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Dec 19, 2017 3:55 PM CST The lack of experience
Maya74
Maya74Maya74Atlanta, Georgia USA7 Threads 170 Posts
Would you date a person who has never had any love experience? And - I don't mean - dating a young person, but someone who is around your age, but has never had a relationship? Would that bother you? Or would you find it interesting? Fun? Challenging? Maybe tiresome? Or annoying? Or - perhaps - you wouldn't mind at all?

Did you have that kind of experience and did it work out?
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Dec 19, 2017 3:59 PM CST The lack of experience
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Maya74: Would you date a person who has never had any love experience? And - I don't mean - dating a young person, but someone who is around your age, but has never had a relationship? Would that bother you? Or would you find it interesting? Fun? Challenging? Maybe tiresome? Or annoying? Or - perhaps - you wouldn't mind at all?

Did you have that kind of experience and did it work out?



It all depends on the circumstances.

I certainly wouldn't rule it out anyway.
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Dec 19, 2017 4:00 PM CST The lack of experience
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Maya74: Would you date a person who has never had any love experience? And - I don't mean - dating a young person, but someone who is around your age, but has never had a relationship? Would that bother you? Or would you find it interesting? Fun? Challenging? Maybe tiresome? Or annoying? Or - perhaps - you wouldn't mind at all?

Did you have that kind of experience and did it work out?


It wouldn't stop me from.dating them but it would make me ask them why they havnt had or felt they wanted one.
Someone's past wouldn't really bother me as we all have a past.
I think it would be quite nice being someone's first girlfriend actually.
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Dec 19, 2017 4:01 PM CST The lack of experience
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Maya74: Would you date a person who has never had any love experience? And - I don't mean - dating a young person, but someone who is around your age, but has never had a relationship? Would that bother you? Or would you find it interesting? Fun? Challenging? Maybe tiresome? Or annoying? Or - perhaps - you wouldn't mind at all?

Did you have that kind of experience and did it work out?


Do you mean making love experience, or have never been in love?
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Dec 19, 2017 4:05 PM CST The lack of experience
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Maya74: Would you date a person who has never had any love experience? And - I don't mean - dating a young person, but someone who is around your age, but has never had a relationship? Would that bother you? Or would you find it interesting? Fun? Challenging? Maybe tiresome? Or annoying? Or - perhaps - you wouldn't mind at all?

Did you have that kind of experience and did it work out?



I have been asked out by a man about my own age, who has never

had a relationship,,,,,, but seems to be in the know about treating a woman well.

I think that they find themselves at a certain stage in life ,alone and are lonely.

I will meet him sometime , and find out the story.
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Dec 19, 2017 4:06 PM CST The lack of experience
Maya74
Maya74Maya74Atlanta, Georgia USA7 Threads 170 Posts
One2note: Do you mean making love experience, or have never been in love?


No experience at all - being in love, even kissing someone.



I'm asking this because I met such a person a few months ago. And he was a great person - but it didn't work out due to unrealistic expectations. I couldn't compete with his ideals about love and I constantly wanted him to behave the way I know someone experienced would. I still feel bad because of my own expectations, however... moping
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Dec 19, 2017 4:07 PM CST The lack of experience
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Maya74: Would you date a person who has never had any love experience? And - I don't mean - dating a young person, but someone who is around your age, but has never had a relationship? Would that bother you? Or would you find it interesting? Fun? Challenging? Maybe tiresome? Or annoying? Or - perhaps - you wouldn't mind at all?

Did you have that kind of experience and did it work out?



My late husband didn't get a lot of the kind of love and care as a child which All Children deserve during their childhood years some people don't get.Someone can get the harmful kind of love.

Obviously I married him anyway.
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Dec 19, 2017 4:08 PM CST The lack of experience
Maya74
Maya74Maya74Atlanta, Georgia USA7 Threads 170 Posts
annaroach: I have been asked out by a man about my own age, who has never

had a relationship,,,,,, but seems to be in the know about treating a woman well.

