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Sep 12, 2017 2:31 PM CST Coincidence or...
Hi everyone. I have noticed that when I respond to a thread lately, (i.e. 'Favorite Songs') that I am the last one for that thread even after a couple of days. Just wondering, is there some reason I am not being responded to, have I become some kind of pariah or something??laugh Trying to see some humor here, but it IS making me feel a little distanced from folks who did use to have conversations with me. Is there something about the way I communicate that should change, have I offended, etc...? (Be honest.....) Thanks dunno crying confused
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Sep 12, 2017 2:43 PM CST Coincidence or...
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
rohaan: Hi everyone. I have noticed that when I respond to a thread lately, (i.e. 'Favorite Songs') that I am the last one for that thread even after a couple of days. Just wondering, is there some reason I am not being responded to, have I become some kind of pariah or something?? Trying to see some humor here, but it IS making me feel a little distanced from folks who did use to have conversations with me. Is there something about the way I communicate that should change, have I offended, etc...? (Be honest.....) Thanks


Hi Ro!
If I didn't respond to your comment , I apologise!

My reasoning is , I post so many blogs , I loose interest when the post gets hijacked !

I can assure you it wasn't deliberate & have always enjoyed corresponding with you


handshake wave
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Sep 12, 2017 2:43 PM CST Coincidence or...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Hi Ro,

I am not on the forums as much anymore as i don't find them as much fun as i did.

But i doubt it is anything personal.
Sometimes ithat just happens.
Ones comments are the last?but i wouldn't take it to heart.
It just happens.
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Sep 12, 2017 2:43 PM CST Coincidence or...
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
rohaan: Hi everyone. I have noticed that when I respond to a thread lately, (i.e. 'Favorite Songs') that I am the last one for that thread even after a couple of days. Just wondering, is there some reason I am not being responded to, have I become some kind of pariah or something?? Trying to see some humor here, but it IS making me feel a little distanced from folks who did use to have conversations with me. Is there something about the way I communicate that should change, have I offended, etc...? (Be honest.....) Thanks

You don´t scare meboxing
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Sep 12, 2017 3:10 PM CST Coincidence or...
Bnaughty: You don´t scare me
Don't make me come over there.....scold


















wink
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Sep 12, 2017 3:13 PM CST Coincidence or...
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
rohaan: Don't make me come over there.....

My work here is done....cue theme from "The littlest hobo"
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Sep 12, 2017 3:19 PM CST Coincidence or...
Bnaughty: My work here is done....cue theme from "The littlest hobo"
I would have loved you anyway.
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Sep 12, 2017 3:23 PM CST Coincidence or...
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada25 Threads 2,078 Posts
rohaan: Hi everyone. I have noticed that when I respond to a thread lately, (i.e. 'Favorite Songs') that I am the last one for that thread even after a couple of days. Just wondering, is there some reason I am not being responded to, have I become some kind of pariah or something?? Trying to see some humor here, but it IS making me feel a little distanced from folks who did use to have conversations with me. Is there something about the way I communicate that should change, have I offended, etc...? (Be honest.....) Thanks



Dont take it to heart Rohaan...it happens to me too doh drinking wave
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Sep 12, 2017 3:29 PM CST Coincidence or...
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
Lilith10: Dont take it to heart Rohaan...it happens to me too

Me too, but that´s because I make people think deeply about what I just wrote and their brain can´t cope
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Sep 12, 2017 3:35 PM CST Coincidence or...
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
It could be a clique situation again. Obviously you joined the wrong clique.
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Sep 12, 2017 3:36 PM CST Coincidence or...
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada25 Threads 2,078 Posts
Bnaughty: Me too, but that´s because I make people think deeply about what I just wrote and their brain can´t cope


laugh ...Nahh..never had to think too deeply rolling on the floor laughing wave
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Sep 12, 2017 3:37 PM CST Coincidence or...
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada25 Threads 2,078 Posts
pat8lanips: It could be a clique situation again. Obviously you joined the wrong clique.



