Todays dating (26)

Nov 9, 2017 6:18 AM CST Todays dating
Yappa
YappaYappaDeniliquin, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 49 Posts
I find todays dating really sucks. I have heard stories of what it's like for the guys and at times it sounds scary. I myself find it quite confusing. I find most (not all) guys want a good girl who is naughty from the start but if a girl is naughty from the start then they aren't given a chance because they are easy. It is a no win no matter what you choose to do. I feel for those chicks as they are doing exactly what the guys (most of them) want. I on the other hand don't even get a look in because I won't just give it up. What happened to the old fashioned way of getting to know someone and seeing if you're compatible? (whether having sex or not. You shouldn't be judged on whether you give it up or not but more how well you get on.I don't know. Maybe I just don't get it!!! dunno What do you think???
Nov 9, 2017 6:38 AM CST Todays dating
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia64 Threads 11 Polls 6,818 Posts
Well If you're not going to give it up, you should have just said so, and not bothered writing any more after that.teddybear
Nov 9, 2017 6:43 AM CST Todays dating
Yappa
YappaYappaDeniliquin, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 49 Posts
pat8lanips: Well If you're not going to give it up, you should have just said so, and not bothered writing any more after that.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 9, 2017 7:04 AM CST Todays dating
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia64 Threads 11 Polls 6,818 Posts
I can tell by your smile anyway, its not true. One smile and a few winks, you'd be like - come over here studmuffin... And then it'd be on.
Nov 9, 2017 7:17 AM CST Todays dating
Yappa
YappaYappaDeniliquin, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 49 Posts
pat8lanips: I can tell by your smile anyway, its not true. One smile and a few winks, you'd be like - come over here studmuffin... And then it'd be on.


That just shows how badly you read women. doh rolling on the floor laughing I forgive you!!! You will see if we ever hit the town. Those that know me on here (from the old days), know me well...cheers
You are in for a rude awakening young man!!! yay yay yay
Nov 9, 2017 7:28 AM CST Todays dating
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia64 Threads 11 Polls 6,818 Posts
At the Deni ute muster maybe, after a few bundy and cokes.
Nov 9, 2017 8:48 AM CST Todays dating
Yappa: I find todays dating really sucks. I have heard stories of what it's like for the guys and at times it sounds scary. I myself find it quite confusing. I find most (not all) guys want a good girl who is naughty from the start but if a girl is naughty from the start then they aren't given a chance because they are easy. It is a no win no matter what you choose to do. I feel for those chicks as they are doing exactly what the guys (most of them) want. I on the other hand don't even get a look in because I won't just give it up. What happened to the old fashioned way of getting to know someone and seeing if you're compatible? (whether having sex or not. You shouldn't be judged on whether you give it up or not but more how well you get on.I don't know. Maybe I just don't get it!!! What do you think???


If a fella is going to be judgmental about you like that, you are better off without him anyway
Nov 9, 2017 2:08 PM CST Todays dating
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia64 Threads 11 Polls 6,818 Posts
I'm surprised the mods havent deleted this thread, since you've already admitted you're not going to give it up.teddybear
Nov 10, 2017 8:19 PM CST Todays dating
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada32 Threads 2,912 Posts
pat8lanips: I'm surprised the mods havent deleted this thread, since you've already admitted you're not going to give it up.


laugh
Nov 11, 2017 5:35 AM CST Todays dating
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia25 Threads 1,160 Posts
Yappa: I find todays dating really sucks. I have heard stories of what it's like for the guys and at times it sounds scary. I myself find it quite confusing. I find most (not all) guys want a good girl who is naughty from the start but if a girl is naughty from the start then they aren't given a chance because they are easy. It is a no win no matter what you choose to do. I feel for those chicks as they are doing exactly what the guys (most of them) want. I on the other hand don't even get a look in because I won't just give it up. What happened to the old fashioned way of getting to know someone and seeing if you're compatible? (whether having sex or not. You shouldn't be judged on whether you give it up or not but more how well you get on.I don't know. Maybe I just don't get it!!! What do you think???


We live is a fast food, throw away society. TV shows and movies depict people jumping in and out of bed at the drop of a hat. This steady mind diet leads people to think that what they see in movies and on TV shows is the acceptable way of relationships. And why do TV shows and movies depict this all the time? Because sex sells. Getting to know someone is like saving up to buy a car or a house. People just don't do it any more. Add to this how easy it is to get divorced these days (relationships are throw away, just like TVs, mobile phones, and clothes) and many people do throw away their relationships.

Then there is also the fantasy expectations that many have. A person must conform to their unrealistic expectations or they just don't make the cut. They might be the most perfect person for someone, but that doesn't matter. This happened to me in western culture all too often. Looks count for more than anything else.

