What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't ( Archived) (32)

Dec 9, 2017 7:22 AM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Most people expect others to change per their requirements:-

I don't like ur pants, buy others
Ur hair is too short, I prefer long hair
Please be friendlier to my Mom
My friends expect u to be.....
Stop being so negative

U have experienced the rest, as well

If I ask anyone if they try to change others, the answer is always No !!!
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Dec 9, 2017 7:48 AM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
My opinion is:-

People r allowed to be themselves

No-one should try to change them, even slightly

Remember whatever u do to them, they r then allowed to do to u

(as in the one hand washes the other, which not necessarily make either cleaner)

Good Luck !
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Dec 9, 2017 7:52 AM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
KremaP: It's mostly a women thing...
They can't wait to get their hands on your wardrobe, hair, interior and group of friends...
Men usually say they want to be accepted for what they are ...but women never listen...she already plans your total make over...
Just to say "you're are not the man I fell in love with"... after the transformation is completed...


Most of my friends r men, and none of them have ever not wanted to change me, that's why they're friends only !
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Dec 9, 2017 7:55 AM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
diovaonline now!
diovaonline now!diovaMy Valley, Gauteng South Africa733 Posts
KremaP: It's mostly a women thing...
They can't wait to get their hands on your wardrobe, hair, interior and group of friends...
Men usually say they want to be accepted for what they are ...but women never listen...she already plans your total make over...
Just to say "you're are not the man I fell in love with"... after the transformation is completed...


True dat...
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Dec 9, 2017 8:01 AM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
KremaP: It's mostly a women thing...
They can't wait to get their hands on your wardrobe, hair, interior and group of friends...
Men usually say they want to be accepted for what they are ...but women never listen...she already plans your total make over...
Just to say "you're are not the man I fell in love with"... after the transformation is completed...


What I'm trying to say is:-

It is not just a female thing !

Men can sugarcoat much but not that much !
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Dec 9, 2017 12:47 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Quixotic2k17
Quixotic2k17Quixotic2k17Toronto, Ontario Canada4 Posts
I think people should have their own identity. Whether they are friends or in a relationship, those who have their own identity should be able to co-exist in each other's lives without having to change. Change is a part of growth and everyone should grow at their own pace and comfort without anyone's preference to influence them. No one should have to change because someone else says so and should respect people who they are.
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Dec 9, 2017 12:55 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Quixotic2k17: I think people should have their own identity. Whether they are friends or in a relationship, those who have their own identity should be able to co-exist in each other's lives without having to change. Change is a part of growth and everyone should grow at their own pace and comfort without anyone's preference to influence them. No one should have to change because someone else says so and should respect people who they are.


If I were to say that I'm the same person inside now than when little, would u have according to ur writeup have me rather changed thru the years to make the rest of humankind happy ?
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Dec 9, 2017 12:58 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Lookin4missright: I concur papa lookin had plans for me to study something and go to Oxford University in England and be successful at something being a proud Polish man that he was (i think or stubborn)

That was in 1963 when little lookin popped out ( hello ) ... he died in 1969 so i became a truckdriver

Just imagine i could have been a Pom and if i became a clock maker, Big Ben might have been a bit different to what it is now



And i'd be able to spell and put commas ect in their right places


Ur funny.

Do u enjoy being a Truck driver ?
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Dec 9, 2017 1:07 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
stemik62
stemik62stemik62Denver, Colorado USA6 Posts
Why should anyone change the way they are for someone else? Later in life that person who changes will change back to who they are and it will seem like a waste of time in this short life of ours. And if we change for someone else in a relation that only hurts that relation down the road. Everyone just needs to be themselves and if another does not like that person, just move on but respect who that person is. Being who one naturally is is what makes this a great wonderful world, but only if that person is truly who they are.
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Dec 9, 2017 1:10 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
stemik62: Why should anyone change the way they are for someone else? Later in life that person who changes will change back to who they are and it will seem like a waste of time in this short life of ours. And if we change for someone else in a relation that only hurts that relation down the road. Everyone just needs to be themselves and if another does not like that person, just move on but respect who that person is. Being who one naturally is is what makes this a great wonderful world, but only if that person is truly who they are.


Gee, u almost speak my language !
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Dec 9, 2017 1:12 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Lookin4missright: I concur papa lookin had plans for me to study something and go to Oxford University in England and be successful at something being a proud Polish man that he was (i think or stubborn)

That was in 1963 when little lookin popped out ( hello ) ... he died in 1969 so i became a truckdriver

Just imagine i could have been a Pom and if i became a clock maker, Big Ben might have been a bit different to what it is now



And i'd be able to spell and put commas ect in their right places



Pssst dude, I think Big Ben is the GREAT BIG Bell hanging behind the clock.... jest saying.
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Dec 9, 2017 1:47 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
galrads: Pssst dude, I think Big Ben is the GREAT BIG Bell hanging behind the clock.... jest saying.




Serinous conversing ?? confused

Well aint they lucky i did'nt become a Pommy clock maker or engineer


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Dec 9, 2017 1:54 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
galrads: Pssst dude, I think Big Ben is the GREAT BIG Bell hanging behind the clock.... jest saying.



Bloody bell mate you're right conversing cheers i don't recall seeing a bell in back to the future confused

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Dec 9, 2017 2:33 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
KremaP: It's mostly a women thing...
They can't wait to get their hands on your wardrobe, hair, interior and group of friends...
Men usually say they want to be accepted for what they are ...but women never listen...she already plans your total make over...
Just to say "you're are not the man I fell in love with"... after the transformation is completed...


What Krema said laugh

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Dec 9, 2017 2:37 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
stringman
stringmanstringmanwallaceburg, Ontario Canada649 Threads 1 Polls 7,049 Posts
..but women never listen...laugh now that is true.
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Dec 9, 2017 2:44 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Aragorn11: What Krema said


And u believe people r too.stupid to c thru u ?

Of courve if u agree with her u get off the hook.

U act like a Troll.
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Dec 9, 2017 2:46 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Mickmjb
MickmjbMickmjbMansfield, Nottinghamshire, England UK2 Threads 245 Posts
I reckon if you're trying to change someone, it maybe because you're with the wrong person anyway...I'll go back to what I said on a different thread, To many people fall in love with someone they don't like.
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Dec 9, 2017 2:50 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Mickmjb: I reckon if you're trying to change someone, it maybe because you're with the wrong person anyway...I'll go back to what I said on a different thread, To many people fall in love with someone they don't like.


The common excuse is

Opposites attract

And most get away with it
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Dec 9, 2017 3:00 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Aragorn11: You're very hard to communicate with
So I'll leave you in peace to work out those anger issues.


I choose who I communicate with.
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Dec 9, 2017 3:45 PM CST What is more remarkable:- People that do change or those who don't
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Aragorn11: You're very hard to communicate with
So I'll leave you in peace to work out those anger issues.



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