pedro27: Do you hold grudges ? A lot of people do....
I’ve never talked to some people after they dissed me bad. No use for them. Don’t think of them again ever though so I can’t be holding a grudge. Maybe maybe not.
galrads: I’ve never talked to some people after they dissed me bad. No use for them. Don’t think of them again ever though so I can’t be holding a grudge. Maybe maybe not.
sometime karma is you solving it IMO...........in my teens a chap humiliated me I still haven't let it go
pedro27: maybe a lesson can be learnt in it on both sides of the grudge ??????????
Don't know about the lesson on both sides would teach but Karma will eventually come around to those who do wrong to other people.Karma seems to work in mysterious ways sooner if not later.For some it arrives sooner.
Ccincy: Don't know about the lesson on both sides would teach but Karma will eventually come around to those who do wrong to other people.Karma seems to work in mysterious ways sooner if not later.For some it arrives sooner.
agreed !!
it boils down to good Vs evil in what we do and choose always
No, that's a poison that eats you from inside... Don't know about karma but nobody and nothing can do to you what you can do you yourself...therefore you have a choice...
KremaP: No, that's a poison that eats you from inside... Don't know about karma but nobody and nothing can do to you what you can do you yourself...therefore you have a choice...
I have only ONE grudge in my teens to happen.......one straight punch in the jaw should do it............
KremaP: No, that's a poison that eats you from inside... Don't know about karma but nobody and nothing can do to you what you can do you yourself...therefore you have a choice...
Yup, there's always a choice eh !
But some people don't seem to grasp the notions of choice, free will, personal responsibility and etc. For those people life is often a violent storm that's blamed on 'outside events and people'.
'Understanding Karma' set us free to enjoy life without fretting about getting even or revenge ...
pedro27: Do you hold grudges ? A lot of people do....
Grudges are baggage best left at the door but not necessarily forgotten about but there are some situations that are extremely difficult to set aside. For the most part, I'm forgiving unless the person continues to be an arsewipe at which point they are discarded as such.
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