Am not a 'clique'...person myself..

I prefer to go it alone.wink cool
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Sep 12, 2017 3:41 PM CST Coincidence or...
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
My hair is so luxuriant and fabulous and my hips are on autopilot, its only logical that I joined the clique.
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Sep 12, 2017 3:44 PM CST Coincidence or...
rohaan: Hi everyone. I have noticed that when I respond to a thread lately, (i.e. 'Favorite Songs') that I am the last one for that thread even after a couple of days. Just wondering, is there some reason I am not being responded to, have I become some kind of pariah or something?? Trying to see some humor here, but it IS making me feel a little distanced from folks who did use to have conversations with me. Is there something about the way I communicate that should change, have I offended, etc...? (Be honest.....) Thanks


Hey there sweetie!! Do I need to kick some cyberass for you?? Cause I will, just say the word? boxing

Nobody puts Baby in the corner and forgets Baby!!scold heart wings
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Sep 12, 2017 3:57 PM CST Coincidence or...
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
crazyblondeone: Yeah, I see the tire tracks as he ran over the top of you! Love that shirt on you!!


It's a number I chose that goes well on your bedroom carpet wink wave bouquet
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Sep 12, 2017 5:50 PM CST Coincidence or...
One2note: It's a number I chose that goes well on your bedroom carpet


Well chosen! heart wings
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Sep 12, 2017 7:37 PM CST Coincidence or...
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
rohaan: Hi everyone. I have noticed that when I respond to a thread lately, (i.e. 'Favorite Songs') that I am the last one for that thread even after a couple of days. Just wondering, is there some reason I am not being responded to, have I become some kind of pariah or something?? Trying to see some humor here, but it IS making me feel a little distanced from folks who did use to have conversations with me. Is there something about the way I communicate that should change, have I offended, etc...? (Be honest.....) Thanks


Hiya Ro wave Well, you're not alone thinking that because it happens to me too. laugh Sometimes it's the last post with no response or just simply being ignored which does have us feeling somewhat distanced. Maybe it's just a perception thing but there are times when we might wonder if it's worth posting anything at all and that's where I'm at with this these days and perhaps you are too? hug
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Sep 12, 2017 8:10 PM CST Coincidence or...
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
rohaan: Hi everyone. I have noticed that when I respond to a thread lately, (i.e. 'Favorite Songs') that I am the last one for that thread even after a couple of days. Just wondering, is there some reason I am not being responded to, have I become some kind of pariah or something?? Trying to see some humor here, but it IS making me feel a little distanced from folks who did use to have conversations with me. Is there something about the way I communicate that should change, have I offended, etc...? (Be honest.....) Thanks
Since Trump one election, after some good cry, you become much calmer and more pleasent. laugh Don't take it personally, it's coincidence. Your not a Narcissist, it's a clear good sign when you ask all this qustions.wine
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Sep 12, 2017 8:24 PM CST Coincidence or...
pat8lanips: It could be a clique situation again. Obviously you joined the wrong clique.



Personally I think the word 'clique' is bandied about a little too often Pat conversing


Some people may find certain posters more in tune with their own way of thinking, hence they tend to respond to them. And that's ok.


At other times we might read various posters' comments but not feel the need to respond and that's ok too.


As far as Rohaan's query, first thing I'd say is no one needs to change for anyone on here.

Secondly, I find his posts sweet, meaningful and from the heart and I hope that never changes wine
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Sep 12, 2017 8:38 PM CST Coincidence or...
rohaan: Hi everyone. I have noticed that when I respond to a thread lately, (i.e. 'Favorite Songs') that I am the last one for that thread even after a couple of days. Just wondering, is there some reason I am not being responded to, have I become some kind of pariah or something?? Trying to see some humor here, but it IS making me feel a little distanced from folks who did use to have conversations with me. Is there something about the way I communicate that should change, have I offended, etc...? (Be honest.....) Thanks


I shut's down threads too moping
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