I think that they find themselves at a certain stage in life ,alone and are lonely.

I will meet him sometime , and find out the story.


It seems that it is not that rare as I thought...
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Dec 19, 2017 4:09 PM CST The lack of experience
Maya74
Maya74Maya74Atlanta, Georgia USA7 Threads 170 Posts
Ccincy: My late husband didn't get a lot of the kind of love and care as a child which All Children deserve during their childhood years some people don't get.Someone can get the harmful kind of love.

Obviously I married him anyway.


I meant - romantic love experience - having a girlfriend/boyfriend. I guess I didn't explained it well...
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Dec 19, 2017 4:12 PM CST The lack of experience
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Maya74: It seems that it is not that rare as I thought...




It's not here anyway,, a lot of farmers,, possibly living with parents.

and nobody good enough in the parents eyes, for their son , then when they pass away,

the son goes out chasing women etc.
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Dec 19, 2017 4:13 PM CST The lack of experience
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Maya74: No experience at all - being in love, even kissing someone.



I'm asking this because I met such a person a few months ago. And he was a great person - but it didn't work out due to unrealistic expectations. I couldn't compete with his ideals about love and I constantly wanted him to behave the way I know someone experienced would. I still feel bad because of my own expectations, however...


It does raise a few suspicions, as to why a man of a certain age hasn't any experience in that department.

Having lots of experience can go either way. Some people become bitter because of past failed relationships, whereas others use the experience in a positive way.
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Dec 19, 2017 4:13 PM CST The lack of experience
Deedee123x: It wouldn't stop me from.dating them but it would make me ask them why they havnt had or felt they wanted one.
Someone's past wouldn't really bother me as we all have a past.
I think it would be quite nice being someone's first girlfriend actually.
Wow a virgin boy,, not many of them around,,,
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Dec 19, 2017 4:14 PM CST The lack of experience
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
annaroach: It's not here anyway,, a lot of farmers,, possibly living with parents.

and nobody good enough in the parents eyes, for their son , then when they pass away,

the son goes out chasing women etc.

Ah yes Irish Mothers and their Sons!!!!
roll eyes
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Dec 19, 2017 4:15 PM CST The lack of experience
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
michaelright: Wow a virgin boy,, not many of them around,,,


I didn't realise the op meant a virgin I just thought she meant love.
My misunderstanding....but no it still wouldn't stop me if he was a gentleman who knew how to treat a Lady.
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Dec 19, 2017 4:17 PM CST The lack of experience
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Maya74: I meant - romantic love experience - having a girlfriend/boyfriend. I guess I didn't explained it well...



OOPS he was not virgin.laugh
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Dec 19, 2017 4:23 PM CST The lack of experience
Maya74
Maya74Maya74Atlanta, Georgia USA7 Threads 170 Posts
annaroach: It's not here anyway,, a lot of farmers,, possibly living with parents.


Yes, it's similar here, too, but this man was different - educated and intelligent...


One2note: It does raise a few suspicions, as to why a man of a certain age hasn't any experience in that department.


That's true... I was also shocked. And - I still think that the main reason lies in very high expectations... At least I felt like being compared to some ideal all the time...

Ccincy: OOPS he was not virgin.


It's a different story then. laugh
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Dec 19, 2017 4:28 PM CST The lack of experience
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Lack of experience is no good.

Imagine having to teach them ,,,,noooooooo laugh laugh conversing
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Dec 19, 2017 4:31 PM CST The lack of experience
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Maya74:


It's a different story then.


But he had plenty of experience.grin blushing laugh
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Dec 19, 2017 4:31 PM CST The lack of experience
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
annaroach: Lack of experience is no good.

Imagine having to teach them ,,,,noooooooo


He could have been a natural!

I know I was , when when my first took my cherryblushing
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Dec 19, 2017 4:34 PM CST The lack of experience
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: He could have been a natural!

I know I was , when when my first took my cherry



There is always that ,i guess,innocent uh oh
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