Yeah I've done that a few times. Not with girlfriends though, as it only works with very small breasted women. One was my hairdresser at the time, and the other was a motel receptionist in Melbourne. I'm pretty sure cocaine had a lot to do with it, but it could have been ecky.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pat8lanips: Yeah I've done that a few times. Not with girlfriends though, as it only works with very small breasted women. One was my hairdresser at the time, and the other was a motel receptionist in Melbourne. I'm pretty sure cocaine had a lot to do with it, but it could have been ecky.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Deedee123x: Everyone likes to break from reality at times. Be it by coming on here....reading a book. Watching their favourite show.
I don't see how that relates to them being either open or close minded. It's sometimes necessary to take a break from reality to unwind ur mind after a stressful day..time or event.
Some have to take longer than others depending on their capabilites to cope with stress.
But I think being open minded is completely different to this...maybe I'm wrong on this but that's jmo
I do agree with u that people need to escape from Reality,
The problem is, that the Make Belief world they create, does not just stay active during the Fake Reality, but also carries on outside of it.
- Thus u r never urself anymore, but the figure in ur mind, as u think that since it is more acceptable in the Fake Reality, it will also be so in the Real World !!!
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Deedee123x: I get what ur saying actually. Maybe it goes a little deeper than just needing a break to unwind then.
Maybe they have suffered some trauma that has made them need to create a whole other world for themselves and that's how they have learned to cope with and live with what's happened to them. It's not right or wrong it's just a little sad that some people carry that way of life around without getting the necessary help.
Then on the other hand if they are comfortable living their new reality and they arnt upsetting or hurting anyone then I'm no one to judge how they live their life.
Are any of us that evolved that there's isn't some little fraction of ourselves thats put on in order to cope with a certain situation??
I also get what ur saying:- I know people like that, and I don't deny them their dream, that they're living in.
With me:- Lots of people that know me, say I stay the same under any circumstances, in any situation. I'm just more relaxed at home !
I don't expect other's to be like me, as everyone r different from each other. Not even identical twins, r the same Mentally or Emotionally !
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Deedee123x: Well ur obvs very mentally n emotionally strong then.
But even life changes people..I'm n certain ways not the same person I was a year ago. Everyday sees people meeting new challenges and sometime things have an impact that can change our personalities just the tiniest of ways...that over time we maybe completely different to how we were ten years ago Just called growing up.
What I see in front of me and how a person treats me is how I will either take them or not. I don't have the patience to dissect everyone's personality really so I take as I find.
Treat me well Ull get the same. Treat me bad n I've already forgotten u.
MikeD12: I made a humorous statement just as you frequently do and You frequently make very risqué comments on your own threads so get off your high horse
I'm not on one. Just asked do u think of anything else??
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Don't u find that not the case ?
Most of the most vocal people on a website like this, r the most timid in real life ?
They r hiding from reality here ?