So I went where there are different expectations, different views on relationships. Western men take advantage of many Asian cultures for cheap sex. But relationships in Asia are not taken lightly. Anna and I have now been together for 5 years and our marriage is stronger than ever.

Sometimes we all need to look in the mirror and decide what is important to us, and then decide to go where our values get reflected back in others. Then and only then do the chances of finding a compatible partner increase to the point that maybe, just maybe we find a keeper.....
Nov 12, 2017 6:19 AM CST Todays dating
Yappa
YappaYappaDeniliquin, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 49 Posts
pat8lanips: At the Deni ute muster maybe, after a few bundy and cokes.

You are losing badly. I don't drink Bundy and never been to the ute muster. ?? I'm more like a hopeless romantic. heart wings
Nov 12, 2017 6:20 AM CST Todays dating
Yappa
YappaYappaDeniliquin, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 49 Posts
mollybaby: If a fella is going to be judgmental about you like that, you are better off without him anyway

Oh shit yeah. Those types of guys don't even get a look in. cheers
Nov 12, 2017 6:21 AM CST Todays dating
Yappa
YappaYappaDeniliquin, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 49 Posts
pat8lanips: I'm surprised the mods havent deleted this thread, since you've already admitted you're not going to give it up.

??????rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 12, 2017 3:45 PM CST Todays dating
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia64 Threads 11 Polls 6,818 Posts
Yappa: You are losing badly. I don't drink Bundy and never been to the ute muster. ?? I'm more like a hopeless romantic.


Ah, then you must drink VB... Blokesworld did a special on the Deni uts muster.
Nov 13, 2017 4:50 AM CST Todays dating
Yappa
YappaYappaDeniliquin, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 49 Posts
pat8lanips: Ah, then you must drink VB... Blokesworld did a special on the Deni uts muster.
My drink of choice changes depending where I am and what I'm doing. Still haven't been to the muster!!! doh banana
Nov 13, 2017 6:50 AM CST Todays dating
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia64 Threads 11 Polls 6,818 Posts
I'm sure the blokesworld Deni special will be available on DVD.
Nov 14, 2017 1:20 AM CST Todays dating
Yappa
YappaYappaDeniliquin, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 49 Posts
pat8lanips: I'm sure the blokesworld Deni special will be available on DVD.

Then I better watch it so I know what I'm in for when I go.
Nov 19, 2017 3:33 PM CST Todays dating
that's nice
Apr 22, 2018 10:14 AM CST Todays dating
SweetnFunnyChic
SweetnFunnyChicSweetnFunnyChicSharjah, United Arab Emirates10 Threads 5 Polls 516 Posts
Yappa: I find todays dating really sucks. I have heard stories of what it's like for the guys and at times it sounds scary. I myself find it quite confusing. I find most (not all) guys want a good girl who is naughty from the start but if a girl is naughty from the start then they aren't given a chance because they are easy. It is a no win no matter what you choose to do. I feel for those chicks as they are doing exactly what the guys (most of them) want. I on the other hand don't even get a look in because I won't just give it up. What happened to the old fashioned way of getting to know someone and seeing if you're compatible? (whether having sex or not. You shouldn't be judged on whether you give it up or not but more how well you get on.I don't know. Maybe I just don't get it!!! What do you think???
Yes dating does suck. I think us ladies should continue sticking to our standards and I totally get it when you talk about women being judged by men for having sex soon (never mind that those same men have an extensive track record of the same) I guess it just depends on what both people are looking for, they have to be on the same page, and if you're looking to get to know a guy and all he's interested in is getting laid, its a total waste of your time. You will meet the right guy who is willing to wait, there are a few good men left. (somewhere)
Apr 22, 2018 5:07 PM CST Todays dating
Halv0: We live is a fast food, throw away society. TV shows and movies depict people jumping in and out of bed at the drop of a hat. This steady mind diet leads people to think that what they see in movies and on TV shows is the acceptable way of relationships. And why do TV shows and movies depict this all the time? Because sex sells. Getting to know someone is like saving up to buy a car or a house. People just don't do it any more. Add to this how easy it is to get divorced these days (relationships are throw away, just like TVs, mobile phones, and clothes) and many people do throw away their relationships.

Then there is also the fantasy expectations that many have. A person must conform to their unrealistic expectations or they just don't make the cut. They might be the most perfect person for someone, but that doesn't matter. This happened to me in western culture all too often. Looks count for more than anything else.

So I went where there are different expectations, different views on relationships. Western men take advantage of many Asian cultures for cheap sex. But relationships in Asia are not taken lightly. Anna and I have now been together for 5 years and our marriage is stronger than ever.

Sometimes we all need to look in the mirror and decide what is important to us, and then decide to go where our values get reflected back in others. Then and only then do the chances of finding a compatible partner increase to the point that maybe, just maybe we find a keeper.....
Very well said. But I'm afraid your wisdom will be lost on most people. professor
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