany2 Threads 723 Posts
I started to learn about that all almost 11 years ago. I had left the father of my child because I had becoming ill over watching how he behaves towards a two year old child and also over the fact that he was apparently not able to understand when I wanted to talk about it with him (it was as if he spoke another language). How he treated me ... oh, for realizing and fully understanding this I needed years :-)

After I left him I thought, how terrible it was that I could come together with such human, and I thought about why that happened and how I must be (at that time). I didn´t want my daughter to become like me and need such a bad partner later. So I went to a psychologist to explain to me how I can change myself, so that my daughter could become a stable, happy, loving human, feeling at home in only good mechanisms.

I learned about antisocial behaviour, then about the narcissistic personality disorder. In short words :-): I learned about my family, myself, about emotions and communication ... I learned about that so much, and it is understood and digested since a long time.
I didn´t read in the internet articles about narcissism because until that time I didn´t even know that that disorder exists.
I don´t read now about it because it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact.

That what is written in the "sneaky things" article is 100% right though, HexagonKeySet. No matter which source it is. It is right. And everybody who has experienced to have a partner or a parent with that disorder will tell you that.
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Sep 13, 2017 2:25 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Innocentia00122: I started to learn about that all almost 11 years ago. I had left the father of my child because I had becoming ill over watching how he behaves towards a two year old child and also over the fact that he was apparently not able to understand when I wanted to talk about it with him (it was as if he spoke another language). How he treated me ... oh, for realizing and fully understanding this I needed years :-)

After I left him I thought, how terrible it was that I could come together with such human, and I thought about why that happened and how I must be (at that time). I didn´t want my daughter to become like me and need such a bad partner later. So I went to a psychologist to explain to me how I can change myself, so that my daughter could become a stable, happy, loving human, feeling at home in only good mechanisms.

I learned about antisocial behaviour, then about the narcissistic personality disorder. In short words :-): I learned about my family, myself, about emotions and communication ... I learned about that so much, and it is understood and digested since a long time.
I didn´t read in the internet articles about narcissism because until that time I didn´t even know that that disorder exists.
I don´t read now about it because it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact.

That what is written in the "sneaky things" article is 100% right though, HexagonKeySet. No matter which source it is. It is right. And everybody who has experienced to have a partner or a parent with that disorder will tell you that.





You are a bewty Inny hug teddybear
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Sep 13, 2017 3:32 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Innocentia00122: I started to learn about that all almost 11 years ago. I had left the father of my child because I had becoming ill over watching how he behaves towards a two year old child and also over the fact that he was apparently not able to understand when I wanted to talk about it with him (it was as if he spoke another language). How he treated me ... oh, for realizing and fully understanding this I needed years :-)

After I left him I thought, how terrible it was that I could come together with such human, and I thought about why that happened and how I must be (at that time). I didn´t want my daughter to become like me and need such a bad partner later. So I went to a psychologist to explain to me how I can change myself, so that my daughter could become a stable, happy, loving human, feeling at home in only good mechanisms.

I learned about antisocial behaviour, then about the narcissistic personality disorder. In short words :-): I learned about my family, myself, about emotions and communication ... I learned about that so much, and it is understood and digested since a long time.
I didn´t read in the internet articles about narcissism because until that time I didn´t even know that that disorder exists.
I don´t read now about it because it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact.

That what is written in the "sneaky things" article is 100% right though, HexagonKeySet. No matter which source it is. It is right. And everybody who has experienced to have a partner or a parent with that disorder will tell you that.



There's no denying that narcissism exists ( and a good many other antisocial behaviours too ) however, its NOT THE ONLY ONE and it's been used on here over the past several months by certain parties as weapon of attack against perfect ordinary people 'just because' it's become a fashionable word among the coven members.

You said " I don't read about it because it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact.

I agree 100% with that.

You also mentioned 'sneaky things' unfortunately there are many people who, even with ANY sort of 'disorder' do sneaky things ... in fact, if the 'doing sneaky things' WAS a disorder then I think you;d find that most of the population would labelled as disordered wouldn't you? Perhaps ESPECIALLY you / they would be obliged to label children who, in the normal course of their growing up are always testing boundaries and 'seeing what they can get away with on the QT!'

For the sake of the Dummies, I'd spell it out NO, I'M NOT SAYING ALL CHILDREN ARE DISORDERED !

