Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
galrads: Yes I need a dose of reality once in a while. So when I do I ask someone I get immediate rejection. That's an easy and quick way to get a dose of reality.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Draegoneer: Well, I've never had any sons. Even the step children were daughters.
I've been single and very little dating since 2009.
What would my daughters think if dad had any type of revolving door with all I try to teach them about self respect, respect, independence, education, and work ethics? Priorities and prioritizing.
Nothing wrong with having the other half if it's possible. Making sure they're part of the priorities and actually going to be around could be hard issue to resolve.
They see enough around them from other sides that I've never made it much of a goal. By example, I've tried keeping a fairly calm and fully stable home.
Make no mistakes, we do talk about dating. We still talk about me actually dating again. My youngest would like that to a degree I think.
I know in the past, my youngest would sell me off to the highest bidder strictly based on how many kids they may have at home still, as the currency.
Generally we dont get to choose what we want from life, even tho u think so.
After a dose of poison coming from relationships no need to fall in the same hole again. They say a donkey falls in the hole one time but a man falls in the same hole numerous times. That's how stupid humans can be. Reality can't be measured by dating nonsense people assuming that you are up to date. I agree you need to keep your peace and ignore and move on.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Ano751: After a dose of poison coming from relationships no need to fall in the same hole again. They say a donkey falls in the hole one time but a man falls in the same hole numerous times. That's how stupid humans can be. Reality can't be measured by dating nonsense people assuming that you are up to date. I agree you need to keep your peace and ignore and move on.
I like ur common sense !
I haven't had a man in my life for over a decade !
Men are living egoistic, egocentered animals. They all say that they act upon logic but not on feelings, not by heart but by brain; and because of this philosophy they easily can ruin any relationship without any feelings, cause they're animals , absolutely zero feelings, and they call that "logic". Women need to learn and use that same philosophy on them for a change.
Ano751: Men are living egoistic, egocentered animals. They all say that they act upon logic but not on feelings, not by heart but by brain; and because of this philosophy they easily can ruin any relationship without any feelings, cause they're animals , absolutely zero feelings, and they call that "logic". Women need to learn and use that same philosophy on them for a change.
As a man I have to admit you're right about lots of men, but not all are like that. The trick is finding one that isn't. In my opinion women think of nice guys as boring, no challenge, less exciting as the other type you describe...the last thing a bloke wants is to be called" Nice", because it's usually followed up with, BUT.....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Mickmjb: As a man I have to admit you're right about lots of men, but not all are like that. The trick is finding one that isn't. In my opinion women think of nice guys as boring, no challenge, less exciting as the other type you describe...the last thing a bloke wants is to be called" Nice", because it's usually followed up with, BUT.....
Yes. It is essential that he has a nice butt.......
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Do u need to date at all ?
Choose ?
(or)
Forever hold ur peace ?