Deedee123x: I also get the feeling u don't like me. U put effort into undermining alot of what I say But that is also fine.
What I don't get is how just because certain members are here longer than me they get a free pass. They obviously have their loyal fans who won't dare go against them.
It's funny how easy plp sit back n let two men bully one woman...but that's ok. It's the nature of the forums..and friends will always back friends even if they r doing wrong.
You still don't understand Dee... It's not about who has been on here longer... I've been bullied too by men and women, one is still on here but we ignore each other...nothing to lose my sleep over... It's up to you what you will make out of it...could have turned it into a friendly banter instead of an epic battle... I don't put any effort into undermining you or anybody else, people do it themselves... I think you are better than you choose to show...
Deedee123x: I also get the feeling u don't like me. U put effort into undermining alot of what I say But that is also fine.
What I don't get is how just because certain members are here longer than me they get a free pass. They obviously have their loyal fans who won't dare go against them.
It's funny how easy plp sit back n let two men bully one woman...but that's ok. It's the nature of the forums..and friends will always back friends even if they r doing wrong.
or don't even know eachother in real life
Pardon ... carry on you spunks :bulgaria: chocolate
KremaP: You still don't understand Dee... It's not about who has been on here longer... I've been bullied too by men and women, one is still on here but we ignore each other...nothing to lose my sleep over... It's up to you what you will make out of it...could have turned it into a friendly banter instead of an epic battle... I don't put any effort into undermining you or anybody else, people do it themselves... I think you are better than you choose to show...
There's really no point in arguing my case..I've done it with everyone who sees me as the problem and not them. I understand perfectly fine KremaP....u may not have faith in my intelligence but I have in my own and it's plain to see how things roll around here.
But I'm not getting into a discussion on it anymore...it's pointless.
Deedee123x: There's really no point in arguing my case..I've done it with everyone who sees me as the problem and not them. I understand perfectly fine KremaP....u may not have faith in my intelligence but I have in my own and it's plain to see how things roll around here.
But I'm not getting into a discussion on it anymore...it's pointless.
Unfortunately you still choose to not see my point, there's noting insulting your intelligence in my words... You see white and black but there are many colours on here and bright as well... Anyway...I tried...
KremaP: Unfortunately you still choose to not see my point, there's noting insulting your intelligence in my words... You see white and black but there are many colours on here and bright as well... Anyway...I tried...
I understand u want me to be the better person and ignore them yes. I would just like to point out I've on more than one occasion extended the olive branch to have it thrown in my face.
But I get now that's not how trolls work.
Thanks for your concern (and I'm not being sarcastic).
KremaP: You still don't understand Dee... It's not about who has been on here longer... I've been bullied too by men and women, one is still on here but we ignore each other...nothing to lose my sleep over... It's up to you what you will make out of it...could have turned it into a friendly banter instead of an epic battle... I don't put any effort into undermining you or anybody else, people do it themselves... I think you are better than you choose to show...
There Re cases of serious bullying on cs, i have witnessed it and been subject to it, i often wonder what the bullies would do it they had to face you.
aries1234: There Re cases of serious bullying on cs, i have witnessed it and been subject to it, i often wonder what the bullies would do it they had to face you.
Deedee123x: I also get the feeling u don't like me. U put effort into undermining alot of what I say But that is also fine.
What I don't get is how just because certain members are here longer than me they get a free pass. They obviously have their loyal fans who won't dare go against them.
It's funny how easy plp sit back n let two men bully one woman...but that's ok. It's the nature of the forums..and friends will always back friends even if they r doing wrong.
Hiya Dee I've been on the forums for a number of years and have seen many fights during that time...yep, there were some real brutal ones "once upon a time" (sorry to those who despise hearing about the past ) There were a few men and women who would step in to defend one or the other in an attempt to stop the fighting but what ended up happening is the person defending would end up getting attacked too and then there was an all out war. The site mods banned a number of people over it and the rest is history. There are times when I read some of the stuff here and want so badly to call them out on their bullying but I do my best to hold back because I know I'll end up in a war of words that I'd prefer not to engage in and I have no doubt many others feel the same way I do about it. It's easy for us to tell you to ignore anyone who is upsetting you but I get it that there are situations where we have to stand up for ourselves sometimes.
KremaP: I'm not talking about old days, I'm speaking about balance and some common sense, how far is too far to go... There's nothing entertaining in forums full of personal fights... I don't do threads because I don't have the time to maintain them...
I agree, Krema.
I look in, see the same old arguing, then usually leave again.
Fighting is boring, especially when it is the same crap over and over.
Take it offline if needs be. Nobody wants to see it. That's not what the forums are for.
A bit of craic, intelligent conversation, flirting and banter is good.
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