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Nov 25, 2017 5:25 AM CST Knowing what you want
Juliusglenn001
Juliusglenn001Juliusglenn001Liverpool, Merseyside, England UK2 Threads 2 Posts
It is very important to know what you want in a woman, which is the mental and the physical part of her , virtually all men see the the physical beauty of a woman but if you must really know a good woman you must have to know her mentally and that includes her spiritual and emotional presence, then you and her will always be happy and have good understanding together .heart wings
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Nov 25, 2017 5:39 AM CST Knowing what you want
Almaty25
Almaty25Almaty25Almaty, Kazakhstan2 Threads 113 Posts
Juliusglenn001: It is very important to know what you want in a woman, which is the mental and the physical part of her , virtually all men see the the physical beauty of a woman but if you must really know a good woman you must have to know her mentally and that includes her spiritual and emotional presence, then you and her will always be happy and have good understanding together .

oh yeah... but number of divorced couples do not confirm that ....
guess something is changed in inner world of people....
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Nov 25, 2017 5:59 AM CST Knowing what you want
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
Almaty25: oh yeah... but number of divorced couples do not confirm that ....
guess something is changed in inner world of people....


Probably they married without getting to know one another in the spiritual, emotional and more intellectual ways.
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Nov 25, 2017 6:09 AM CST Knowing what you want
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Dragos1: Probably they married without getting to know one another in the spiritual, emotional and more intellectual ways.


Or they become accustomed to today's fast-food culture of instant gratification.
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Nov 25, 2017 6:15 AM CST Knowing what you want
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
ChesneyChrist: Or they become accustomed to today's fast-food culture of instant gratification.


Like maybe they knew each other really well and then got lost in the current trends. It could be I suppose, but I think a lot of people don't get to know each other as much as they think.
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Nov 25, 2017 6:55 AM CST Knowing what you want
Almaty25
Almaty25Almaty25Almaty, Kazakhstan2 Threads 113 Posts
Dragos1: Probably they married without getting to know one another in the spiritual, emotional and more intellectual ways.

But nobody can let people to get mariied without knowing each other... why is so many divorces?
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Nov 25, 2017 7:15 AM CST Knowing what you want
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Juliusglenn001: It is very important to know what you want in a woman, which is the mental and the physical part of her , virtually all men see the the physical beauty of a woman but if you must really know a good woman you must have to know her mentally and that includes her spiritual and emotional presence, then you and her will always be happy and have good understanding together .

oh good you just killed the joy and mystery of life grin
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Nov 25, 2017 7:15 AM CST Knowing what you want
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
Almaty25: But nobody can let people to get mariied without knowing each other... why is so many divorces?


Well, I can only speak for what I have seen and those couples don't usually ask for permission and hardly would listen to advice of others. But as to why so many I would say this exact reason is likely one of them, also lack of communication and the absence of trust. Or even worse is when one of the couple is deceiving the other from the very beginning. When that is the case it can go beyond devastation and even yesterday I met a young man that just lost his father to cancer and also found out his wife was one of these that deceived him from the beginning (and now long gone). He is not well. My nephew had brought him to dinner because being worried his friend may be suicidal. Of course this can happen to either of a couple, deception is not known to one gender exclusively.

blues
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Nov 25, 2017 7:22 AM CST Knowing what you want
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Juliusglenn001: It is very important to know what you want in a woman, which is the mental and the physical part of her , virtually all men see the the physical beauty of a woman but if you must really know a good woman you must have to know her mentally and that includes her spiritual and emotional presence, then you and her will always be happy and have good understanding together .


How do you asses the spiritual and emotional presence of a person?


coffee
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Nov 25, 2017 7:23 AM CST Knowing what you want
Almaty25
Almaty25Almaty25Almaty, Kazakhstan2 Threads 113 Posts
Dragos1: Well, I can only speak for what I have seen and those couples don't usually ask for permission and hardly would listen to advice of others. But as to why so many I would say this exact reason is likely one of them, also lack of communication and the absence of trust. Or even worse is when one of the couple is deceiving the other from the very beginning. When that is the case it can go beyond devastation and even yesterday I met a young man that just lost his father to cancer and also found out his wife was one of these that deceived him from the beginning (and now long gone). He is not well. My nephew had brought him to dinner because being worried his friend may be suicidal. Of course this can happen to either of a couple, deception is not known to one gender exclusively.

In such a cases the belief that somebody could live and trust dissapeares very quickly
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Nov 25, 2017 7:25 AM CST Knowing what you want
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
KremaP: That sounds like a friend of mine, his wife would sleep with anybody else but him...not to mention she doesn't cook, clean and so on...
He'd still do whatever she tells him tho... I just can't get it...

oh what a awful woman...can i get her viber number?hole
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Nov 25, 2017 11:54 AM CST Knowing what you want
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
Dragos1: Probably they married without getting to know one another in the spiritual, emotional and more intellectual ways.


i Dragos wave


i think folks are constantly changing, ever expanding...

with that in mind, i think it's quite possible to marry someone, with knowledge of each other in the spiritual, emotional and intellectual ways...but that doesn't account for change. sometimes, when one partner changes or expands...the relationship is no longer satisfactory, let alone happy, for self or the other.

i guess what i'm trying to say is... enjoy the time together in honesty and transparency, knowing that things may change. i also believe happiness creates more happiness. practice acceptance, and follow happy.

i've been on both sides of this coin....
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Nov 25, 2017 11:55 AM CST Knowing what you want
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
Juliusglenn001: It is very important to know what you want in a woman, which is the mental and the physical part of her , virtually all men see the the physical beauty of a woman but if you must really know a good woman you must have to know her mentally and that includes her spiritual and emotional presence, then you and her will always be happy and have good understanding together .


perhaps knowing oneself is important here as well.
knowing what you have to give.

wine
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Nov 25, 2017 11:44 PM CST Knowing what you want
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,954 Posts
KremaP: That sounds like a friend of mine, his wife would sleep with anybody else but him...not to mention she doesn't cook, clean and so on...
He'd still do whatever she tells him tho... I just can't get it...



Maybe he's lacking in self-esteem and needy, so he engaged with this woman because no one else was interested in him confused
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Nov 26, 2017 3:06 AM CST Knowing what you want
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
serene56: Maybe he's lacking in self-esteem and needy, so he engaged with this woman because no one else was interested in him


Now who does that remind me of ?
A certain old man from England & an Croatian immigrant woman from Australia perhaps?confused laugh
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