Long Distance Relationship ( Archived) (8)

Sep 28, 2017 1:32 AM CST Long Distance Relationship
atruelove0808
atruelove0808atruelove0808San Jose, Costa Rica6 Threads 6 Posts
Distance has always been a big factor when it comes to keeping up with your relationship. It is often used as an excuse for a break-up:


"I'm moving to another city, this won't work out."


"Long distance never works."


Although, it's true that long distance relationship can be very frustrating and tiring. But, whether things work-out between you two or not, has nothing to do with distance.


There are a lot of benefits that long distance provides in a relationship; like:

? More vocal. You learn to be more vocal about your feelings and issues. You are also able to express yourself more, allowing you to be more honest with each other.

? Appreciate more. Distance has this ability to make you appreciate your partner more. It allows you to appreciate your relationship in a deeper level. You tend to see them in different perspectives which can be a great delight.

? You get to travel. Long distance relationship is always a good reason to travel. Not only are you traveling to see your beloved, you get to experience and see new things that only traveling can provide.

? Missing in a good way. Missing someone is not always pleasant, but sometimes missing someone is a good thing. This feeling allows you to distinguish your true feelings for your partner. It is also worth noting that it makes meeting up extra special and exciting!

It's true that long distance relationship is not for everyone. Mostly, those who ventures for "LDR" are those who are engaged with online dating.



There are a lot of success with the use of online dating sites like: Match.com, LoveMe.com and etc... Most of the success stories starts off with long distance relationship.


There is a reason why online dating has become a new legit way of finding true romance. A lot of the members who have used such sites are either married or are in a continual healthy relationship.


It is about time to relieve "distance" of being a reason for break-ups. Give long distance a chance. Despite the frustration and occasional bouts of feeling lonely, long distance relationship can be rewarding.


How about it? Online dating doesn't seem to be as bad as you might think. If you still have doubts with online dating or long distance relationship… share your thoughts and/or story!
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Sep 28, 2017 5:42 AM CST Long Distance Relationship
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
This post is way too long for me to bother with sorry.


But it seems to be about LDRs which I wouldn't bother with either wink
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Sep 28, 2017 9:46 AM CST Long Distance Relationship
CherryBomb_
CherryBomb_CherryBomb_Temperley, Buenos Aires Argentina10 Threads 1 Polls 181 Posts
For a Long distance relationship (LDR) to work out you need 3 things:
1)money to travel and meet
2) money for keeping up the meets
3) money and knowledge of the immigration laws. Either he/ she comes to you. Or you go to him/ her.


As you can see I didn't listed love.
Because love can be faked.
Because love runs out
Because some people will tell you whatever they think you wanna hear
And lets be honest here. It rarely is a two way love. Is usually one who loves the other. And the other allows himself/ herself to be the recipient of that love.
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Sep 28, 2017 9:48 AM CST Long Distance Relationship
Duromojon
DuromojonDuromojonTampa, Florida USA99 Threads 1,224 Posts
atruelove0808: Distance has always been a big factor when it comes to keeping up with your relationship. It is often used as an excuse for a break-up:


"I'm moving to another city, this won't work out."


"Long distance never works."


Although, it's true that long distance relationship can be very frustrating and tiring. But, whether things work-out between you two or not, has nothing to do with distance.


There are a lot of benefits that long distance provides in a relationship; like:

? More vocal. You learn to be more vocal about your feelings and issues. You are also able to express yourself more, allowing you to be more honest with each other.

? Appreciate more. Distance has this ability to make you appreciate your partner more. It allows you to appreciate your relationship in a deeper level. You tend to see them in different perspectives which can be a great delight.

? You get to travel. Long distance relationship is always a good reason to travel. Not only are you traveling to see your beloved, you get to experience and see new things that only traveling can provide.

? Missing in a good way. Missing someone is not always pleasant, but sometimes missing someone is a good thing. This feeling allows you to distinguish your true feelings for your partner. It is also worth noting that it makes meeting up extra special and exciting!

It's true that long distance relationship is not for everyone. Mostly, those who ventures for "LDR" are those who are engaged with online dating.



There are a lot of success with the use of online dating sites like: Match.com, LoveMe.com and etc... Most of the success stories starts off with long distance relationship.


There is a reason why online dating has become a new legit way of finding true romance. A lot of the members who have used such sites are either married or are in a continual healthy relationship.


It is about time to relieve "distance" of being a reason for break-ups. Give long distance a chance. Despite the frustration and occasional bouts of feeling lonely, long distance relationship can be rewarding.


How about it? Online dating doesn't seem to be as bad as you might think. If you still have doubts with online dating or long distance relationship… share your thoughts and/or story!


only worked during WW2. cos European women thought Americans soldiers

were millionaires laugh
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Sep 28, 2017 11:10 AM CST Long Distance Relationship
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
CherryBomb_: For a Long distance relationship (LDR) to work out you need 3 things:
1)money to travel and meet
2) money for keeping up the meets
3) money and knowledge of the immigration laws. Either he/ she comes to you. Or you go to him/ her.


As you can see I didn't listed love.
Because love can be faked.
Because love runs out
Because some people will tell you whatever they think you wanna hear
And lets be honest here. It rarely is a two way love. Is usually one who loves the other. And the other allows himself/ herself to be the recipient of that love.


damn...you make sense. thumbs up .totally agree with you, sister-in-law. laugh


cant wait to meet your sisterheart wings
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Sep 29, 2017 4:40 PM CST Long Distance Relationship
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
The problem with dating foreign women is the language.
They have a different word for everything dunno confused
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Oct 2, 2017 12:13 PM CST Long Distance Relationship
NotGreg
NotGregNotGregCheyenne, Wyoming USA4 Posts
Never heard of a long distance relationship that lasted very long.. What a drag it would be..
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Oct 2, 2017 1:27 PM CST Long Distance Relationship
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
It might work if the relationship was established first and then for some reason distance became involved. But forget trying to establish a long distance relationship when you first meet someone. That's plain stupid.
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