I'll close by quoting you again ... maybe when it's the words from a woman then they can hear you?

it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact

But then again ... we DO have a surplus of apparently very confused people here eh ?
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Sep 13, 2017 3:49 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
HexagonKeySet: There's no denying that narcissism exists ( and a good many other antisocial behaviours too ) however, its NOT THE ONLY ONE and it's been used on here over the past several months by certain parties as weapon of attack against perfect ordinary people 'just because' it's become a fashionable word among the coven members.

You said " I don't read about it because it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact.

I agree 100% with that.

You also mentioned 'sneaky things' unfortunately there are many people who, even with ANY sort of 'disorder' do sneaky things ... in fact, if the 'doing sneaky things' WAS a disorder then I think you;d find that most of the population would labelled as disordered wouldn't you? Perhaps ESPECIALLY you / they would be obliged to label children who, in the normal course of their growing up are always testing boundaries and 'seeing what they can get away with on the QT!'

For the sake of the Dummies, I'd spell it out NO, I'M NOT SAYING ALL CHILDREN ARE DISORDERED !

I'll close by quoting you again ... maybe when it's the words from a woman then they can hear you?

it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact

But then again ... we DO have a surplus of apparently very confused people here eh ?
You're contradicting yourself; partially acknowledging there is no denying that Narcissism exists but the rest of your long elaboration is focused only on DENYEL of any existence of Narcissism by making empty excuses !!!doh frustrated laugh
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Sep 13, 2017 3:56 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
Have to say it´s about time this thread was flushed down the toilet
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Sep 13, 2017 4:12 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
rainbowdream2017: You're contradicting yourself; partially acknowledging there is no denying that Narcissism exists but the rest of your long elaboration is focused only on DENYEL of any existence of Narcissism by making empty excuses !!!



I'm wasting no more time on you Dreamer ... you're behaving like a cantankerous ignoramus and you're completely incapable of entertaining different opinions.

Good day to you Madame

Oh, do you have a couple of cod I can buy, please ?



teddybear
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Sep 13, 2017 4:13 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Bnaughty: Have to say it´s about time this thread was flushed down the toilet



ROFL ... oh do sit quietly child and don't fidget so !!!

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laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
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Sep 13, 2017 4:17 AM CST THE Lonely Narcissist!!
Innocentia00122
Innocentia00122Innocentia00122Osnabrück, Lower Saxony Germany2 Threads 723 Posts
HexagonKeySet: There's no denying that narcissism exists ( and a good many other antisocial behaviours too ) however, its NOT THE ONLY ONE and it's been used on here over the past several months by certain parties as weapon of attack against perfect ordinary people 'just because' it's become a fashionable word among the coven members.

You said " I don't read about it because it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact.

I agree 100% with that.

You also mentioned 'sneaky things' unfortunately there are many people who, even with ANY sort of 'disorder' do sneaky things ... in fact, if the 'doing sneaky things' WAS a disorder then I think you;d find that most of the population would labelled as disordered wouldn't you? Perhaps ESPECIALLY you / they would be obliged to label children who, in the normal course of their growing up are always testing boundaries and 'seeing what they can get away with on the QT!'

For the sake of the Dummies, I'd spell it out NO, I'M NOT SAYING ALL CHILDREN ARE DISORDERED !

I'll close by quoting you again ... maybe when it's the words from a woman then they can hear you?

it is tiring to see when people talk about it and confuse it with things like being a bit egotistical for example. It is terrible in fact

But then again ... we DO have a surplus of apparently very confused people here eh ?


I don´t find that most of the population could be labelled as disordered. And I do not know anything about other disorders. Only about that one.
I will never understand people who judge others so quickly or compare people or use generalizations. Everybody has his or her own story of life. You can never know why a person is like this or that. And when someone tells me things about myself who doesn´t know me, I think he or she has a small view on the whole world.

"Sneaky" I had to look up in the dictionary. How life is with someone with that disorder (and you are not aware of it while you live with that person), what happens to you, that is very good explained in that "Sneaky things" article. There are so many little things that are so bad. This sneakiness has nothing to do with wanting to find out how far you can go. A narcissist was long before exactly as bad as he is at that point when you meet him. And he is the same when you leave him. No progression, no regression, no changes. You can only go away.
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