If you NEVER "trust", HOW can you ever "Love"? If you say you have an emotional attachment to someone, but you DON"T "trust" them, it's NOT "love"! At least, it's NOT what "I" think of/want what "I" think "LOVE"! Sounds like a pretty sad life, to me. I'll deal with the "downs", as long as I get some "UPS" to balance them out! But I'd HATE living a life where everything was the same, all the time! And never "trusting" anyone seems (to ME) to be a B-I-G step in THAT direction!
Deedee123x: Finally...thanks oggodeo...that's exactly what I mean. U and a few others here who actually like to put thought into what they respond instead of acting the fool.. and looking for the laugh off their "so called friends" god forgive me but "f*ck eejits" more like.
Yes I do find overly happy people irritating because it's not realistic to exude a full blown emotion of any kind. Probably says more abt me that I prefer to be around more grummy plp than happy haha
But happy and grumpy are opposite ends of the spectrum of what people consider to be socially acceptable Whether plp.agree or not...plp expect the happy version of people and avoid the grumpy...but I'm more comfortable with people who dont really feel it necessary to fit in with what people expect of them rather what and how they feel naturally themselves.
Hope that made sense.
Thoughtful comment, Double D! I LIKE happy people! But I will admit that, sometimes (mainly when I'm depressed/dejected/or otherwise off my feed), they can irritate me. I think it probably has something to do with a certain "jealousy". Them being happy, and me NOT WANTING to be! "Happy" to wallow in MY misery! But, of the two, I'd rather have happy people around me, than UNhappy people.
But I agree that, of ALL people, I prefer those people who are just "people"! Who AREN'T trying to BE anything but what they are! Happy, sad, bored, whatever!
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And THIS applies to you, TOO, Serene!
If you NEVER "trust", HOW can you ever "Love"? If you say you have an emotional attachment to someone, but you DON"T "trust" them, it's NOT "love"! At least, it's NOT what "I" think of/want what "I" think "LOVE"! Sounds like a pretty sad life, to me. I'll deal with the "downs", as long as I get some "UPS" to balance them out! But I'd HATE living a life where everything was the same, all the time! And never "trusting" anyone seems (to ME) to be a B-I-G step in THAT direction!