Why settle for less? ( Archived) (19)

Sep 15, 2017 12:45 PM CST Why settle for less?
While brousing female profiles I came across one with the following list of requirements of the man she was looking for.
He should be;
Kind
Honest
Open
Passionate
Transparent
Considerate
Strong
Sensitive
Gentle
Respectful
Loving
Giving
Good Sense of Humor
Caring
Trustworthy

I felt like writing her and saying let me know when you find this guy and I'll marry him myself.
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Sep 15, 2017 12:50 PM CST Why settle for less?
KarloradoFL
KarloradoFLKarloradoFLDeLeon Springs, Florida USA50 Threads 3 Polls 9,475 Posts
ooby_dooby: While brousing female profiles I came across one with the following list of requirements of the man she was looking for.
He should be;
Kind
Honest
Open
Passionate
Transparent
Considerate
Strong
Sensitive
Gentle
Respectful
Loving
Giving
Good Sense of Humor
Caring
Trustworthy

I felt like writing her and saying let me know when you find this guy and I'll marry him myself.

Sounds a little like the Cub and Boy Scout oath.
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Sep 15, 2017 1:27 PM CST Why settle for less?
DaMooseLives
DaMooseLivesDaMooseLivesWestlock, Alberta Canada16 Threads 619 Posts
ooby_dooby: While brousing female profiles I came across one with the following list of requirements of the man she was looking for.
He should be;
Kind
Honest
Open
Passionate
Transparent
Considerate
Strong
Sensitive
Gentle
Respectful
Loving
Giving
Good Sense of Humor
Caring
Trustworthy

I felt like writing her and saying let me know when you find this guy and I'll marry him myself.


Hey, at least she was not concerned about "looks" grin
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Sep 15, 2017 2:36 PM CST Why settle for less?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
ooby_dooby: While brousing female profiles I came across one with the following list of requirements of the man she was looking for.
He should be;
Kind
Honest
Open
Passionate
Transparent
Considerate
Strong
Sensitive
Gentle
Respectful
Loving
Giving
Good Sense of Humor
Caring
Trustworthy

I felt like writing her and saying let me know when you find this guy and I'll marry him myself.


You should just put a strike-through the requirements you don't have, then see if anybody is interested in what you do have to offer idea
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Sep 15, 2017 3:26 PM CST Why settle for less?
Grouchyoldfart
GrouchyoldfartGrouchyoldfartSan Juan, Puerto Rico156 Posts
ooby_dooby: While brousing female profiles I came across one with the following list of requirements of the man she was looking for.
He should be;
Kind
Honest
Open
Passionate
Transparent
Considerate
Strong
Sensitive
Gentle
Respectful
Loving
Giving
Good Sense of Humor
Caring
Trustworthy

I felt like writing her and saying let me know when you find this guy and I'll marry him myself.


I only have two questions, one : is she good looking and two : how many atributes will she settle for ? ? ? ? . . . laugh
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Sep 15, 2017 4:00 PM CST Why settle for less?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
ooby_dooby: While brousing female profiles I came across one with the following list of requirements of the man she was looking for.
He should be;
Kind
Honest
Open
Passionate
Transparent
Considerate
Strong
Sensitive
Gentle
Respectful
Loving
Giving
Good Sense of Humor
Caring
Trustworthy

I felt like writing her and saying let me know when you find this guy and I'll marry him myself.


Without going through the whole list, reading the first 2 criteria has already ruled me out.moping
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Sep 15, 2017 4:09 PM CST Why settle for less?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
DaMooseLives: Hey, at least she was not concerned about "looks"


Perhaps was differently sighted ?

