Do you hold grudges ? ( Archived) (19)

Nov 27, 2017 10:45 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
Do you hold grudges ? A lot of people do....wave
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Nov 27, 2017 10:47 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
pedro27: Do you hold grudges ? A lot of people do....



No , never,,,, "Let it go ,"Let it go !!thumbs up peace
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Nov 27, 2017 10:50 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
pedro27: Do you hold grudges ? A lot of people do....


hmmm I’ve never talked to some people after they dissed me bad. No use for them. Don’t think of them again ever though so I can’t be holding a grudge. Maybe maybe not.
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Nov 27, 2017 10:51 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Not that some are people who are deserving of my anger towards them but I don't see why I should waste good time and energy on them.
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Nov 27, 2017 10:54 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
pedro27: Do you hold grudges ? A lot of people do....


Yes I do.
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Nov 27, 2017 10:55 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
annaroach: No , never,,,, "Let it go ,"Let it go !!


karma has a unique way of solving this.........IMO
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Nov 27, 2017 10:58 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
galrads: I’ve never talked to some people after they dissed me bad. No use for them. Don’t think of them again ever though so I can’t be holding a grudge. Maybe maybe not.




sometime karma is you solving it IMO...........in my teens a chap humiliated me I still haven't let it go
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Nov 27, 2017 11:01 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
Ccincy: Not that some are people who are deserving of my anger towards them but I don't see why I should waste good time and energy on them.



maybe a lesson can be learnt in it on both sides of the grudge ??????????
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Nov 27, 2017 11:07 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
pedro27: maybe a lesson can be learnt in it on both sides of the grudge ??????????




Don't know about the lesson on both sides would teach but Karma will eventually come around to those who do wrong to other people.Karma seems to work in mysterious ways sooner if not later.For some it arrives sooner.
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Nov 27, 2017 11:17 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
Ccincy: Don't know about the lesson on both sides would teach but Karma will eventually come around to those who do wrong to other people.Karma seems to work in mysterious ways sooner if not later.For some it arrives sooner.



agreed !!

it boils down to good Vs evil in what we do and choose always
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Nov 27, 2017 11:24 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
pedro27: agreed !!

it boils down to good Vs evil in what we do and choose always



Yup it's all about the choices one chooses to make.
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Nov 27, 2017 11:33 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
Ccincy: Yup it's all about the choices one chooses to make.



agreedthumbs up


it's complex but also simply..............cheers
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Nov 27, 2017 11:33 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
No, that's a poison that eats you from inside...
Don't know about karma but nobody and nothing can do to you what you can do you yourself...therefore you have a choice...
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Nov 27, 2017 11:42 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
KremaP: No, that's a poison that eats you from inside...
Don't know about karma but nobody and nothing can do to you what you can do you yourself...therefore you have a choice...




I have only ONE grudge in my teens to happen.......one straight punch in the jaw should do it............
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Nov 27, 2017 11:58 AM CST Do you hold grudges ?
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
No - i just ignore and would not piss on them if I saw them on fire
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Nov 27, 2017 2:23 PM CST Do you hold grudges ?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
KremaP: No, that's a poison that eats you from inside...
Don't know about karma but nobody and nothing can do to you what you can do you yourself...therefore you have a choice...



Yup, there's always a choice eh !

But some people don't seem to grasp the notions of choice, free will, personal responsibility and etc. For those people life is often a violent storm that's blamed on 'outside events and people'.

'Understanding Karma' set us free to enjoy life without fretting about getting even or revenge ...

The System takes care of attending to that ...

cheers
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Nov 27, 2017 2:26 PM CST Do you hold grudges ?
Tanqueray
TanquerayTanquerayLondon, Greater London, England UK185 Posts
.No.
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Nov 27, 2017 2:37 PM CST Do you hold grudges ?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
pedro27: Do you hold grudges ? A lot of people do....


Grudges are baggage best left at the door but not necessarily forgotten about but there are some situations that are extremely difficult to set aside. For the most part, I'm forgiving unless the person continues to be an arsewipe at which point they are discarded as such. grin
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Nov 27, 2017 2:46 PM CST Do you hold grudges ?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
i don't usually.

but i can if ya want me to......laugh
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