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Nov 22, 2017 9:26 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal.......dunno dunno confused ..............HI all.
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Nov 22, 2017 9:58 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
Mickmjb
MickmjbMickmjbMansfield, Nottinghamshire, England UK2 Threads 245 Posts
A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the

Yep, I know the feeling. The more willing you are tends to attract those who take! Those who breeze through life usually don't give a jot about anyone else!
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Nov 22, 2017 10:14 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.


I know the feeling all too well.

Maybe that is why I am still single ?
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Nov 22, 2017 12:00 PM CST who can answer this.....??????
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.


What's happened to my precious Pete? comfort sigh Yep, happens to everyone....been there myself many times so I know how you feel. hug Always, always do the right thing and to hell with those who don't appreciate it and will walk all over you if you let them. teddybear
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Nov 22, 2017 2:57 PM CST who can answer this.....??????
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.


truheart1941: I can tell you life isn't no where near fair...In fact I'm pretty sure fair wasn't meant to be part of life!

peace frustrated handshake
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Nov 22, 2017 3:32 PM CST who can answer this.....??????
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.


Chin up, old chap!
handshake wave
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Nov 22, 2017 3:34 PM CST who can answer this.....??????
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.


Hi tru been down that road many a time but I don't allow it to get me down regardless.

What is the saying about 'No good deed goes unpunished.
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Nov 22, 2017 4:09 PM CST who can answer this.....??????
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.


"no good deed goes unpunished"

I can relate to that, still i will keep doing the right thing.



cool
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Nov 22, 2017 4:18 PM CST who can answer this.....??????
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.


hi Tru, hope you are doing okay hug


Life isn't fair, never was, never will be. It was never supposed to be.

So we can only do what we can, and what sits well with ourselves.

We can't control other people's actions, only our own hug
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Nov 23, 2017 12:36 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
platosha
platoshaplatoshaSiem Reap, Cambodia2 Threads 111 Posts
If u want to give- give without any expectations... Then you will not "feel" any bites as they exist only in your head. wave
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Nov 23, 2017 1:43 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.


Yeah, not sure which experience you had but likely several. I think there will be some that will relate because they have been in the same position. "Some", are knowledgeable but only because they not only do the biting but are very much aware of it.
Have you ever walked down the sidewalk when it is pretty busy? You notice how some people seem to walk unencumbered and even in crowded situation seem to just walk through with no resistance? OK , then of course there are some that no matter what they seem to have someone bump into them with a shoulder or even sometimes a full body block. So because at that time I was interested in this I chose to try something out. I chose to walk up the sidewalk while it was busy but I would be very busy looking at my phone (which of course today is very common anyway),, I did this to see if people might be courteous and move out of the way as I also did not just take up much room and stayed to one side. Well, it did not matter. in fact people seemed to be even more aggressive. But what makes this experience kind of interesting was at the end after I walked a few blocks and turned to go back to the salon, kind of thinking about how things went. A man turned to me with a bit of a smile and full eye contact and said to me "So did it turn out how you expected?" I was admittedly a bit taken off guard but just looked back in a false surprise and continued walking back. It was as if he knew exactly what was going on in my mind though I do not think it is the case, it did in fact surprise me. That was in the early 90's.

uh oh

laugh
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Nov 23, 2017 2:30 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,955 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.



I'm not sure anyone breezes through life, there's a price to pay and consequences to face up to, even for those who appear to conversing


In helping others, our reward is that we did, regardless of the outcome which may not always be what we expected


Your heart is in the right place and that's all that matters hug
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Nov 23, 2017 2:36 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
Redex
RedexRedexNorthumberland, England UK36 Threads 1,304 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.


When you get to know someone and they open up to you all without exception have not walked the walk without a fall or two, so you are in with a world of people with that one true grin
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Nov 23, 2017 3:42 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.


Hi
It depends on the rules you set yourself for your journey.

When packing a venture you think of all you need.
We all at times struggle with changing circumstances, who packs for that conundrum?
But hence we try to forge on.

We pass people, making it as such, we pass the lost.

What is good for me is to understand what it is.
Learn to swerve.

Keep being humble.
Keep the faith
Be kind

Good on the ones that breeze, as you say.
No harm in that.

Judge your own path.

Be cool. Be strong. Love and be humble.
Good things happen

but hey just my opinion

Soph :)

Miracles happen all the time!
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Nov 23, 2017 4:48 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.


Hope all is well Pete.
handshake comfort

You are a gem Pete...and don't let the nasties get u down.
I agree with all here who say to do good for goods sake and don't expect anything in return.

I believe in Karma and whathe goes around comes around....not that I wait for it!!

Don't let anyone deter u from being the good man I'm sure u are.

Chin up n keep happy thoughts
applause cheering
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Nov 23, 2017 4:55 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
U r the nicest on Cs and deserves good luck.

I tried to pm u.

I will change my settings.
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Nov 23, 2017 5:38 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.



I think, maybe my friend, you would find your walk in life far different and for the better if you would take up a ministry on Mount Herman in the Gardens of Wadi-Al-Taym. Be the Evangelist you’ve always wanted to be, Tru. Bless you and keep straight.


teddybear
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Nov 23, 2017 5:54 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
galrads: I think, maybe my friend, you would find your walk in life far different and for the better if you would take up a ministry on Mount Herman in the Gardens of Wadi-Al-Taym. Be the Evangelist you’ve always wanted to be, Tru. Bless you and keep straight.


Gather the good of people and progress humble, all is well.
Spread the word.

Do not judge others, and you will not be judged.


Follow a good path


Soph
Bless
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Nov 23, 2017 6:04 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.
I remember being told at a young age "Life is not fair" and then they looked at me and said I could be grateful for that. I always try to do the right thing. Sometimes it works out good and other times not so good. I call it learning lessons for the next part of my journey in life. wine Sorry this has gotten to you and don't take life or people to seriously. We none are getting out a live teddybear
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Nov 23, 2017 6:09 AM CST who can answer this.....??????
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
truheart1941: A serious question..........have you found..??? no matter how hard you try......to follow the rules of life......by doing the right thing. to others.......and yourself........you end up , by being bitten in the butt......why..????........have you found this.......?.....I see other people who brezze though life without a stuggle......whos only thought is......whats good for me./.......I do something....good....and end up ,getting a smack in the mouth, so to speak.......I just dont understand it..........or is this the normal....... ..............HI all.


I read somewhere that 1942 was the perfect year to be born to get more than you'll ever give. Over the course of a lifetime no one else would have to do so little to get so much(on average).
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