I gather that's the proper PC way to state blind these days ?
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Sep 15, 2017 4:39 PM CST Why settle for less?
DaMooseLives: Hey, at least she was not concerned about "looks"


seems a nice lady.
I guess these all requirements just to get reply of your first message. tongue
for first date she would ask about your look and dressing sense, height, color, religion etc to conform you are presentable.
before engaging with you she might ask for your all banks accounts for detail analysis your education is undesirable if she impressed with your current balance in banks you might not be asked about your willy size (that is big relief) If you ask her why this important things doesn't matter---she would hold your hand and look at your eyes and say she is looking for love now and she already have plenty of them.
How nice she is....smitten love
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Sep 15, 2017 5:07 PM CST Why settle for less?
Why settle at all?cool
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Sep 15, 2017 5:16 PM CST Why settle for less?
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
ooby_dooby: While brousing female profiles I came across one with the following list of requirements of the man she was looking for.
He should be;
Kind
Honest
Open
Passionate
Transparent
Considerate
Strong
Sensitive
Gentle
Respectful
Loving
Giving
Good Sense of Humor
Caring
Trustworthy

I felt like writing her and saying let me know when you find this guy and I'll marry him myself.
That's an employer list by the looks , she wants a head waiter rather than a head male .
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Sep 16, 2017 6:30 PM CST Why settle for less?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
ooby_dooby: While browsing female profiles I came across one with the following list of requirements of the man she was looking for.
He should be;
Kind
Honest
Open
Passionate
Transparent
Considerate
Strong
Sensitive
Gentle
Respectful
Loving
Giving
Good Sense of Humor
Caring
Trustworthy

I felt like writing her and saying let me know when you find this guy and I'll marry him myself.



I admire people who have her mindset, - voluntary celibate.
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Sep 16, 2017 6:50 PM CST Why settle for less?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
I'm wondering which ones she shouldn't expect?

Loving?
Honest?
Respectful?
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Sep 16, 2017 6:56 PM CST Why settle for less?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
mollybaby: I'm wondering which ones she shouldn't expect?

Loving?
Honest?
Respectful?


that´s the point - voluntary celibacy.

btw, its a choice, as it is not for everyone. most people settle for less than they want.
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Sep 16, 2017 6:58 PM CST Why settle for less?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Bogart_1960: that´s the point - voluntary celibacy.

btw, its a choice, as it is not for everyone. most people settle for less than they want.


Maybe they do.

But you have to know what you want before you know what you will settle for.
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Sep 16, 2017 6:59 PM CST Why settle for less?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
ooby_dooby: While brousing female profiles I came across one with the following list of requirements of the man she was looking for.
He should be;
Kind
Honest
Open
Passionate
Transparent
Considerate
Strong
Sensitive
Gentle
Respectful
Loving
Giving
Good Sense of Humor
Caring
Trustworthy

I felt like writing her and saying let me know when you find this guy and I'll marry him myself.


I think that list could be broken down to simply being kind because the rest of the traits fits a kind person. grin joy cartwheel
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Sep 16, 2017 7:05 PM CST Why settle for less?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
mollybaby: Maybe they do.

But you have to know what you want before you know what you will settle for.


I agree with you. that´s was my point, and she is in a minority (celibacy)


A small minority knows what they what in their life regarding a partner, or do you think most people have a clear understand of what they want in their life´s?
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Sep 16, 2017 7:09 PM CST Why settle for less?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Bogart_1960: I agree with you. that´s was my point, and she is in a minority (celibacy)


A small minority knows what they what in their life regarding a partner, or do you think most people have a clear understand of what they want in their life´s?



I have no idea what most people know or want?
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Sep 16, 2017 7:14 PM CST Why settle for less?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
mollybaby: I have no idea what most people know or want?


we both don't know. for sure


tip hat
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Sep 16, 2017 7:52 PM CST Why settle for less?
Akeldama40
Akeldama40Akeldama40Hernando, Florida USA1 Threads 1 Polls 12 Posts
Generally people can enumerate what they dont want. There is a saying ask for twice as much you think you deserve and settle for less than half. Many are unrealistic in their search criteria in finding a mate hence it is why they are still alone. The qualities listed is what everyone seeks and hopes to attain within themselves. The problem they are looking in the wrong place. They need to search from within and find those qualities in themselves first. Nobody can give what they do not have for themselves. Expecting others to provide what we seek is never going to happen as most everyone is seeking the same thing. If we cannot accept people for who they are or what they have or dont have how can we love when we have nothing? God loves us regardless and there is no criteria we must fill. If we had to meet a criteria to win the favor of heaven we all would meet in Hell because at least we would know someone. Overall, keep it real rather than chase after what is unrealistic
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