Should couples stay together for the kids...or is it just an excuse? (32)
lookn2shareSunny, Florida USA21 Threads 2 Polls 419 PostsI know women who stay with their cheating spouse because of the kids... I personally feel that's ignorant, and to some degree an excuse. Obviously opinions will be widespread and rightfully so. The kids will be affected either way. So NO...I feel it's wrong to stay in a unhealthy relationship for the kids. Fire away....
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lookn2share: I know women who stay with their cheating spouse because of the kids... I personally feel that's ignorant, and to some degree an excuse. Obviously opinions will be widespread and rightfully so. The kids will be affected either way. So NO...I feel it's wrong to stay in a unhealthy relationship for the kids. Fire away....
I don't think there is any one easy answer to that.
It depends on each individual, each couple, and their unique circumstances.
Sometimes it may work out, and sometimes they just wait until the kids are through a particularlyvulnerable time in their lives.
As I say, it is a very individual choice to make.
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Are you and DeeDee planning on having any kids, she is still young enough to spit out 4-5 ?
Have to fly now
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Have to fly now
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lookn2share: I know women who stay with their cheating spouse because of the kids... I personally feel that's ignorant, and to some degree an excuse. Obviously opinions will be widespread and rightfully so. The kids will be affected either way. So NO...I feel it's wrong to stay in a unhealthy relationship for the kids. Fire away....
If the couple and relationship has dissolved beyond repair and it affects the care and upbringing of the kids on a day to day basis then I think they should separate.
Anything that hampers the development and happiness of children to grow into secure adults shouldn't be allowed under the same roof.
But I also think if u can't resolve things with ur partner also that u should leave and try to find happiness somewhere else...life's to short to b unhappy....but I do feel if they do separate then both the mothr and father should take on equal raising of the kids...50/50 which isn't necessarily the case.
Hope this was intelligent enough of an answer for the Einsteins on here
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Lookin4missright: Are you and DeeDee planning on having any kids, she is still young enough to spit out 4-5 ?
Have to fly now ..........................................
Have to fly now ..........................................
How's about I chew u up and spit you out u little ..wat does tru call it ...a bar stud!!!!
How do u know me and lookn2share arnt already hooking up??
With one on the way
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mollybaby: I don't think there is any one easy answer to that.
It depends on each individual, each couple, and their unique circumstances.
Sometimes it may work out, and sometimes they just wait until the kids are through a particularlyvulnerable time in their lives.
As I say, it is a very individual choice to make.
It depends on each individual, each couple, and their unique circumstances.
Sometimes it may work out, and sometimes they just wait until the kids are through a particularlyvulnerable time in their lives.
As I say, it is a very individual choice to make.
mollybaby: Good point lady...
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Deedee123x: If the couple and relationship has dissolved beyond repair and it affects the care and upbringing of the kids on a day to day basis then I think they should separate.
Anything that hampers the development and happiness of children to grow into secure adults shouldn't be allowed under the same roof.
But I also think if u can't resolve things with ur partner also that u should leave and try to find happiness somewhere else...life's to short to b unhappy....but I do feel if they do separate then both the mothr and father should take on equal raising of the kids...50/50 which isn't necessarily the case.
Hope this was intelligent enough of an answer for the Einsteins on here
Anything that hampers the development and happiness of children to grow into secure adults shouldn't be allowed under the same roof.
But I also think if u can't resolve things with ur partner also that u should leave and try to find happiness somewhere else...life's to short to b unhappy....but I do feel if they do separate then both the mothr and father should take on equal raising of the kids...50/50 which isn't necessarily the case.
Hope this was intelligent enough of an answer for the Einsteins on here
Deedee123x: Well said!
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Lookin4missright: Are you and DeeDee planning on having any kids, she is still young enough to spit out 4-5 ?
Have to fly now ..........................................
Have to fly now ..........................................
Lookin4missright: I can't speak for DD...but I would love to at least try, and try, and try...I think you get my meaning Mr. Comedian. So I'm guessing Deedee isn't missright4u.
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Deedee123x: How's about I chew u up and spit you out u little ..wat does tru call it ...a bar stud!!!!
How do u know me and lookn2share arnt already hooking up??
With one on the way
How do u know me and lookn2share arnt already hooking up??
With one on the way
Just don't make me godfather, i've spent enough this week have to eat noodles for next 3 years
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lookn2share: Lookin4missright: I can't speak for DD...but I would love to at least try, and try, and try...I think you get my meaning Mr. Comedian. So I'm guessing Deedee isn't missright4u.
I'm old enough to be her pop Mr Lookn 
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Lookin4missright: Just don't make me godfather, i've spent enough this week have to eat noodles for next 3 years
I won't.
How r u fixed for God mother???
Jokes xx
Ur a good god daddy I'm sure
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lookn2share: I know women who stay with their cheating spouse because of the kids... I personally feel that's ignorant, and to some degree an excuse. Obviously opinions will be widespread and rightfully so. The kids will be affected either way. So NO...I feel it's wrong to stay in a unhealthy relationship for the kids. Fire away....
I wouldn't marry a women I didn't find desirable!
But if push comes to shove, I'd probably walk from the relationship before it got to that stage!
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Lookin4missright: I'm old enough to be her pop Mr Lookn
We have an expression here in Ireland...'the older the fiddle the sweeter the tune'.
Just think about it lookin!!
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Lookin4missright: I'm old enough to be her pop Mr Lookn
Lookin4missright: No way! Some women like experienced men. Age is just a number, many claim!
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lookn2share: Lookin4missright: No way! Some women like experienced men. Age is just a number, many claim!
I do love my men older I will admit.
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lookn2share: Lookin4missright: No way! Some women like experienced men. Age is just a number, many claim!
Usually the only people who say that are young fellas looking to experience an older woman, or an older man looking for a much younger woman
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A quote from Dr Phil.That children would rather come from a broken home then live in one.
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lookn2share: I know women who stay with their cheating spouse because of the kids... I personally feel that's ignorant, and to some degree an excuse. Obviously opinions will be widespread and rightfully so. The kids will be affected either way. So NO...I feel it's wrong to stay in a unhealthy relationship for the kids. Fire away....
Actually it is against socio norms and usually its end with tragic case and disaster for some immature young couples. I have seen many bad examples in here. Esp i live in the country with the culture of close family system
and that kind of relationship is not common in here
Now days our modern societys mostly in metro city are bias to accept deviation of social behavior, and
there is definitely a major influence in the growth of the child's psycologycal
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An excuse for what? The grit and determination to make a better life for your kids? I don't think so.
Ending the relationship and sitting amongst turd all alone. Joining CS is what you need the excuse for.
Ending the relationship and sitting amongst turd all alone. Joining CS is what you need the excuse for.
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ChesneyChrist: An excuse for what? The grit and determination to make a better life for your kids? I don't think so.
Ending the relationship and sitting amongst turd all alone. Joining CS is what you need the excuse for.
Ending the relationship and sitting amongst turd all alone. Joining CS is what you need the excuse for.
I say shaming the honourable thing encapsulates everything wrong with modern generations. The strength lies in walking away from something you desire or commiting to something through thick and thin, abandoning your responsiblities is the one you need an excuse for.
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