Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
mykingdomforanam: Transference:
That's when a woman complains about old men being the only guys who are interested in her, then begins calling younger men who wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole, 25 years older than they are.
It's not Christmas yet, the dreams only come true maybe then.
I find men of 57 scared that they r going down the tubes.
They have to buy the younger ones with flowers chocolates suppers and plentiful outing. When it's exhausted they just drop them without a further thought, but ur welcome ?
It seems lots of people on dating sites are generally looking for someone 10 years younger, which in reality makes it difficult! However us older blokes are very fussy, so take it as a compliment, you're a good looking lady!
Every time I check my mailbox, there are hundreds of messages from older men. When I go to the shops, older men wink at me and hold the door open for me.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Dragos1: I only asked my question to get some perspective on what was classified as "old" in your world. I know everyone has their own ideas. I always think of myself much younger than my actual age. But even at 56 I do not consider it "old" for myself.. I plan on being around for another 50 or close to it at least. Just don't worry about the proposals, I get them all the time and they are never "real" or even close to believable. ;-}
In My world we also see and read and hear to decide.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
platosha: Snook, I don't think you look older, neither it's about the prize.. it's absolutely normal for men to go for a younger women.. it's all about the energy.. younger energy will boost.. for same reasons many women want to go for younger men so they will feel younger themselves.. but it's not about the age.. age is just a number..
But ironically after 3 years here on cs I am mostly approached by younger guys, who are in their late 20s or 30s.. I guess it's just smth that one can't explain really
Then don't u find it strange that my Turkish Cs boyfriend was younger than me in age. Now considering that most men judge my age as upper thirties, why am I only attracting the older men now ?
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Dragos1: If you don't feel comfortable telling what "old" means to you that is your decision..... but I thought it was what the thread you created was about... I tried......
I see things a lot different than most other people.
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I commented on another person's post.
Then she began personal attacks on me.
So...
I answered her questions honestly.